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Retaining a woman who said she is tired of You is illogical. Her new lover may be the one in charge while you are cooling in the cold ..Let her go ..See your investment as a bad one and move

Quick one here, are you sure you are not married to OS? Because why should you not share same mind with your wife?

Sorry but i think you re married to a retired OS

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

Singhabele:
U mean with all d things happening u mo learn wen u deygive herv30m u no consult anyone think8ng u are wise. Wen u c online dat women no love they only love wat u can prove and if oppcome dey move u think that not my portion.

Oboy just cputv30m as losses and move on u will be wise not not like mugu

Men let this sink in

HOS ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEMSELVES.

Don't allow yourself get carried away by the love they are showing you... Love them back but keep the bolded in mind always.

SINisSIN:
No, she is not. She can't even try it because na she go carry the consequences if she misbehave. If she wants to leave the marriage, there are some things we need to do in her village before she can sleep with another man.

Please which village is that let me go and look for wife there

Kobojunkie:
Are you OK in the head at all? A man insinuates that because he invested 30 million in Japa plan, the woman is not supposed to be able to divorce him after that. What has that to do with women but with the man?

who hurt you madam

“The lady”. Lol. Says it all.

His money mule no longer wants to give him her salary.

cr7lomo:
U always find a way to blame the man thats the victim....after the sacrifice.... Will u say same if a woman spent 30m to bring her man to UK and they man then dumps her for another woman?? The difference between men and women is that men will attack their fellow men when they do that...but women will hardly do same to their fellow women that do wrong.... if women are not the problem in domestic issues, why is it that its always mother in law and sister in law vs wife.... why is it that women always fight each other when they live together...why is it that 80 % of lesbian marriages end in divorce and violence, while on the other hand 20% of gay male marriages end in divorce ... while 50% of heterosexual marriages end in divorce.... why is it that women are very violent towards those weaker than them, like children ,their workers and sick people....

Go and be gay.

Ifybwoy:
✓ who hurt you madam

Ever heard the saying, "All is fair in love and war,"? I am going to guess you never have hence the reason for your question.

cr7lomo:
✓ U always find a way to blame the man thats the victim....after the sacrifice.... Will u say same if a woman spent 30m to bring her man to UK and they man then dumps her for another woman?? ....

The fact that you take my simple question as a sign of blame all but cements the fact that your brain farts are not worth digging through. The poster made an ambiguous statement suggesting his wife was meant to be indebted to be by reason of his 30 million --- I wonder how many people japa-ed with her for that amount -- investment. My immediate question was why suggest she had to stay for that. All the same, you take it as blame? That is obviously a you problem not mine.

By the way, I would react the same way if a woman were to suggest that paying her man's school fees somehow meant he was obligated to remain with her arse as though he were property. But I see, you are more interested in shifting your issues onto me in this case. So, I choose to waka pass!

Wan ti gbe ni handicap

DOUBLEBARREL:
Ur ability to taint your judgement lens by being partial always showsyour inability to be a jury in heart matters. 6 months means there was a planning to snitch prior to arrival, that's betrayal.

Why does a mere question about whether investing in someone you are in a marriage with makes her your property scare you lot?

DestinedForGrea:
.... I understand that you're trying to be logical but your desperation to show it just makes you look unintelligent and antagonistic.
You keep depending on Internet research to get information, and as soon as you find as resource that supports your opinion, you hold on to it and make an absolute conclusion on the subject matter with that research. It's as if you don't have a mind of your own to really think on a matter.You're deceiving yourself, big time!

Nonsense and eegridient! 🙄🙄🙄

Go spend your time learning how to critically reason through issues, in order that you no longer attack issues you have little to no understanding of.

You cannot buy nor force a woman's love. If it didn't dey, it didn't dey. Men who fall for this kind of scam are men who really didn't do girls while growing up. They exist in organisations too, where they use their positions, power and/or money to coerce women to be with them.
It's even better she divorced him than one ends up killing the other much later.

Using word "property"makes it sound like they were disposable at any slight loss of interest and what she did was way to go... Of course a single post doesn't tell the full picture, unless we live in their bodies and live all their pains and experiences can we empathize with their choice in marital decisions. But from experiences I've lived.. no loss is final except death ,not even loss of billions,... And also I wouldn't say property, I'd say a spouse who would act as a care giver and whom I'd help as a defender from uncertainty I can with, not because she is a child to be protected but because she is an adult who sometimes want to be pampered like a baby. But u have seen the light ,to you the other compliment is a property to be used to attain social climbing, hence our disconnect. This is a pathetic ideology to have

Kobojunkie:
Why does a mere question about whether investing in someone you are in a marriage with makes her your property scare you lot?

Kobojunkie:
The fact that you take my simple question as a sign of blame all but cements the fact that your brain farts are not worth digging through. The poster made an ambiguous statement suggesting his wife was meant to be indebted to be by reason of his 30 million --- I wonder how many people japa-ed with her for that amount -- investment. My immediate question was why suggest she had to stay for that. All the same, you take it as blame? That is obviously a you problem not mine.

By the way, I would react the same way if a woman were to suggest that paying her man's school fees somehow meant he was obligated to remain with her arse as though he were property. But I see, you are more interested in shifting your issues onto me in this case. So, I choose to waka pass!

All these entitled unappreciative scammers ....so why accept the offer in the first place??

Which of the William Shakespeare said this ? is it the one from Akure ?

STARGREEN:
William Shakespeare said... "The thief has gone with a lot and a lot to catch the thief...loss upon loss yet no satisfaction"

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense and eegridient! 🙄🙄🙄

Go spend your time learning how to critically reason through issues, in order that you no longer attack issues you have little to no understanding of.

Lol coming from someone who thinks a man spending on his wife makes him consider her his property. You don't know that when a person loves someone, he goes to distant lengths to ensure that person's happiness and fulfillment.

You're naturally kind to the people you love, and although love and kindness should not be conditional, it hurts when you're paid back with a different coin. He sponsored her relocation to a better environment, and within a few months, she decided to leave him. You expect him to not feel hurt?

It's funny how everything you said here describes you. You always want to show that you have an opinion about everything, when you really don't. You just love to argue and show that you're right.

You're not as intelligent as you think you are. Intelligent people are not close-minded. You're close-minded and unable to reason with. I wonder how your friends cope with you, that's even if you have any.

Kobojunkie:
Loses? We are talking of someone who he was married to. And 30 million to Japa? How many kids did she travel with? 7? How long were they married? We don't know anything except that the man's comment reads like she is supposed the be some property because he paid for the Japa trip.

Yes, that info should be made available, but the woman only wanted to lay her hands on the money and opportunity just to dump him.

fxexperts:
✓ Yes, that info should be made available, but the woman only wanted to lay her hands on the money and opportunity just to dump him.

Stop lying, abeg! You know the woman only wanted this because the man only gave you this measly detail? Abeg, get away! 😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying, abeg! You know the woman only wanted this because the man only gave you this measly detail? Abeg, get away! 😩😩😩😩

You are the one always jumping into dumb conclusions all the time. Always giving daft one-sided conclusion on every matter. Hope you are not married else,, ehhnn...

fxexperts:
You are the one always jumping into dumb conclusions all the time. Always giving daft one-sided conclusion on every matter. Hope you are not married else,, ehhnn...

Are you certain you are OK at all? I asked a simple question focused entirely on an insinuation contained in the man's statement, but here you are all over the place over just that. And for what?

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you are OK at all? I asked a simple question focused entirely on an insinuation contained in the man's statement, but here you are all over the place over just that. And for what?

Your thought process is never right for a normal human being, so you really need to think deeply if you are truly okay.

fxexperts:
➜Your thought process is never right for a normal human being, so you really need to think deeply if you are truly okay.

Your idea of normal does not fit with my idea of normal. Simple!

Kobojunkie:
Your idea of normal does not fit with my idea of normal. Simple!

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

SINisSIN:
2023, my wife kept disturbing that we should relocate, the disturbance was so much that I had to tell her that if we are moving at all, then we will share the relocation fee 50 50. Bring 20m, I drop 20m then let's start the planning.

I no hear pim again. I told her if you want to relocate, in all honesty and fairness, if you have the money to take care of your journey, you are good to go and I will be coming over to see you. Since then till now, I no hear any relocation wahala again...

She will wake up one day and throw a big surprise at your face..
She will just wake up one day and tell you that she had gathered enough money for herself to relocate first.

She is working seriously underground for this without your knowing..

Mcslize:
Lol. Some woe-to-men (womén) wicked sha. Money you should have invested in yourself.

Rule number 1: Never upgrade or invest in a womán, when you haven't upgraded or invested in yourself, cuz she will leave you after upgrading her status with the excuse of "you are no longer my class".

Wíckedñess of some woe-mén is incomparable, unmatched and second to non.

May you never run out of wisdom, May you live long 🙏. Yes oOoOO, let her do it all by herself 🤷🏿

Chilipepper:
After spending ₦30m to sponsor her to the UK, she’s now filing for divorce after 6 months” — Nigerian man seeks legal help to protect his interest.

Run her issues locally........

This is a fake story. It is only a foolish man that can send his wife abroad to be more enlightened and richer than him while he stays in Nigeria. It is a fabricated story.