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As you see the girl so, she no look like hookup girl?

By their fruits we know them.

free2ryhme:
She's a mother of two—why is she dressed like that? Have you seen the videos of her circulating online? If something serious had happened, like a kidnapping, people in her neighborhood would have reported it to the police by now

Did you need to answer, hypocrisy people that are majority in humanity, they will seeeeee white and start proofing black, no wonder their nation is in abject poverty in midst of surplus.


A lady who is mother of two, who is no longer teen of 16-22, dressed like that, killed and disposed in such area, yet hypocrites still want to make black a white to proof a point.


The question they supposed to ask themselves is,.....why ladies involved in this type of killings, far far far more than guys?

GloriousGbola:
it is because most nigerians brains have been ravaged by poverty and religion which leads to the just world fallacy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_fallacy

simply put they will justify bad things happening to people

the more miserable and unhappy their own lives are, the more they will seek to blame people for misfortune

hiny umoren was also raped and killed in the same uyo by a serial killer who sentout fake job adverts. if she had not been paranoid and had her friends on the lookout, the louts on SM would have also called her a runs girl

same for taht girl who was raped and murdered in brt

even poco [years ago] had a run in with one chance robbers who put abonniki in her eyes ad pushed her off a moving bus. because of SM riff raff what was going through her mind was if i did this is how some low life human beings will say i was doing hook up

@semid4lyfe i am sure you are seeing how on this platform everything is turned to an avenue for bashing women

Na here you come waylay me? Respond to me on the other thread otherwise make we die the matter.

As always, accept the assurances of my highest regard. Safe.

It's misogyny - Miss Ogini. Mr. O gini. Or whatever you want to call it.

What else?

ImoleNaija:
The main reason I hate this line of thinking is that it kind of justifies the murder.

It won't justify the murder to me.
The thing is that we Nigerians judge people a lot by their appearance.Imagine going into all these local markets to get something.Getting there, the seller recognizes you with your dress even if you are not what they think you are and then they will call a higher price for you because of your appearance.That is the way it's
If you see a lady on a very short gown,nose ring,leg chain,tattoo etc and a guy with ear rings, plaited hair, sagging, tattoos etc What comes to your mind first?

90 per of it is hookup , that is truth, especially to the single mothers, who is willing to do anything to Carter for her kids

Because women love money and can do anything to get it

It is because people are mostly mentally lazy and choose the easiest and basic line of reasoning , a linear type of reasoning associated predominantly with the weakly educated.

Most of them were victims of the profession. If you see the situation happen fifty times, the fifty-first time will be assumed to be the same regardless of outcome.

To ask this question is stupid and naive! Most women who get into risky situations with the few evil men in society find themselves there due to hook up culture or prostitution.

004gist:
Even if it's hookup. Does anyone deserve to die just like that?
Is hookup illegal?
Does hookup affect anyone lives rather the one who engaged in it?

In Europe here there are hookups here and there.
In Nigeria we major on minor and minor on major

Our people are dem.onic and wic.ked. Nothing else. Their religious rantings don't faze me.

Solofresh2:
It won't justify the murder to me.
The thing is that we Nigerians judge people a lot by their appearance.Imagine going into all these local markets to get something.Getting there, the seller recognizes you with your dress even if you are not what they think you are and then they will call a higher price for you because of your appearance.That is the way it's
If you see a lady on a very short gown,nose ring,leg chain,tattoo etc and a guy with ear rings, plaited hair, sagging, tattoos etc What comes to your mind first?

Bamidele and Umoren never had those accessories, but got killed. Even the lady in this thread does not have such.

geoworldedu:
Entering an empty BRT bus can kill a woman. That girl from Ajah comes to mind. Mr Nice Andrew Omonikoron killed her and dumped her body on the road. Her saving grace was that she sent a message to a friend. If not, you would have tagged her olosho in death without knowing.

Bamidele. A young woman who left work for home got murdered by a BRT DRIVER o.

Our men will chant that we are polygamous by nature, men need to have side chics, praise the patronage of "OS" tirelessly on Twitter, only to castigate the same people they patronise and even kill them. ExxonMobil does not criticise Baker Hughes for the services the latter offers. Na only for fork I don see buyer dey criticise seller, and as we know, without the buyer, the seller wouldn't exist.

What made him killed her sef?
I heard the news but I was so occupied during that period, i couldn't read the article deep to understand about the murder!

geoworldedu:
Entering an empty BRT bus can kill a woman. That girl from Ajah comes to mind. Mr Nice Andrew Omonikoron killed her and dumped her body on the road. Her saving grace was that she sent a message to a friend. If not, you would have tagged her olosho in death without knowing.

Gerrard59:
Bamidele. A young woman who left work for home got murdered by a BRT DRIVER o.

I completely forgot her name earlier. You just gave me clue. It's actually Bamishe, not Bamidele. Thanks anyway.

Normally, in real life, you are judge first from the way you dress. Maybe later people will start seeing the real you. But appearance matters most!

This is a bitter truth!

Solofresh2:
It won't justify the murder to me.
The thing is that we Nigerians judge people a lot by their appearance.Imagine going into all these local markets to get something.Getting there, the seller recognizes you with your dress even if you are not what they think you are and then they will call a higher price for you because of your appearance.That is the way it's
If you see a lady on a very short gown,nose ring,leg chain,tattoo etc and a guy with ear rings, plaited hair, sagging, tattoos etc What comes to your mind first?

NSNO:
This is in response to the single mother of two who was found dead.
Why are Nigerians like this? A woman was found dead, the next thing you hear "hook up", "olosho", "ashawo"?

So in your own reptilian brain, only prostitutes are killed and dumped? Even if they are prostitutes, do they deserve to be killed?

The main reason I hate this line of thinking is that it kind of justifies the murder.

Empathy and compassion is a good character trait, learn it.

This is because many of those guys are addicted to carrying Ashewo or HK...so their mentality has been destroyed...Some their mothers trained them in such environments... So they thought all ladies and women are like their mother/sisters...

NSNO:
This is in response to the single mother of two who was found dead.
Why are Nigerians like this? A woman was found dead, the next thing you hear "hook up", "olosho", "ashawo"?

So in your own reptilian brain, only prostitutes are killed and dumped? Even if they are prostitutes, do they deserve to be killed?

The main reason I hate this line of thinking is that it kind of justifies the murder.

Empathy and compassion is a good character trait, learn it.

The same way people like you shout karma when a politician dies.

A lot pointed towards heart attack but giving the time and place she was discovered, no sign of physical abuse.

My conclusion is
1. heart attack
2. heard drugs

saphiere:
Nigerian men are intimidated by our success. Small thing. Na man but give her

go sit down. Women u know yourself. We men wey we dey go out every day, we know what we see. Despite they are working, girls go still dey run after men for money. I never see girl wey dey satisfied with what she has. Is she get business, she go still dey beg guy for money. And if u are into begging, u go do hook up

I have always advise people to avoid wearing black clothes, it attracts bad luck and energy, imagine someone wear black cloth die with am. RIP to her, I feel for her dependants.

NSNO:
This is in response to the single mother of two who was found dead.
Why are Nigerians like this? A woman was found dead, the next thing you hear "hook up", "olosho", "ashawo"?

So in your own reptilian brain, only prostitutes are killed and dumped? Even if they are prostitutes, do they deserve to be killed?

The main reason I hate this line of thinking is that it kind of justifies the murder.

Empathy and compassion is a good character trait, learn it.

GloriousGbola:
it is because most nigerians brains have been ravaged by poverty and religion which leads to the just world fallacy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_fallacy

simply put they will justify bad things happening to people

the more miserable and unhappy their own lives are, the more they will seek to blame people for misfortune

hiny umoren was also raped and killed in the same uyo by a serial killer who sentout fake job adverts. if she had not been paranoid and had her friends on the lookout, the louts on SM would have also called her a runs girl

same for taht girl who was raped and murdered in brt

even poco [years ago] had a run in with one chance robbers who put abonniki in her eyes ad pushed her off a moving bus. because of SM riff raff what was going through her mind was if i did this is how some low life human beings will say i was doing hook up

@semid4lyfe i am sure you are seeing how on this platform everything is turned to an avenue for bashing women

The gender wars have gotten out of hand boss. And it's not just on nairaland even Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and every online space has seen huge increase in misogyny and constant bashing of women.

geoworldedu:
Assuming the girl who was killed in the BRT bus by the driver didn't send message before her death, they would have tagged her olosho killed for Yahoo purpose. Now she became a hero in death because of that act. I have never and I will never condemn people who are killed without knowing how they died. Never never!!!

Exactly my point! People just talk anyhow without reasoning.

MrIcredible:
Because 99% of times, it's actually hookups that leads to it.
That's why I never pity them.

WHEN YOU'RE LAZY AND GREEDY, YOU'LL FALL FOR SUCH EVENT EASILY.

Stop this sort of thinking...so you that is the moral judge, of what use are you to society.

If this is your line of thought then you are a liability to mankind for enabling murderers with this cave mentality. Some day it will be a family member you that's killed and we shall see how you will react.

We reap what we sow in life eventually

geoworldedu:
Assuming the girl who was killed in the BRT bus by the driver didn't send message before her death, they would have tagged her olosho killed for Yahoo purpose. Now she became a hero in death because of that act. I have never and I will never condemn people who are killed without knowing how they died. Never never!!!

Exactly my friend!
These killers already know the primitive mindset of some Nigerians so they sometimes strip the corpse and make the scene look like a hook up crime scene people will blame the dead victims instead of looking for her killers
Unfortunately, some of our policemen have this same mentality

These guys target and snatch people from the streets and drug them, rape and kill them. Then leave the crime scene manipulated for idiots to reason like cows. Even if she does hook-up....how's that a crime punishable by death. You that chase girls upandan imagine being ambushed by some women and killed.

Tzar:
To ask this question is stupid and naive! Most women who get into risky situations with the few evil men in society find themselves there due to hook up culture or prostitution.

“Most women.”
“Few evil men.”

It seems like you might be biased…anyway, the majority of this country’s population seems to think like you.

NSNO:
This is in response to the single mother of two who was found dead.
Why are Nigerians like this? A woman was found dead, the next thing you hear "hook up", "olosho", "ashawo"?

So in your own reptilian brain, only prostitutes are killed and dumped? Even if they are prostitutes, do they deserve to be killed?

The main reason I hate this line of thinking is that it kind of justifies the murder.

Empathy and compassion is a good character trait, learn it.

If na the thing wey she dey do be that then she got wetin she dey find

geoworldedu:
I completely forgot her name earlier. You just gave me clue. It's actually Bamishe, not Bamidele. Thanks anyway.

Oh! Bamishe is her name.

She even got a Wikipedia article, and she was damn young! 22
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Oluwabamise_Ayanwole
P.S. Bamise