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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by erad(m): 10:07am On Jun 29, 2025

These type of people dey fear me.

You got married to someone because of how she was and now you want to change those things about her. How nah?

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by bukatyne(f): 1:25pm On Jun 29, 2025

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??

You are a clear example of why we discourage children from going into marriage.

You should attained some level of maturity before going into marriage

@bold:

Hahahahaha haha!

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Hakky1123: 5:47pm On Jun 29, 2025

Haha if she is a core introvert, you can never make her turn to an extrovert, highest she'll just get used to you and act as an extrovert only when you are around or when her friends are around.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Lezzlie(m): 9:24am On Jun 30, 2025

Monday morning, Mr Seun. This shouldn't be headlines nah.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Chetas81(m): 9:28am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

you need doctor, as you failed to married your own type, what should we do now?

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by judewrites: 9:29am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Unfortunately no one can change human personality, not even by surgery-Lol.

That's why opposite attracts, outspoken people are attracted to quiet people in relationships.

You can only complement your partner, not change her_you both are one.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Babangidapikin: 9:29am On Jun 30, 2025

Some people don't go out if it's not necessary, not everyone is a social animal, some people are okay with themselves... Anyway you can buy her a 2025 Escalade let see if that improves things a bit.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Sijo01(f): 9:31am On Jun 30, 2025

There's nothing you can do. Was she not like that when you were dating her?

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by dalass(f): 9:32am On Jun 30, 2025

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??

You are a clear example of why we discourage children from going into marriage.

You should attained some level of maturity before going into marriage

I wish I can like this your response like 1,000 times. The introvert attracted the extrovert in him, now he wants to change her nature...

I'm sure he's the type that'll embarrass her publicly too., despite knowing she'd rather enjoy her privacy undecided

I agree the guy is immature tongue

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by MightySparrow: 9:34am On Jun 30, 2025

Go and display her in a showcase in a public place for seven days.

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by jayce232: 9:35am On Jun 30, 2025

DonEd:
My dear brother in the Lord,

You didn't give any meaningful advice or counsel to the matter.

If u dont have anything to say, just scroll past.

Bless u brother in the Lord.

He actually gave the best advice!
We need to understand human nature is not same. Before committing to someone, learn to understand them. If the wife can't turn the husband to introvert, trying to change the wife to extrovert is inviting trouble.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by SocialJustice: 9:36am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Carry your wahala and go abeg, this is Monday morning.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Kobojunkie: 9:39am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
✓ My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much. What can I do

Did she put a gun to your head to wife her abi wetin? 🥱🥱🥱

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Chucks13: 9:39am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Oga which kain problem is this? You lucky get wifewey dey mind her business dey live her life in peace yet you nor satisfy, oga if you go jam social media wife wey you dey find I swear you go dey cry every day and night.

And by the way didn't you dated her before you married her? Because I'm sick of all these my wife is this my wife is that didn't you know her before you got inside the marriage or what type of late excuses are all these?

You better calm down and manage her well before you loose her. Eyes go turn you.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by lexy2014: 9:39am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

you didn't answer the questions he asked.

are you just finding out that the woman you say is your wife is an introvert?

Exousiang01:
Did you find out your wife was an introvert after your wedding?

Are you asking us for an advice on how to convert your wife to an extrovert??

You are obviously an extrovert, now how will you feel if your wife suddenly ask you to become an introvert??

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Kobojunkie: 9:41am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
✓ Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

Advice on whether to let your wife be herself or not? Are you :for real? undecided

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Brushstrokes20: 9:41am On Jun 30, 2025

I'm equally an introvert, so l like it when my woman is one 💑

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by TOFNI: 9:43am On Jun 30, 2025

Let her be ,but if you try to change her if you can,she may become what you never think of,and you may not be able to handle her.

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Wallade(m): 9:43am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

You have to live with it. She was like that when you found and dated her right.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Kobojunkie: 9:44am On Jun 30, 2025

Depriest2020:
✓ It's her nature, there's nothing you can do about it. Just start by encouraging her to go out with you sometimes, start in a quiet and not too crowded place. Little by little she will begin to enjoy going out with you.

Terrible idea! She is an introvert not a mentally ill recluse. OP says she is introverted, not mentally ill. undecided

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Abagworo(m): 9:45am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

You're lucky getting a woman with low expenses. All you need is buying small chops for her on your way home. Congratulations

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Kobojunkie: 9:46am On Jun 30, 2025

TOFNI:
Let her be ,but if you try to change her if you can,she may become what you never think of,and you may not be able to handle her.

Give him chance to come back to complain again about how his wife is still the problem..🥱🥱🥱

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by kuntash: 9:52am On Jun 30, 2025

DitariIzon:
Even the most matured and intelligent ones need marriage advice.

Real Matured or intelligent ones do not bring their marital affairs to the social media

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Nozarashi: 9:54am On Jun 30, 2025

What am I missing?
All I see is a normal person walking towards the door.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by ROK123(f): 9:58am On Jun 30, 2025

That's her nature, respect it and have peace in your home

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by samuelson06(m): 10:07am On Jun 30, 2025

Depriest2020:
It's her nature, there's nothing you can do about it. Just start by encouraging her to go out with you sometimes, start in a quiet and not too crowded place. Little by little she will begin to enjoy going out with you.

Your input isn't balanced and it's wrong. How about him adjusting to suit the woman? What partying? Is that what you are talking to him about encouraging his wife to do bit by bit? Doesn't make sense! Our country is so wild right now and no one should be proud that they're extrovert. You can easily run into problems in your bid to exercise your extroverted life.

By the way, how come the poster never realize his wife is an introvert before getting married to her? Why didn't he look for a party or club girl? Now, he's trying to force the girl to live a life that she's not used to. That's wrong.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Misterone: 10:07am On Jun 30, 2025

DonEd:
My dear brother in the Lord,

You didn't give any meaningful advice or counsel to the matter.

If u dont have anything to say, just scroll past.

Bless u brother in the Lord.

What he's telling you is that you should respect her for who she is and peace will reign in your family. It's difficult to start learning how to be left-handed in old age.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by olaJako(m): 10:08am On Jun 30, 2025

Respect her private life. As you get person wey dey dey house you no Like am.. if to say na lady wey like to wear wig and lashes con dey Waka your body for tell you. Appreciate her time you having.

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by 8starmember: 10:09am On Jun 30, 2025

You don't know what you have until you lose it

The kind of woman I want to make a wife...

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Fxwarrior: 10:17am On Jun 30, 2025

Depriest2020:
It's her nature, there's nothing you can do about it. Just start by encouraging her to go out with you sometimes, start in a quiet and not too crowded place. Little by little she will begin to enjoy going out with you.

What if she tries to make him stay indoors?

He knew she was an introvert and married her. Trying to change her is a sign of witchcraft. Let her be.

Marriage is not meant for you to change a full grown adult. That's why you should marry who complements you. If 2 of them become unapologetic extroverts who will manage the children?

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Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by AKWATGOLD1(m): 10:21am On Jun 30, 2025

It seems you don't like what Almighty God has endowed you with. You are still looking social media woman that will let all the families activities to the world for invasion of your house. Please accept your fate in good faith.

DitariIzon:
My wife is an introvert that don't love social life and I'm an extrovert that love social life and it's frustrating me.
She doesn't like parties or gatherings. She like inside house too much.
What can I do

Re: If You Find Your Wife Doing This: What Do You Do? by Exceed15: 10:21am On Jun 30, 2025

Why do some men use their own hands to destroy themselves?

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