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“If You Want a Traditional Wife, Be a Traditional Man” — Nigerians Lock Horns in Heated Gender Clash Over: Is Love Still Enough to Marry in Today’s Society? 😤💍🗣️

📹: @kayhikersclub




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDHZtX9YEkg

The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

There is nothing like traditional man and traditional woman, the both parties must work for the success of the home.

Truths9ja:
✓ The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

. How many of the men can fully provide for their household without fail? Isn't it better to share responsibilities rather than pretend you can have what you are not qualified/entitled to have— a traditional wife?

Kobojunkie:
How many of the men are able to fully provide for their household without fail? Isn't it better to share responsibilities than pretend you can have what you are not qualified to have. -- a traditional wife?

even if there's shares of responsibilities, no form of submission from the ladies again. Once they do little things in the family, they quickly say they are the ones providing for the family. Isn't that absurd?

GoodSpirit:
There is nothing like traditional man and traditional woman, the both parties must work for the success of the home.

exactly but the woman aren't ready for submission again.

Truths9ja:
➜ even if there's shares of responsibilities, no form of submission from the ladies again.
➜ Once they do little things in the family, they quickly say they are the ones providing for the family. Isn't that absurd?

Submission is only a requirement if the man is traditional in a traditional marriage. 😏

✓ A traditional wife should never have to "do little thing" in her traditional marriage. Again, the man is meant to be the sole provider in that model. Having the woman carry the man's weight at any point renders the marriage nontraditional. That the generation before this one accepted the unfair practice of women contributing to their traditional marriages is one thing. The current generation rightly chooses not to enslave themselves to similar stewpidity. 🤔

Kobojunkie:
Submission is only a requirement if the man is a traditional man in a traditional marriage.

✓ A traditional wide should never have to "do little thing" in her traditional marriage. Again, the man is meant to be the sole provider in that model. Having the woman carry the man's weight at any point renders the marriage nontraditional. That generation before this one accepted the unfair practice of women contributing to their traditional marriages is one thing. The current generation rightly choices not to enslave themselves to similar stewpidity..

in the Nigeria settings we are running, is the couple not going to do traditional wedding before the marriage start?

Blah blah blah

Y'all ladies are pained. GenZ ladies isonu

See as she dey provoke sef.

Gen Z men should only impregnate these women and live their lives in peace ✌️.

Everybody wants benefits, nobody wants responsibility.
You want a submissive, homely woman but you can’t even pay NEPA bill without complaining.
You’re not a traditional man if your woman is still splitting bills with you.
Let’s stop deceiving ourselves, you can’t withdraw what you didn’t deposit.

Another thread for quotes.

“If the sun rises, it must surely set.”

Camera man, I can't see her backside clearly to know if she is worth response or not, please always show their backside for people like us, thank you

This conversation will long ooooo. GenZ ladies aren't ready to submit again.

Truths9ja:
The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

I don't get moved or worried by girls like this, because I know where they will eventually end.

It's either they are ending up with a SIMple man or they will end up as evening newspapers.

A well nurtured lady always knows the difference between a man and a woman, she understands that they are not equals and can never be equals. So they know they must submit to a man, just the same way their mom's submitted to their fathers.

It also tells us about how ill trained and groomed these girls are. Failed parent brings nothing but shame and embarrassment to herself and her family.

Have you noticed that wedding ceremonies and events have reduced Post-covid ?

There is an imminent endemic on unmarried women and single mothers based on the factor stated.

The devil is so smart that it uses feminist as agents to recruit new gullible converts to the frustrating, confused and depressing world of Feminism.

I have a single mother of three (3) boys who prides herself as Hotmum on Facebook dishing out advice on singlehood and enduring divorce to gullible young women.

She had a high algorithm on her page with many likes, shares and comments but now her audience has reduced as she found love herself again after advising gullible Women on the benefits of singlehood.

Unfortunately for the Hotmum as she calls herself on Facebook the new Man abandoned her and she has resumed her crappy long epistle advice again on FB.

Lol will keep saying it is beta to jus keep patronizing whookup than stressing ursef this era....


The stress no worth am cum when you feel like and face ur work in peace without any unnecessary pressure or stress...



This days you discover is easy to achieve things being single than having all this girls around thinking your life will get easier....

Kobojunkie:
How many of the men are able to fully provide for their household without fail? Isn't it better to share responsibilities rather than pretend you can have what you are not qualified/entitled to have. -- a traditional wife?

Share responsibilites which also includes paying your husband Groom Price before Marriage, right?

Traditional men didnt do monogamy though.
So be careful what u ask for

What is d meaning of submission

I no dey understand again ooooooo


I always hear submission, submission submission

I don't even think this should be argument.
I think the major problem is the definition

Some see submissions as slavery, some see it as oppression


But my own is as a woman to your own definition of submission, if you can't submit don't marry

And to a if you you woman doesn't submit basic on your own definition why marry her

Just look at them talking about "your money is our money, but my money is my money. "Men aren’t asking you to hand over your money. They’re simply asking for your support.

A woman might claim she’s been supportive, but if you check where her money is actually going under that pretense, you’ll find it’s spent on things that serve her agenda.

Why should anyone say that a man who splits bills with his wife (not necessarily 50/50, it could be 70/30 or even 90/10) is "not qualified to be a traditional man"?

They keep pushing this "work and no work" narrative as if women before them never worked. Long before so-called civilization, our mothers were farmers growing vegetables and food for cooking while most men hunted or farmed yams and crops requiring more strength. So where is all this wokeness coming from?

For example, you tell your woman you need to renew the rent and pay school fees. She’ll say, "I don’t have money." But as soon as you come up with the funds, she suddenly buys a new school bag (even though the old one is still fine) or renews the pay TV subscription.

Madam, be truly supportive. Let the man lead without constant complaints. They say, "Men should be men," but when there’s noise outside at night, guess who they wake up to handle it? When the pipe is broken and needs quick fix who do dey call? When there's need to lift heavy equipment, who do they call?
Women should be women and men should be men

Before you marry, learn to be a supportive woman. Let the man lead. Stop thinking marriage will rescue you from poverty. And above all, keep your purity for your husband there’s a reason for it.

Make una continue to dey deceive una self.
Too much talk no dey full basket.
You see all dis babes wey dey make noise online, las las na marriage go humble dem.
no be by cho cho cho.

Lots of information is not really a negative thing. Processing information is the problem with this generation not even Gen Z alone. That’s why you have a lot of fakes out there. Many people are too Lazy to question or conduct research, they want everything done and delivered.

Truths9ja:
The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

Even though I'm not a gen Z, I support them with all the fibre in my being...
Women should not submit but rather by understanding partners in a relationship, the same applies to men .
Also women should be ready to foot 40% of the house bills and not rely solely on their husbands for basic expenses at home...

If our grandmothers and mother's submitted to their husbands cos of the patriarchal system in operations then, the present day genZs say nooooo.
Enough is enough, those people who made those sadistic laws and culture are dead and gone, we are alive and we will carve our own niche, we will create what we want for ourselves.....Finish

Even as a man, I agree 120%
The problem lies with the hypergamous nature of the modern woman

Even if you provide everything she needs, it doesn't stop her from insurbordination and 'moving up' at the slightest opportunity.

Truths9ja:
“If You Want a Traditional Wife, Be a Traditional Man” — Nigerians Lock Horns in Heated Gender Clash Over: Is Love Still Enough to Marry in Today’s Society? 😤💍🗣️

📹: @kayhikersclub




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fDHZtX9YEkg

Baddie don fire back with full throttle

Make una dey play 🤣🤣🤣

Who listens to a Genz perspective about life or marriage? People wey never know how to wash their pant and and cook well for themselves

83 percent of genz women aren't even wifeable, in few years to come we'll have more divorcees than single women.

This Gen-z matter is going to the extreme... This guys just came around year 2000 and now they're troubling the whole system. Kai