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MissOpe:
Even though I'm not a gen Z, I support them with all the fibre in my being...
Women should not submit but rather by understanding partners in a relationship, the same applies to men .
Also women should be ready to foot 40% of the house bills and not rely solely on their husbands for basic expenses at home...

If our grandmothers and mother's submitted to their husbands cos of the patriarchal system in operations then, the present day genZs say nooooo.
Enough is enough, those people who made those sadistic laws and culture are dead and gone, we are alive and we will carve our own niche, we will create what we want for ourselves.....Finish

What is your definition of submission



I want to understand things from your view

Truths9ja:
The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

Not true. My babe is a hot blooded genzee baddie. She do everything I said. .
The only thing is that I have to think thrice before asking her to do something or stop doing something.

She will always ask why, but she will do it regardless.

Or, she might tease me that she won't, but she will.

And if she doesn't understand, she will say. Ok, but I don't understand why. But, it's ok.

So, all it takes is reasonability. Be reasonable and any reasonable human will listen to you.

I personally know that if I start making unreasonable demands, she will rebel and tell me to do my worst. Someone that blocks her dad and refuse to pick any call from her family because they corrected her. I had to ask her to unblock them and speak to them.


I be gen zee too Sha. But not easily influenced by peer.

Truths9ja:
even if there's shares of responsibilities, no form of submission from the ladies again. Once they do little things in the family, they quickly say they are the ones providing for the family. Isn't that absurd?

Let's assume there's 50-50 shared responsibility at home, you still need the lady to submit abi, after she don change her name to your own, after she done born for u and her children dey use Ur name, and most times she'll do more of the chores and still go to work like u, u still need her to say yes sir to all your demands and request .
Mr man, make I no knack u wetin dey my mouth..

Truths9ja:
exactly but the woman aren't ready for submission again.

Yes we are not ready for it..
If men submit to women, will they die?
Awon werey

MissOpe:
Yes we are not ready for it..
If men submit to women, will they die?
Awon werey

sincerely men submit, the generation of ladies aren't lady again. Why? Is that not a curse niii?

Fuckyoumod:
I don't get moved or worried by girls like this, because I know where they will eventually end.

It's either they are ending up with a SIMple man or they will end up as evening newspapers.

A well nurtured lady always knows the difference between a man and a woman, she understands that they are not equals and can never be equals. So they know they must submit to a man, just the same way their mom's submitted to their fathers.

It also tells us about how ill trained and groomed these girls are. Failed parent brings nothing but shame and embarrassment to herself and her family.

All I see is pain .......
Everybody go collect wotoporously

MissOpe:
Let's assume there's 50-50 shared responsibility at home, you still need the lady to submit abi, after she don change her name to your own, after she done born for u and her children dey use Ur name, and most times she'll do more of the chores and still go to work like u, u still need her to say yes sir to all your demands and request .
Mr man, make I no knack u wetin dey my mouth..

As if it's the lady that will carry the responsibility of the family. This mentality doesn't add up at all. You should understand how family works

Kobojunkie:
Submission is only a requirement if the man is a traditional man in a traditional marriage.

✓ A traditional wide should never have to "do little thing" in her traditional marriage. Again, the man is meant to be the sole provider in that model. Having the woman carry the man's weight at any point renders the marriage nontraditional. That generation before this one accepted the unfair practice of women contributing to their traditional marriages is one thing. The current generation rightly choices not to enslave themselves to similar stewpidity..

U like saying what you do not know becos of arrogance
My grandfatt had 10 wives and each wife was responsible for feeding her own children
So stop saying rubbish
Just admit arrogance is your problem

Fryx:
Not true. My babe is a hot blooded genzee baddie. She do everything I said. .
The only thing is that I have to think thrice before asking her to do something or stop doing something.

She will always ask why, but she will do it regardless.

Or, she might tease me that she won't, but she will.

And if she doesn't understand, she will say. Ok, but I don't understand why. But, it's ok.

So, all it takes is reasonability. Be reasonable and any reasonable human will listen to you.

I personally know that if I start making unreasonable demands, she will rebel and tell me to do my worst. Someone that blocks her dad and refuse to pick any call from her family because they corrected her. I had to ask her to unblock them and speak to them.


I be gen zee too Sha. But not easily influenced by peer.

you should be very careful with her here. Hmm 🧐, she blocked her dad cos' they correct her, this is very bad. Her dad gan gan. Definitely, she's an hypocrite and should be closely monitored.

Make una leave her by the time she gets to Shiloh age nobody go tell her.

free2ryhme:
Baddie don fire back with full throttle

Make una dey play 🤣🤣🤣

Gen Z ladies of this days are very stubborn and not ready to submit to the husband instructions and leadership in the family.

Truths9ja:
Gen Z ladies of this days are very stubborn and not ready to submit to the husband instructions and leadership in the family.

Dey should stay unmarried and ib their fathers house

MissOpe:
Even though I'm not a gen Z, I support them with all the fibre in my being...
Women should not submit but rather by understanding partners in a relationship, the same applies to men .
Also women should be ready to foot 40% of the house bills and not rely solely on their husbands for basic expenses at home...

If our grandmothers and mother's submitted to their husbands cos of the patriarchal system in operations then, the present day genZs say nooooo.
Enough is enough, those people who made those sadistic laws and culture are dead and gone, we are alive and we will carve our own niche, we will create what we want for ourselves.....Finish

you are part of Gen Z ladies except you dey lie here. Doing more responsibilities in the house isn't a bad idea, it's a good idea. Infact it strengthen the family more. If there's more responsibilities for women in the home, men won't lose their mental health in the house. You should understand what I mean.

Fuckyoumod:
I don't get moved or worried by girls like this, because I know where they will eventually end.

It's either they are ending up with a SIMple man or they will end up as evening newspapers.

A well nurtured lady always knows the difference between a man and a woman, she understands that they are not equals and can never be equals. So they know they must submit to a man, just the same way their mom's submitted to their fathers.

It also tells us about how ill trained and groomed these girls are. Failed parent brings nothing but shame and embarrassment to herself and her family.

they are already ending up as evening newspaper cos' of their bad characters and wayward lives they are living in the society. No one wants to settle to any lady that's of no value.

Truths9ja:
As if it's the lady that will carry the responsibility of the family. This mentality doesn't add up at all. You should understand how family works

When you say responsibilities of the family....what do you mean by that?..
You no see where i say what if they split bills 50-50 and the ego stricken man demands submission...

You guys failed to realise that the submission our ancestral fathers and the manipulative men who wrote the bible demanded were done to subdued women...
If truly women were created to submit...
Why do we find it difficult to submit..?
The answer is simple, we also have ego like Men....
The women who submitted in the past, check well, majority of them were vulnerable and afraid of the consequences , not that it really pleased them to submit.....

For she to be screaming to prove a point shows that she lacks manners to start with. Now she made a point of her going to work and the man going to work. The question I would want to ask is who pays rent, who buys food stuffs and run the expenses of the home? Now if all that is done by the man then she must be stupid disturbing that environment with her noise. Unless she and the man are sharing expenses. That is why I always prefer the traditional style of man taking 100 percent of expenses so that your wife can settle into her duty without any form of ego.

Lanruze:
Have you noticed that wedding ceremonies and events have reduced Post-covid ?

There is an imminent endemic on unmarried women and single mothers based on the factor stated.

The devil is so smart that it uses feminist as agents to recruit new gullible converts to the frustrating, confused and depressing world of Feminism.

I have a single mother of three (3) boys who prides herself as Hotmum on Facebook dishing out advice on singlehood and enduring divorce to gullible young women.

She had a high algorithm on her page with many likes, shares and comments but now her audience has reduced as she found love herself again after advising gullible Women on the benefits of singlehood.

Unfortunately for the Hotmum as she calls herself on Facebook the new Man abandoned her and she has resumed her crappy long epistle advice again on FB.

Ladies Men are like

Negative news sells faster. Misery loves company. That's why I tell people to stay away from bad news, those with good homes don't broadcast it. If you let your life be directed by the content, the fake content of the internet, you too will be a subscriber to doom.

Truths9ja:
you are part of Gen Z ladies except you dey lie here. Doing more responsibilities in the house isn't a bad idea, it's a good idea. Infact it strengthen the family more. If there's more responsibilities for women in the home, men won't lose their mental health in the house. You should understand what I mean.

Ogbeni, am in my late 30s and in fact would be 40 next year, I fit no be gen z age wise but I'm a full blown genz at heart....

And I say again, if man and woman share responsibilities at home regardless of the sharing fomular , na half submission the man go dey get..

Life is transactional.....

Truths9ja:
The set of ladies in this generation aren't ready to submit to their husbands again. It's 50:50 sharing of responsibilities in the family here

I wish it was 50/50 in all areas.

Guys never had a prob being that traditional man ..

Na females with their double standard naim make us sef move away from the regular traditional ways..

MissOpe:
Let's assume there's 50-50 shared responsibility at home, you still need the lady to submit abi, after she don change her name to your own, after she done born for u and her children dey use Ur name, and most times she'll do more of the chores and still go to work like u, u still need her to say yes sir to all your demands and request .
Mr man, make I no knack u wetin dey my mouth..

Good argument. Okay missope, as a woman, what do you want?

After that, please respond to my next question.

What do you think women want?

No knack me akpako, let's have a discussion like adults that I believe you are.

boxypane:
I wish it was 50/50 in all areas. Na men wey wear skirt full outside now

it's becoming 50:50 already. Its just that the submission from women has reduced tremendously. It's very unfortunate situation in our families.

MissOpe:
Ogbeni, am in my late 30s and in fact would be 40 next year, I fit no be gen z age wise but I'm a full blown genz at heart....

And I say again, if man and woman share responsibilities at home regardless of the sharing fomular , na half submission the man go dey get..

Life is transactional.....

when you know that life is transactional why giving full responsibilities to men alone. If not because the men of this generation are wising up on responsibilities here. You can't think in that line before. The rate men died on top responsibility is alarming.

Just look at her face, her life is in chaos already, seriously misrepresenting decent women all around the glove.

I always tell parents keep your kids away from those ones who are badly raised by other parents

papyjaypaul:
Good argument. Okay missope, as a woman, what do you want?

After that, please respond to my next question.

What do you think women want?

No knack me akpako, let's have a discussion like adults that I believe you are.

I can't speak for all women , but I can speak for me....
Firstly, I don't want u to sing submission in my ears always, I'm very stubborn and ill not yield if ure forceful, I swear.
Secondly, if I dey split bills with u, try dey split chores with me...
Thirdly , life is give and take, in other words transactional, If you want total submission, I also demand total Bill payment..
Just like money used for payment of goods and services, if u no gree pay, don't expect service rendition it's very simple

MissOpe:
When you say responsibilities of the family....what do you mean by that?..
You no see where i say what if they split bills 50-50 and the ego stricken man demands submission...

You guys failed to realise that the submission our ancestral fathers and the manipulative men who wrote the bible demanded were done to subdued women...
If truly women were created to submit...
Why do we find it difficult to submit..?
The answer is simple, we also have ego like Men....
The women who submitted in the past, check well, majority of them were vulnerable and afraid of the consequences , not that it really pleased them to submit.....

it's the women that raises their ego cos' they are not ready for any submission again. Don't you know that it's the submission from women that increase the growth of families. It increases the growth rate of families.

Fryx:
Not true. My babe is a hot blooded genzee baddie. She do everything I said. .
The only thing is that I have to think thrice before asking her to do something or stop doing something.

She will always ask why, but she will do it regardless.

Or, she might tease me that she won't, but she will.

And if she doesn't understand, she will say. Ok, but I don't understand why. But, it's ok.

So, all it takes is reasonability. Be reasonable and any reasonable human will listen to you.

I personally know that if I start making unreasonable demands, she will rebel and tell me to do my worst. Someone that blocks her dad and refuse to pick any call from her family because they corrected her. I had to ask her to unblock them and speak to them.


I be gen zee too Sha. But not easily influenced by peer.

Same with me. But the asking why can be frustrating at times. They are interesting though!

MissOpe:
Yes we are not ready for it..
If men submit to women, will they die?
Awon werey

please don't hide from the truths here. Men is the first person that submit in marriage, it's the egos of women that makes them not to submit. We can see the results of women that are submissive and the ones that are not submissive in the family's.

Blitzerz:
Traditional men didnt do monogamy though.
So be careful what u ask for

They also didn’t make their wives take their surname.


Be careful what YOU ask for.

njokuuche77:
Everybody wants benefits, nobody wants responsibility.
You want a submissive, homely woman but you can’t even pay NEPA bill without complaining.
You’re not a traditional man if your woman is still splitting bills with you.
Let’s stop deceiving ourselves, you can’t withdraw what you didn’t deposit.

I am against shared responsibilities. Men should handle family responsibilities while the woman manage the homes. That's why I dislike that word of what do a woman bring to the table. The man should simply play is role.