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Kobicove:
Let those who believe in it continue

The fact that it's not working for you does not mean it's not working for other people

You are right. It is for genuine matured minds. It favours some and dis favours others.

Long distance or not, person wey go cheat go cheat. Distance is a barrier if trust no dey.

MarkNsukkaBread:
I'm one of the guys who will be taking care of the girl you left in Nigeria to go hustle abroad

Be shining your teeth there, you'll oneday shine it into your grave.



"Nor be the day wey person sustain injury the injury dey get pus".........Na our elders nai talk am.

Techm8:
Long distance or not, person wey go cheat go cheat. Distance is a barrier if trust no dey.

You are right. Even the person in the same city can fully cheat without remorse.

Long distance relationship is the best, break up is simple - just block her.

Falz dey talk here. At times, long distant relationship isn't good

Sonnobax15:

Long distance relationship is a NO NO for me.....cuz my mind will be doing me as if somebody else is chopping my banny over there . It's either the distance of our relationship is trekkable or at most runnable

Especially Nigerian bannies who are not trustworthy at all

So na only becos of chopping your bannis?


Dey play.



Bunnies is chopable even while under your roof.

So na musicians dey drop update on relationship now?

2baba drop one recently.

KIDfurniture:
In 2025 you re a big big big big fools if you subscribe to that shit. It is a confirm scam . We need to do better ja re ! It can not work in a country where everybody worships money.

seriously you are much on point here. Nawaoooo. If you know get any money in relationship, forget about it.

Its funny but women are more faithful in long distance relationship

He's right.

Men stand the most to lose in LDR because most times, they have to show workings regardless of the distance. In return, what do they get in return? Nada. Zilch. Nothing.

Just because it doesn't work for Falz doesn't mean it's not real or not working

cenaman:
Long distance relationship is dead on arrival.

Both can cheat with impunity

As if the one that is living with you is not cheating on a regular

fergie001:
The breakfast I chop for LDR, I can't even advise my enemy to get involved in it.

Odogwu/Boss of all bosses chop breakfast unto LDR

Chai I run o

That you don't believe in it is not working for other people. You have a right to your belief, but don't use your belief to invalidate that of others.

This is one person's opinion shared by those who have not had the experience by fate or circumstances.

I have been in a long distance relationship. For me it was a defining moment to be better, I had to learn to communicate and try to be better and invent full, my relationship is non sexual of course it still remains that way till we are settled properly as it is intended.

I am bringing the sexual aspect up because now i think of it. It has really helped me and my partner to be more focused and determined thanks to God to make things work. Whether we are close in terms of distance or far away.

Let no man use his opinion to rub you of a the right spouse.

No go try am stall na serious warning oo, no try am no vex.

chibuikejohn:
We all know long distance is a scam. How can two adults who love s*x stay away from each other for 1 year.
Both are surrounded with people who are willing to help out at any slightest opportunity.

Let me say a decent and God fearing woman can give a try for 1 year with constant communication and video calls.

But you see my gender? Men? It can never be possible. except we don't find a girl who is willing or the price tag is too high especially those Abroad.

Guyman, Speak for yourself and your likes.

There are still men who are principled and have dignity all around.

Generalizing is an obvious show of Low IQ.

Kobicove:
Let those who believe in it continue

The fact that it's not working for you does not mean it's not working for other people

Oga e no fit work shikina! Either of them can be cheating. ND IF YOU BE SIMP SORRY!. You fada people children tia.

odinga1of:
Odogwu/Boss of all bosses chop breakfast unto LDR

Chai I run o

I was in Lagos hustling my as* out, train finish for school and NYSC, called her on her wedding day without knowing and she picked: "babe, I am busy, I will call you back", I thought it was Saturday chores tinx... She was going to the altar.... Things dey happen ooooo...

You don't even need to be in different time zone. Even Island to Mainland na long distance relationship

TruthsFM:
"I don't believe in long distance relationship, how are people decieving themselves doing it" - Falz shows concern for LDR couples

FALZ shares why he cannot do long distance relationship in h!!ari0us video.

Rapper and actor Falz the Bahd Guy has left fans laughing after posting a funny video on social media where he shared his thoughts on long-distance relationships.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVdag2fBUyc?

The video was laced with humor.

But then LDR can work for sometime with the aid of modern technologies and there are many couples who went through that LDR before and after marriage that are still together.

A lot of short-distance relationships have ALSO CLEARLY crashed due to overfamiliarity and NOT being CLEARLY intentional OR genuinely open to one another. It is what it is. So, find out what works for you in any relationship. Period.

Me too
Me three.
If na b4,not now
These so called modern people.
Wetin u go hear na "Is it not just sex,we jus fvcked its not like am dating him"
Lol
Lol
This shud be more than 40 words,Mr seun.

spencekat:
You are right. It is for genuine matured minds. It favours some and dis favours others.

A relationship is not about sex ..for two matured adults that know what they want , they can do long distance relationship. So far they have communication. All.these people saying is scam, dead on arrival , some of them.who claim to be close to each other are actually deceiving themselves without knowing owing it .. If two people want their relationship to work ,it will work . It depends on the two parties involved. Not everyone is loose .there are still decent ,responsible and principled people out there . Some are just fucking around and claim they are having relationships. Two strangers can actually share the same bed. No be how far na how well .

malaria:
A relationship is not about sex ..for two matured adults that know what they want , they can do long distance relationship. So far they have communication. All.these people saying is scam, dead on arrival , some of them.who claim to be close to each other are actually deceiving themselves without knowing owing it .. If two people want their relationship to work ,it will work . It depends on the two parties involved. Not everyone is loose .there are still decent ,responsible and principled people out there . Some are just fucking around and claim they are having relationships. Two strangers can actually share the same bed. No be how far na how well .

You wrote very well. Succinctly expressed!. Thank you.

Guy Wetin my eye see for LDR I nearly wan kpai myself but las las I talk say i no do again