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Omoawoke:
We should all forgive Shekau for abducting chibok girls and killing many Christians, and don’t forget he’s dead too. We can’t speak ill of the dead…

We should forgive the notorious terrorist Bello Turji…. He’s still alive, let’s forgive him for terrorizing the country..


Shekau is dead but we should never speak ill of him

What do you think?

Why should anyone be having grudges against the dead. It's a strange and demonic behaviour.
Turji is alive you may have grudges against him for the evil he is committing. However, those guys wickedness are on a different level compare to this girl's case. Urinating on your can after taking your drink. She complains of bullying too. Those actions are bad but they are worst behaviour that are forgiven.
When you don't forgive you are hurting yourself not the person because only you feel the emotions.
Learn to forgive no matter what.
I am not supposed to say this but let me just say it. In December I was hit by a driver running one way on a busy road.
I had a multiple fracture which has kept me away from working. I have lost opportunities running into millions because of that. That boy could have suffered because of that. I know what I went through and what I am going through right now. Since I was discharged not for once did he check on me for more than 3 months now. He spent less than 20 percentage of what I have spent. But I don't have grudges against him for putting me in the situation that I am right now.
In life we most learn to forgive even when it's not convenient to do so.

ogascomax:
Why should anyone be having grudges against the dead. It's a strange and demonic behaviour.
Turji is alive you may have grudges against him for the evil he is committing. However, those guys wickedness are on a different level compare to this girl's case. Urinating on your can after taking your drink. She complains of bullying too. Those actions are bad but they are worst behaviour that are forgiven.
When you don't forgive you are hurting yourself not the person because only you feel the emotions.
Learn to forgive no matter what.
I am not supposed to say this but let me just say it. In December I was hit by a driver running one way on a busy road.
I had a multiple fracture which has kept me away from working. I have lost opportunities running into millions because of that. That boy could have suffered because of that. I know what I went through and what I am going through right now. Since I was discharged not for once did he check on me for more than 3 months now. He spent less than 20 percentage of what I have spent. But I don't have grudges against him for putting me in the situation that I am right now.
In life we most learn to forgive even when it's not convenient to do so.

Really sorry about the accident and wish you a quick recovery.
I understand what you mean be letting go of some certain grudges and I think you are right.
You using yourself as an example sealed the argument…

But I insist some people should never be forgiven dead or alive… but your explanation makes lots of sense and I agree with you… somethings should be let go off… but not everything actually… some shouldn’t be forgotten.
Like extreme cases of wickedness like those terrorists, dead or alive… they should never be forgiven

Omoawoke:
Really sorry about the accident and wish you a quick recovery.
I understand what you mean be letting go of some certain grudges and I think you are right.
You using yourself as an example sealed the argument…

But I insist some people should never be forgiven dead or alive… but your explanation makes lots of sense and I agree with you… somethings should be let go off… but not everything actually… some shouldn’t be forgotten.
Like extreme cases of wickedness like those terrorists, dead or alive… they should never be forgiven

Forgiving too easily is not good because it allows people to develop the mentality that they can get away with anything and that is bad for society. Making sure people suffer the consequences of their actions is actually kind and responsible because it makes even the offender a better person and helps the society.

Omoawoke:
Really sorry about the accident and wish you a quick recovery.
I understand what you mean be letting go of some certain grudges and I think you are right.
You using yourself as an example sealed the argument…

But I insist some people should never be forgiven dead or alive… but your explanation makes lots of sense and I agree with you… somethings should be let go off… but not everything actually… some shouldn’t be forgotten.
Like extreme cases of wickedness like those terrorists, dead or alive… they should never be forgiven

Thanks for your sympathy. I am a Christian and I preach forgiveness so I have to practice what I believe in my life no matter what it's causing me.
You can't fathom what I went through and the guy's behaviour wasn't encouraging, it was very bad. Jesus is a role model to follow. He forgave those that treated him extremely bad. Let me tell you the results of Unforgiveness. When you nurse it or keep it in your heart, it results to bitterness and hatred. Those things destroys the soul and when your soul is disturbed it transfer to your physical body which can bread sicknesses.
This is not just spiritual even science has proven what I am telling you to be truth. That is why I said Unforgiven affect that person that carries it not the other person.
I just copied this last one from the internet just to show you that my assessment was true.
Unforgiveness is the state of holding onto resentment and anger towards someone who has hurt or wronged you, refusing to let go of the hurt and pain. It's characterized by bitterness, a desire for revenge, and a refusal to reconcile. This state can negatively impact various aspects of life, including emotions, thoughts, behaviors, physical health, and relationships.

Chilipepper:
I’ll hold this grudge till we face God:Lady recalls horrifying experience with secondary school bully who tampered with her drink

A Nigerian X user has shared a disturbing memory from her secondary school days, recalling a time a bully pulled an unforgivable stunt on her.

She narrated that the boy drank her Lacasera, urinated into the empty bottle, and returned it to her lunch pack. She almost drank it but got suspicious because the cap opened too easily.

“He died two years ago and classmates were shocked I had no condolences,” she wrote.

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Chilipepper:
I’ll hold this grudge till we face God:Lady recalls horrifying experience with secondary school bully who tampered with her drink

A Nigerian X user has shared a disturbing memory from her secondary school days, recalling a time a bully pulled an unforgivable stunt on her.

She narrated that the boy drank her Lacasera, urinated into the empty bottle, and returned it to her lunch pack. She almost drank it but got suspicious because the cap opened too easily.

“He died two years ago and classmates were shocked I had no condolences,” she wrote.

Let him who is without sin cast the first stone. So you mean you have not offended others before? Even though the person is dead you still hold onto the grudge? Pele o. Hell awaits you with this kind of wicked unforgiving heart you possess.

hehe i did worse than that guy


for sec school, i hit a nail badly on a girls chair that tore her skirt


come see everybody was laughing

OboOlora:
Had a similar experience when I was in Nigeria. The boss that time just came to relieve my main boss and for no reason didn't like me. He then gave me 74.9 in full year appraisal knowing fully well I would need 75 to get a promotion and the company will never round up.

He begged him, cried and did everything but he left it that way.

When the guy dies a few months after, I was happy and murmured 'good for him'

Took my mum's intervention to explain life to me and then pray for forgiveness for me to move past this.

Life!

That boss was actually ev8l. Can't blame you for being happy that he died. But for your good, just don't think about him.