See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. - Family (3)

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Racheal45: 4:03pm On Jul 08, 2025

Please let be honest
This is a bit moderate
Compare to imo state own

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by owobokiri(m): 4:05pm On Jul 08, 2025

correctyourself:
It's even too much, but still ok compared to that tribe that collect so much up to 95% above what they invested on their daughter, the worst ones are the those who couldn't even train their daughter., still asked higher amount.

If you no get money to marry from "that tribe", you should simply bounce and stop grumbling...
In any event, the men from that area are not complaining, so why you come carry the matter for head like gala?

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Nnamdipapa(m): 4:05pm On Jul 08, 2025

The man still gets nothing in the marriage aside from responsibilities and burdens. How is this different from witchcraft?

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Sharpsharp00123: 4:07pm On Jul 08, 2025

jetson06:
Do you want to see my list? Mine was about 10 pages long. To marry from a greedy tribe no be beans.

I have fixed it for u

That's d reality many of u won't agree with cos of ego

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Nobody: 4:10pm On Jul 08, 2025

I think that list is for what we call introduction in my place. My thought is there’ll be another list for the main event. Marriage in Nigeria is not for the weak. To avoid that, just give her belle. That 1 bag of salt will automatically disappear 🫥

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by femi4: 4:11pm On Jul 08, 2025

Chilipepper:
A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!

As it should be, the bride is not for sale unlike those people that sells their girls in the name of tradition

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by ogascomax: 4:13pm On Jul 08, 2025

That list is not cheap as we believe. Inflation has dealt with it. Do you know how much for yam. Except you want to buy nonsense yam o. Then cat fish except you want to be small one.
The last cat fish I bought to cook was 6,500 for one.
Anyways less than 500k will pay for dowry however party never start oo.
Party Na me d koko

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by JuanDeDios: 4:17pm On Jul 08, 2025

marlow1962:
While this might be true ( I highly doubt, considering the present reality in this country and hungry family the lady might come from), I believe someone can just go to the cyber cafe and print out nonsense just to trend when he/she posts it online.

Either way, good luck to the young nigga getting married, but sha do DNA.

Why do you think the lady might've come from a hungry family?

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by jUeLiZ: 4:22pm On Jul 08, 2025

Chilipepper:
A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!

ah go still price this list... grin

This new rule na total rubbish

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by adecz: 4:24pm On Jul 08, 2025

Readers should note that this dowry is
apart from what will be spent for the
marriage ceremony and reception proper, for cooking, drinks, venue etc ...

Such a dowry may be from the middlebelt to
south-south Nigeria..

Na southsouth dey like and value
umbrellas ☂️🌂⛱️. Part of their colonial hangover,
when unbrellas were a status symbol. At the
time, any well-to-do man must take personal or
family pictures with umbrella.

😁😄😁

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by stevedeey(m): 4:28pm On Jul 08, 2025

It’s supposed to be about giving gifts, not making demands.

I don’t see why the bride’s family should be sending any kind of list.

It’s the groom’s family that should approach with gifts and an amount that reflects how much they value the bride — not as if she’s being sold.

If I give you money as a gift and you start counting it, would you then say it’s incomplete? We need to investigate where the idea of list originated from sef..

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by nwirinedu(m): 4:29pm On Jul 08, 2025

This is reasonable, certainly not from the eastside.

Their list has more pages than a 747 operations manual.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by alizma: 4:36pm On Jul 08, 2025

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
1. Rice, 1 bag.
This tribe no fashe rice.
Its not an occasions food.

2. Yam, 41 pieces.
They place value on yams.

3. Salt, 1 bag.
They are a coastal/riverine tribe.
Salt is symbolic.

4. Fruits, 1 basket.
This tribe produces fruits and is likely into commercial and subsistent farming.

5. Schnapps, kolanut, bitter kola, alligator pepper, Bible.
Trado-Christian religion.

6. Honey, Sugar cane.
Definitely not a tribe in all of Southern Nigeria.

7. Catfish.
Definitely a coastal community, involved in both fishing and farming.

8. Malt, groundnut oil, mineral, 5-alive, sugar, family and kindred/community fees all in manageable amounts.

Likely a poor rural tribe far removed from the capital city.

Verdict: Likely a tribe from the South-South or Middle-Belt.

I like your analysis and deduction is 85% correct. That list is more like a list from Kogi Central.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 4:37pm On Jul 08, 2025

Sharpsharp00123:
guy this is how it should b in from my side in south west this is even too much

It is u people from south east that believe u have to sell your daughter or collect everything u spend on her from birth.

U people have normalize greed n that's y u see it is normal

Lol.

It's not greed, Bro. Its merely tradition.

Go to Sudan and see the number of cows a suitor must provide before marrying.

If a SouthEastern man has to marry, he makes adequate preparations before stepping out.

We are not complaining.
Meself done mentally assume a dowry of N500k to #1mil,so nobody will take me unawares.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by omooba05: 4:39pm On Jul 08, 2025

This list is from yoruba tribe . Almost same with my brother in law

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Fahd11: 4:40pm On Jul 08, 2025

If na NDI people ehn, they will even ask for Igwe's okada, Ogbuefi's bicycle and Ezemmuo's calabash money....

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by CodeTemplarr: 4:41pm On Jul 08, 2025

This one looks conservative to me ooooooooooooo.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Kris907(m): 4:41pm On Jul 08, 2025

Definitely from the Lukumi tribes. If you've married from the Yoruba tribe and you follow the due process, this is the kind of list you get from the tribe.

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by IamHonourable1: 4:42pm On Jul 08, 2025

If you like,go do pass yourself, your body go tell you.When the spirit of lesbianism became too much in my ex wife,she ran away from the house with my property and said she was no longer interested in our marriage.When my former in-laws summoned both of us for a meeting,she removed 1k from her pocket and was waving it dramatically, that I should take back the 1k bride price I paid on her head, which means all the expenses I did because of her during the traditional and white wedding were waste.As a man, don't loose guard your funds because of a woman (even if she's your wife).

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by franchasng: 4:48pm On Jul 08, 2025

It is men that are not yet ready to marry that argue about bride price....its a thing of joy, fun and entertainment....every sensible man and his friends enjoy the bride price paying stuff during traditional marriage rites, especially in Igbo culture..... cool

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Blackbishop(m): 4:51pm On Jul 08, 2025

Chilipepper:
A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!

Mine was relatively cheap

So it depends on your relationship with girl and her damily

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by adecares(f): 4:52pm On Jul 08, 2025

This is obviously Yoruba na,
That’s about what the bride list consist of.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by IbrahimSola: 4:56pm On Jul 08, 2025

Chilipepper:
A lot of men are scrambling to find out which state this dowry list came from 😂😂😂 Why? It's unbelievably cheap!

What kind of cheap list is this one? What I was given was 10X of this. At the end of the negotiations, what I actually paid was 5x of this.

Some families are greedy sha, especially when the father of the girl is no more alive. Those evil uncles would connive and give you a list that can make you run away from their "daughter". Meanwhile their own original daugthers are pregnant or nursing children from useless men who have never bought them one bottle of drink.

If you have a father who is a decision maker on marital issues, let this be a reminder to you to caution your father considering all that wickedness.

Indeed, there are some families you marry to and can never allow certain relatives to come close to your street, not to even talk of your house.

The most important thing is that the woman should be worth the trouble at the end of the day. Mine is worth the trouble.

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Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by hotseat: 5:09pm On Jul 08, 2025

Getting married nowadays is a capital project on its own.

Initially the Igbos, particularly Imo State, were the ones noted with this practice of milking the intending groom dry.

Having more girls in a family became more of an investment from which they hope to reap bountifully from later in life.

Brides are now commodities ready for sale to the highest bidder.

I once accompanied a friend to Imo State for just an introduction.

That event alone was more than the marriage proper in other places.

O boy, come see list!

This "evil" has been keeping bachelors away because of the astronomical "prices" for marrying an Imo State girl.

Recently, this Shylock practice has been spreading to other tribes and not just the Igbos.

One thing that they seem to forget is that there's life after the marriage ceremony, including expected and unexpected bills to be settled by the young couples.

There's need for introspection concerning this commercial practice!

@hotseat

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Zico5(m): 5:10pm On Jul 08, 2025

MartinCorridon:
There should be virginity check.

I dey always pity Developers who pay through their nose for SW left-overs

Don't cry ooo.

You forgot, your people are the one doing prostitute job most in Nigeria. So those ones will go back home one day and you will pay exorbitant dowry on them. Maybe it's painful that we don't spend excessively to marry in South west. We do things in moderation here cos we are not greedy.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by victorazyvictor(m): 5:17pm On Jul 08, 2025

FuckYeyeMods:
Since there is no pig, I know its not those yeye tribe

Very yeye tribe I tell you, that tribe dey provoke me asway.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by Jamsam: 5:23pm On Jul 08, 2025

It's just like my dowry list me, my husband and my parent decided to put my old cloth in the new box

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 5:24pm On Jul 08, 2025

Typical yoruba list.

Sent same to my sister's husband that want to regularise.

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by hotseat: 5:25pm On Jul 08, 2025

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Lol.

It's not greed, Bro. Its merely tradition.

Go to Sudan and see the number of cows a suitor must provide before marrying.

If a SouthEastern man has to marry, he makes adequate preparations before stepping out.

We are not complaining.
Meself done mentally assume a dowry of N500k to #1mil,so nobody will take me unawares.

Guy, wake up from slumber!

Your budget of N500k to N1m is just a drop in the ocean.

Trial will "conceive" you.

@hotseat

Re: See The Viral Dowry List Prompting Men To Inquire About The Bride’s State. by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 5:27pm On Jul 08, 2025

hotseat:
Guy, wake up from slumber!

Your budget of N500k to N1m is just a drop in the ocean.

Trial will "conceive" you.

@hotseat

I know the state and community to marry from, as well as the woman who will viciously defend me before her family.

Its all settled.

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