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Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Abagworo(m): 8:22am On Jul 11, 2025
Na him ho trust Pastor. Majority of married women cheat nowadays but this one pass cheating
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by smtx(m): 8:41am On Jul 11, 2025
Amarachieze:
I don't want to swallow this very news hook line and sinker until the op comes up with the screenshot of the watsaap chats. I don't mean it didn't happen or can't happen. Am only beaten hollow by the foolishness of the so called pastor and wife sharing explicit amorous contents in a phone
But is the man in question a pastorhuh?? Apparently yes but in reality NO for by their fruits we shall know them
Story to gain traffic....it does happen, but this one is for traffic
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Firstcitizen: 8:55am On Jul 11, 2025
Gerano:
Nobody is truly worshiping God with all sincerity, especially these pentecostal churches , their pastors are mostly there for material gains.
There is no true Christianity within religious leaders in Nigeria and in most of the world.

You may find a few true Christians among the followers but extremely few.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Farmsolution: 8:55am On Jul 11, 2025
eyesoflagos:
Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity of His Kids



https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/07/11/man-devastated-after-discovering-wifes-affair-with-pastor-questions-paternity-of-his-kids/
Take the pastor to court for sleeping with your wife . He will spend 21 years in prison. Ford breach of trust and sleeping around on your property.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Basic123: 9:06am On Jul 11, 2025
iykololo:
Are pastors not humans again? Trust them at your own peril. My advice, drain that account, expose her and the so-called MOG and move on with your verified legitimate kids. Only God knows how many other wives are in this mess with the man.


What Rubbish!
Touch not my anointed bro.

Be careful with the way you speak to the man of God
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Afromentalist: 9:26am On Jul 11, 2025
Unamed man. Unknown and anonymous facebook post. Clickbait
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Dee60: 9:40am On Jul 11, 2025
eyesoflagos:
Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity of His Kids




https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/07/11/man-devastated-after-discovering-wifes-affair-with-pastor-questions-paternity-of-his-kids/
Please can you best honest and admit that the story you just wrote is fake.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by A4alpha: 9:51am On Jul 11, 2025
Trust these men in gown at your worst nightmare, some of them even refused to get married knowing fully well they can't cope because during their training in seminaries etc they womanize more than a normal fellow on the street yet they are adamant. They do all sort of dirty things with girls, they are bold to discuss their escapade mind you I live close to one rocka-fella a senior seminarian at that, me believe it's all about the bag (employment) nothing more.
Imagine the danger such fellow will pose to vulnerable people out there. I know one guy who took his matrimonial matter to a so-called priest it didn't end well, they are separated now but na the said priest dey shine the kongo.

People should open their eyes oo fvck the pastor shii
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Osashalom: 9:52am On Jul 11, 2025
They would have at least posted the pastor's explicit photos for it to go viral. I have come to understand that people enjoy lying against pastors
Earthkumy:
This is mostly a lie against pastors


If it is true the will name the Pastor and his Church

This kind of lies is for traffic
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Chief2410: 10:13am On Jul 11, 2025
A4alpha:
Trust these men in gown at your worst nightmare, some of them even refused to get married knowing fully well they can't cope because during their training in seminaries etc they womanize more than a normal fellow on the street yet they are adamant. They do all sort of dirty things with girls, they are bold to discuss their escapade mind you I live close to one rocka-fella a senior seminarian at that, me believe it's all about the bag (employment) nothing more.
Imagine the danger such fellow will pose to vulnerable people out there. I know one guy who took his matrimonial matter to a so-called priest it didn't end well, they are separated now but na the said priest dey shine the kongo.

People should open their eyes oo fvck the pastor shii
Pastors na business men. Na mumu dey carry him whole life and marriage matter go dey tell pastors. Omo make Una wake up to the harsh reality of this life ooo before it's too late.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by InvertedHammer: 10:33am On Jul 11, 2025
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Any man whose wife hangs around pastors or the purported "god of men" should be honourable enough to divorce her. It rarely ends well. If she is too involved in church activities, request for the bride price sooner than later.

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Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by A4alpha: 10:37am On Jul 11, 2025
Chief2410:
Pastors na business men. Na mumu dey carry him whole life and marriage matter go dey tell pastors. Omo make Una wake up to the harsh reality of this life ooo before it's too late.
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Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Aragon001: 11:51am On Jul 11, 2025
Call the pastor name out! Don't cover for him let everyone know who he is starting from the church. Oga expose them. Do DNA test on all ur three kids NOW! delay is dangerous. God alone knows who truly serves him. May he strengthen u with wisdom to navigate through this.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by ogascomax: 12:19pm On Jul 11, 2025
Offpoint1:
Lol, you don't have to be devastated, put yourself together and move on.

Some human first mistake is "believing" or holding some other humans with high moral standards just because they went to theological SCHOOL.

One thing you should know is "PASTOR" is just a "JOB" position like every other work position out there. 99% of them are being paid SALARY on monthly basis.

They're ALL normal human being like you, there's nothing an "average" human being can do that they can't do. No matter the position or years of their JOB experience, don't be deceived...


Let me stop here, but take this home.

Pastors are humans who have mastered the art of pretense and secrecy.
Where did you get your statistics of 99 percentage. Not all churches pay salary especially Christ Embassy because there they expect their pastors to be working too or have their own business.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by selleniza: 1:18pm On Jul 11, 2025
Pastor preying on the defenseless mind of his flock is a common occurrence.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Hassanmaye(m): 1:22pm On Jul 11, 2025
eyesoflagos:
Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity of His Kids



https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/07/11/man-devastated-after-discovering-wifes-affair-with-pastor-questions-paternity-of-his-kids/
Omo pastors dey chop married women no be here, and you know women are stupid, They see these criminals as powerful and command voice more than there husband, few talks she open legs
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by doffman: 4:39pm On Jul 11, 2025
Antiislaam, how far ? 🤣

Upon all your tithes , they still enjoy woman on top ?

We told you nah !
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Mrexcell(m): 6:23pm On Jul 11, 2025
End times pastor this is exactly what's currently going in many pentecostal churches these days. A married woman narrated in a radio program how a senior and junior pastor in her church were lusting after her at the same time.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by AntiisIam(m): 7:29pm On Jul 11, 2025
doffman:
Antiism, how far ? 🤣

Upon all your tithes , they still enjoy woman on top ?

We told you nah !
Sha carry your women especially your wife and female siblings go meet your alfa e n'Ilorin, awon alfa e Rahmoni and co. to do the needful on their neccks
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Testimony1988(m): 9:54pm On Jul 11, 2025
The sickness is as a result of her wayward life with the so called Pastor.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Earthkumy(m): 10:23pm On Jul 11, 2025
Osashalom:
They would have at least posted the pastor's explicit photos for it to go viral. I have come to understand that people enjoy lying against pastors
Yes
Lying against faceless pastors brings traffic

That's why they enjoy it
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Ilekokonit:
I always tell people that there is no pastor that will not have an erection if he sees a fully naked woman even if the naked woman is a mad woman but because the pastor is wearing a suit, some people believe that they are above temptation.

A sensible pastor will refuse to counsel any woman alone to prevent stories that touch.

I have a cousin who is a pastor in London and he stopped counseling women without a third party being present when a female church member came to see him under the guise of counseling and then she stood up and bent down before the pastor showing him her bare boobs through her low cut top.

Pastors have the same anatomy as EVERY man and they also "suffer" from early morning erections if their blood is flowing well but this pastor no try sha. Why nack another mans wife huh

I sure say God for forgive am if he go nack Olosho instead of another man wife.

Some people fit bet their last dime that Pastors do not have erections right inside church but I decided to ask ChatGPT whether this is possible. with the below answers :-

You :
can a pastor have erotic thoughs right on the pulpit ?

ChatGPT said:
Yes, a pastor can have erotic thoughts—even while on the pulpit—because pastors are human, and human thoughts are not always fully within our control. Having a thought, even an unwanted or inappropriate one, doesn't make someone morally compromised. It's what a person does with those thoughts—how they manage them—that matters.
You:
So, you mean that a pastor can have an erection inside the church huh

ChatGPT said:
Yes, a pastor can physically have an erection inside a church, because erections are involuntary biological responses —they can happen for many reasons, including non-sexual ones like stress, nerves, hormones, or even no clear reason at all. This doesn’t mean the pastor is doing something sinful or inappropriate.

Here’s the key distinction:

1. Biology vs. Intention
An erection is not always linked to lust or erotic thoughts. It’s a physiological reaction, not a moral failure. If it happens involuntarily, especially during something like preaching, it may be embarrassing, but it’s not sinful.

2. Responsibility and Awareness
If a pastor is intentionally dwelling on sexual thoughts during worship or while preaching—especially if it involves someone present—that crosses into the realm of spiritual irresponsibility and possibly sin, depending on the intent (see Matthew 5:28).

3. Dealing With It
If this happens to a pastor (or anyone), the best approach is to manage it quietly and refocus. If it’s a recurring issue, especially linked to internal struggles, then it’s worth seeking spiritual counsel, accountability, or therapy—not out of shame, but for growth and health.
Bottom Line:

Having an erection, even during church, doesn’t make a pastor unholy or sinful. It’s how they handle their mind, body, and heart that reflects maturity and integrity. Christianity is rooted in grace, not shame.
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Ilekokonit: 12:40am On Jul 12, 2025
Offpoint1:
Pastors are humans who have mastered the art of pretense and secrecy.
Some of them now add the gift of the Gab to the potent money making mix. Most of these Pastors no get conscience 'cos if they do, how can these ruthless selfish pastors still with a clear conscience collect their battered impoverished followers widows mite and last cad in tithes and offerings in today's Nigeria huh
Re: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by William1980: 2:00pm On Jul 12, 2025
If it is true, then is quite unfortunate. Any married woman that tries this in my place will use her head to carry it. The consequences are gravious. Men marry from where they don't joke with culture and traditions and have peace of mind ooo. My little cent.
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