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oz4real83:
He waited for 10 good years before speaking out . The man must either be a weakling, or a simp . VDM shouldn't waste his time on people like this

He has been speaking out from the beginning of Yul and Judy's rumoured marriage before it was made public but his case didn't attract any attention because he's a man and also doesn't have social media fans like others.

Beremx:
he didn't wait for 10years to cry out. From his old videos he posted on social media, he's been going to court and welfare all to no avail. He was threatened and his shop burnt down because he wants to see his kids. He went to his ex wife's kinsmen, they chased him out. The last option is to come on social media. Abeg leave the man alone

Thank you for answering them.
The man has been speaking out and has been to court. Nigerian men were more excited at the thought of Judy being Yul's peace of mind, not knowing an innocent man is being punished. Same man that trained her in school. But no, Judy is good and May is the evil wife.

pocohantas:
Thank you for answering them.
The man has been speaking out and has been to court. Nigerian men were more excited at the thought of Judy being Yul's peace of mind, not knowing an innocent man is being punished. Same man that trained her in school. But no, Judy is good and May is the evil wife.

don't mind them. It's so disheartening that some men especially on Facebook were insulting him and calling him names. The real victim is Mr Obasi. All he wants is to see his kids. Nothing more.

I feel sorry for this man.

Unfortunately the children might not even be his children biologically since the woman was cheating under his roof. I have seen plenty of similar cases.

So ná person's wife the Nollywood guy even cheated with, whereas he has a beautiful wife at home? Wonder shall never end

Beremx:
➜it's not his fault he's an absentee father. He went to welfare and the case was being delayed. Police couldn't act without the permission of welfare. He's been silenced severally not to talk about trying to see his kids. A man man who single handedly trained his wife in school and she left him for Yul Edochie. Indeed it is very sad

She left him ke? The story at the time was that her previous marriage ended in 2013 or thereabout, and years later, when she started with this Yul guy, she was already a single mother with 3 or so kids. Are you now saying that was not the case, that she cheated on her husband at the time with Yul? I am not a fan of hers or something, but ...

Beremx:
don't mind them. It's so disheartening that some men especially on Facebook were insulting him and calling him names. The real victim is Mr Obasi. All he wants is to see his kids. Nothing more.

How exactly is he a victim if his supposed marriage with the woman ended around 2013, according to the tales we heard around the time this woman and Yul became an item? Are you insinuating that the woman lied when she made this claim?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu2krTXoxn3/

PUNANI01:
So Yul edochie is not dealing with tear rubber;lol.

She get experience and fit nack pass tear rubber.... Is it not better to buy used lambogini than brandnew corolla?

Kam2021:
Yul fall hands ,by going for another man's wife.Judy too is very foolish for hiding her other children,if Yul truly loved her,he would have accepted and be showcasing those other children.
2 anyhow people

If na you , u go accept and train other people kids?...cos i no really understand your point

Beremx:
➜he didn't wait for 10years to cry out. From his old videos he posted on social media, he's been going to court and welfare all to no avail.
➜ He was threatened and his shop burnt down because he wants to see his kids. He went to his ex wife's kinsmen, they chased him out. The last option is to come on social media. Abeg leave the man alone

The previous marriage with Judy, according to the woman, ended in 2013, years before she met Yul Edochie. That is over 12 years at this point in time. https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu2krTXoxn3/

2. Why did the courts deny him access to his children, if he has been an ever-present father for them all the while, should be the question. Why did his ex-wife's kinsmen chase him out?

AfonjaPriest:
➜Nobody should blame the man for the long passage of time before he could come out to speak.
➜ You never could tell what he must have passed through. Some things are not that easy to discern until it has happened to you. Even then, there are some people who will be in the same hole for twenty years and be still struggling. Ah, life is indeed a mystery!

The woman says her marriage with the man ended in May of 2013, we are in July of 2025, so this has been over 12 years at this point. Fast forward to the 2020s, and the woman is now married to Yul Edochie, whom she claims she met years after her divorce from the Obasi man. But we are not to blame him for all that time he did not search for his children, assuming he really cares for them?

2. What he must have passed through and not what the children must have had to pass through due to his absence — probably financially as well— from their lives?

Sundaymessi:
So for 10 years, Judy has been paying the children's school fees and feeding them?

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Beremx:
➜is that the issue?
➜If the woman decides to be paying school fees and use it as a weapon for blackmailing the man in the future,
➜ do you think it's right? Use your brain to decipher

. It is a big issue, though!

2. Use it as a weapon to blackmail the man in the future.... what?

3. If the man has been a deadbeat dad in all of that time, what right does he have to out of nowhere decide he should be allowed to have children he never cared to fend for? Does simply being the sperm donor mean he has the right and authority to access the kids when it pleases him? Come on now!

Antoeni:
➜Mr Obasi Should Report The Matter to VDM And Let Very Dark Man (VDM Take it Up From There, Yul Edochie Should Return Judy Obasi Back to Her legitimate Husband. They Were Not Divorced

She said they were divorced in May of 2013, many years before she met Yul Edochie. 🙄🙄🙄
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu2krTXoxn3/

Arostar2023:
➜Anyway, the man can tell better on why he has been an absentee father. The court and welfare can't just hand over children to you simply because you are the biological father. The take past and the present into consideration. But then, I can't imagine been in his situation. It can be heartbreaking.

As the courts should. His absence from the lives of his kids should be better explained by him since the woman claimed the marriage ended in May 2013, over 12 years ago. Why is he just showing up many years later to claim he was denied access to the kids? Who has been fending for them in all of that time and the times before then?

Beremx:
it's not his fault he's an absentee father. He went to welfare and the case was being delayed. Police couldn't act without the permission of welfare. He's been silenced severally not to talk about trying to see his kids. A man man who single handedly trained his wife in school and she left him for Yul Edochie.
Indeed it is very sad

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He should let go. It's a bad investment. Such is life.

Mariangeles:
Laslas, who knows whether Judy never put these men inside bottle.

Your thought is as good as mine.
I have always suspected that this Judy of a girl may have "bottled" Yul Edochie. Ever since he met this girl, the guy just dey do things anyhow.

Wife snatching ........
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Sundaymessi:
So for 10 years, Judy has been paying the children's school fees and feeding them?

Small small be using your brain 🧠 my dear!

Are there not women doing this same thing, someone like Tonto Dike?

Yashita:
➜Small small be using your brain 🧠 my dear! Are there not women doing this same thing, someone like Tonto Dike?

Has the man at least been paying child support to her or the courts in all of that time? That is a valid question to ask. Suggesting a woman or a man should put everything on hold just because a deadbeat dad or mom finally decided to show up to see his kids out of nowhere is ludicrous. Especially since the same is likely to vanish again right after that. 😏

Where has the man been since 2013? Has he been paying child support or neglecting the kids all this time, only to then show up in 2022— this happens to be the date of the earliest record I was able to find of him claiming he was denied access to his kids— demanding to be allowed to see them?

Kobojunkie:
Has the man at least been paying child support to her or the courts in all of that time? That is a valid question to ask. Suggesting a woman or a man should put everything on hold just because a deadbeat dad or mom finally decided to show up to see his kids out of nowhere is ludicrous. Especially since the same is likely to vanish again right after that. 😏

Where has the man been since 2013? Has he been paying child support or neglecting the kids all this time, only to then show up in 2022— this happens to be the date of the earliest record I was able to find of him claiming he was denied access to his kids— demanding to be allowed to see them?

Anyways, if he doesn’t get to see them now, he would see them in the future, children grow to see who the problematic parent was. Except on the grounds of assault, children should NEVER be denied access to any of their parents.

Arostar2023:
Anyway, the man can tell better on why he has been an absentee father. The court and welfare can't just hand over children to you simply because you are the biological father. The take past and the present into consideration. But then, I can't imagine been in his situation. It can be heartbreaking.

Some of you are evil , very very evil . Just hear yourself

Fearurcreeator:
Some of you are evil , very very evil . Just hear yourself

I no fit laugh...kind person, oya go carry those pikin give the man na.

Kobojunkie:
She left him ke? The story at the time was that her previous marriage ended in 2013 or thereabout, and years later ,when she started with this Yul gu,y she was already a single mother with 3 or so kids at the time. Are you now saying that was not the case, that she cheated on her husband at the time with Yul? I am not a fan of hers or something, but ...

kobojunkie, my posts are self explanatory. I dunno what else you want me to say o! I can't explain further sis

Kobojunkie:
She said they were divorced in May of 2013, many years before she met Yul Edochie. 🙄🙄🙄
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cu2krTXoxn3/

she has been sleeping with Yul Edochie right from when she was still married. She's lying. Her ex husband said it himself they were having affair. He said it with proof

Why is he calling out to VDM? Let him send a petition to the IGP and fight it with his lawyers. Let him sue both Judy and her husband for kidnapping his children.

Sundaymessi:
So for 10 years, Judy has been paying the children's school fees and feeding them?

Her choice of course. If she cut him off from the kids and all his efforts to be in their lives didn't yield positive result, you can't blame him for the fact that Judy was the one paying the children's school fees, she wanted it that way

If they are 12years and above, go to court to get lawful custody.
Get a good lawyer and claim your rights over the children. Na she go dey get to see them after that.

AfonjaPriest:
Nobody should blame the man for the long passage of time before he could come out to speak.
You never could tell what he must have passed through.
Some things are not that easy to discern until it has happened to you.
Even then, there are some people who will be in the same hole for twenty years and be still struggling.
Ah, life is indeed a mystery!

He is not a serious man. Not seeing your children for ten years!!! He ran from responsibilities, why is he coming to the media now? What he would have done longtime ago.