₦airaland Forum

SmartPolician:
It's called discipline. If you refuse to raise your child properly, the society will help you raise them the hard way.

How is this discipline cosnu fail to see any discipline in that video.

Has any boy been assaulted and disgraced publicly like this because of blackmail? Except there's more than they're telling us, this is unacceptable.

Firebox123:
If na the girl blackmail the boy for rape

Will you believe him

Why are Nigerian like this self

Ok

Bendeco02:
They should flog her well.

Why would a reasonable person video/record herself while having sex?

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A man and a woman are not the same and were never the same. If you allow a guy to take a video while having sex with you, you will be the one to cry and regret it later.

Sex tape can't destroy a man's life but woman. Do anyone care about the guy he had sex with? NO. People only concentrate on the woman involved

What if her supposedly ex boyfriend made the video without her consent?
Or she wasn't aware of the video?

these are the same Nigerians that cry when been treated in the same way by SARS and cry about bad leadership abi? wicked animals now turned morality police , indeed we have "bad leaders"

Sicklebear28:
A wealthy man with a nude in public will still get attracted and get married to a high class lady in the society whereas a lady with her nude in public domain will lose respect and worth and will not get the desired man in the society. Tuface or Tubaba is an example. Tuface is loose with women but yet look at who his is dating

Yes, but things are changing. The girl child will no longer allow the boy child to disrespect her.

Don't worry, keep assaulting women. One day, you will be caught

Sicklebear28:
I repeat do anyhow you go see anyhow. Fly wey no dey hear word na e dey follow dead body dey entre grave.

SmartPolician:
It's called discipline. If you refuse to raise your child properly, the society will help you raise them the hard way.

Can this one even read and comprehend ?

esnbrutality:
Please understand me ..

The girl child is always held to higher scrutiny because of what they undergo in larger society. So it's for the parents especially the mother to guide the girl child intensely.

As for the male child ...they are wanderers from birth and are basically structured for lineage takeover.

In this scenario the girls mother failed to actually notice the signs ..and this resulted in the girl believing the foolish boy.

My take..

Yeah, but things are changing. Those rules and laws over women were created by the patriarchy.

The girl child should be closely monitored...she faces alot if challenges in life, hence the need for close scrutiny.

Zooposki:
Yeah, but things are changing. Those rules and laws over women were created by the patriarchy.

SmartPolician:
It's called discipline. If you refuse to raise your child properly, the society will help you raise them the hard way.

Your type is disgusting.

Juoflife1:
Don't worry, keep assaulting women. One day, you will be caught

Did you read where I said a have a daughter. That should tell you my position in the society. Your formed mind that I assault women is an imagination of your not well guided reasoning

But why should someone send her nude to boyfriend or anybody or allow anybody to take pictures of her nude knowing full well that a day like this will come. So any treatment she received from her recklessness should be ok to her , next time she should be informed

Where is Ezekwesili when she is needed?

I guess this girl has no money

She should sue the ex and the school. Bunch of animals.

esnbrutality:
The girl child should be closely monitored...she faces alot if challenges in life, hence the need for close scrutiny.

No, she does not need to be closely monitored. Patriarchy needs to be dismantled. Just like Jesus said, he that is without sin let him cast the first stone.

Belurved1:
Double tragedy...double damage.
Somebody that should have been handled with care even it was intentional. That's how one my course mate committed suicide.

just imagine a country we came from... Someone that they should handle with care o.... If care is not taken, this girl can do something bad o

She should sue the school. For a supposed place of learning, the school staff are quite barbaric. She no kill person now.

So she should slay around and open up to the world abi, because of twisted western values?

Zooposki:
No, she does not need to be closely monitored. Patriarchy needs to be dismantled. Just like Jesus said, he thst is without sin let him cast the first stone.

Zooposki:
Yes, but things are changing. The girl child will no longer allow the boy child to disrespect her.

Till eternity the position of man can not be swap with that of a woman and vice versa. God has made this know right from the beginning. But for human wisdom we have decided to establish unnatural rules. Well, let see how far the human wisdom will thrive. According the President Donald Trump, God made them male and female nothing else

esnbrutality:
So she should slay around and open up to the world abi, because of twisted western values?

What we have now is the twisted patriarchy values of the west. What we had before in Africa was a matriarchy way of life.

SmartPolician:
It's called discipline. If you refuse to raise your child properly, the society will help you raise them the hard way.

Is a bridge of trust than discipline, she wasn't drunk and came to the school environment displaying her nudity, it was pure encroachment into someone's privacy by the boyfriend or ex ...

She should report this case to the Police and the boyfriend fished out to take her shame...

School authority suspending her is cool but dragging her around our of her hostel is uselessness...

You see what females pass through. This is what Sen Natasha is suffering today.. Victim bn victimised by the system which should be fighting for her.

What is the best value that the west bequeathed to you...and apart from stopping female mutilation which is basically outdated in Nigeria. Tell me where cultural values have gone wrong for guiding the girl child.

I really want to understand you.

Zooposki:
What we have now is the twisted patriarchy values of the west. What we had before in Africa was a matriarchy way of life.

The only thing that came to mind as I read this was the accusations of misogyny hurled at my ethnic group by Igbos en-masse on Twitter at the dawn of the new year. That the most 'enlightened' tribe — university educated members of it even — could treat the victim of revenge porn in such a callous manner only foreshadows how victims in the lower brow of its society are treated. Shame!

grandstar:
What she did weas definitely wrong. You are very correct.

It is extremely necessary for girls in univesities to be cautioned about sending nudes to any man, or even takin g nude pics in the first place. What purpose does it serve?

They need to be fully educated about the risks involved. It needs to be inculcated in them, fully mean inculcated!

If they do otherwise, the fault is theirs.

Exactly my point, most of them think is cool to be doing that when they don’t actually know if they will end up with the person they’re sending the nudes to. They need to be really educated about the consequences of such actions

Juoflife1:
Oga morality. It's her body and her choice

Is her body and her choice make she go her house go make choice of being a disgrace to her family, una go dey support bad thing 🤣😂🤣

Sicklebear28:
Till eternity the position of man can not be swap with that of a woman and vice versa. God has made this know right from the beginning. But for human wisdom we have decided to establish unnatural rules. Well, let see how far the human wisdom will thrive. According the President Donald Trump, God made them male and female nothing else

The bible written by man? Nature prioritizes the female over the male.

In all this it is very possible that the girl was not aware her nurse was being captured. There are many ways of taking pics or vids nowadays without someone's consent. Perhaps the ex even drugged her and took the nudes while she was intoxicated. Nobody is perfect and it's usually those with the worst secret behaviour that are quick to condemn.

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone - Jesus

Tokotaya:
Viral Video Shows Anambra University Guards Assaulting, Flogging And Dragging Student Out Of Premises After Nude Leak By Male Colleague


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xmFnPhg3nmI



https://microsecondnews.com/2025/07/20/female-varsity-student-assaulted-by-school-security-after-leak-of-nude-in-anambra-video/

This olosho will still go to church on Sundays shouting hallelujah. I don't understand why our moral fabric in this nation has been torned despite influx of fake religious houses. I don't pity ladies with olosho mentality. Why allow anyone to take your nude pics why, why, why? What is the need?

After reading the comments, I cannot say those who call Nigeria a big zoo are totally wrong, it shows how backward and unintelligent a large population of Nigerians are, I will not speak further.