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Can a woman get her kids ready for school without shouting? Please recommend ways to do it for me because my wife shouts too much.

. Wake the kids up at 6/ get them bed alarm ⏰️( this type). Bath them,wear them their skool uniform/train them how to do it themselves. Cook their breakfast ready(pack their takeaway in their respective school flask and eat some b4 dey leave out

Let her wake up earlier.

She's passing out her frustrations on the kids who in turn will think it's normal amd start doing same to others.

Start by helping her get the kids ready for school.
Your wife is not crazy, she's overwhelmed.

Is that so hard to understand?

When my mom of blessed memory was alive,the kind of discipline she instilled on us was so top-notch........In the morning,each and every one of us had and knew our daily duties and chores which we were assigned to even without my mom coming to our room to remind us.......My dad played a very crucial role in that as he was a disciplinarian to the core ........Only his facial look alone was enough to remind you of what you needed to do if you don't want to go to a war..

As a father and the head of the house,you can easily sit your kids down and talk some sense into them . The Bible which says spare the rod and spoil the child didn't say that for nothing...

Lemme tell you this Mr. Man, you've failed and still failing as a father if you are leaving all the disciplinary measures which you're supposed to display as a parent for your wife only . And to think you're even complaining about her shouting too much beats my imagination . Imagine the kind of men this generation is breeding

MaziObinnaokija:
. Wake the kids up at 6/ get them bed alarm ⏰️( this type). Bath them,wear them their skool uniform/train them how to do it themselves. Cook their breakfast ready(pack their takeaway in their respective school flask and eat some b4 dey leave out

Yes, a man is capable of doing that almost daily till the kids are grown to avoid the troubles and the husband must believe in himself, though it's not going to be easy.

Chilipepper:
Can a woman get her kids ready for school without shouting? Please recommend ways to do it for me because my wife shouts too much.

The solution is very simple! You take over the chore of getting your kids ready for school each morning.

otipoju:
Let her wake up earlier. She's passing out her frustrations on the kids who in turn will think it's normal amd start doing same to others.

If she is frustrated then the non-frustrated partner should take on the responsibility. After all they are his kids too, and getting them ready for school can be handled by anyone of the couple or both.

Aifrobeats:
➜Yes, a man is capable of doing that almost daily till the kids are grown to avoid the troubles and the husband must believe in himself, though it's not going to be easy.

Is it easier for the already frustrated woman to do?

Kobojunkie:
Is it easier for the already frustrated woman to do?

My focus wasn't on the woman so I can't say.

Aifrobeats:
➜My focus wasn't on the woman so I can't say.

I don't follow. Is a man less capable?

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow. Is a man less capable?

I don't even understand you self

People will tell others “children are blessings” while nearly running mad from frustration. Tufia. One alone can run someone insane talk less of four.

SCREAMING na their trademark naaa.
If you get a woman that allows you sleep well, menhhhh you are endorsed for 90 years.
As a man always get your personal money for pocket. ...eee get why.
Reasons like these remain one of such.
Go lodge for somewhere and become a visiting professor, at least for your sanity.

No woman ever dies from Nagging.
Never heard of such. Rather it energizes dem.
Na you go die before them, so protect yourself from such first.

Help your wife to discipline them. Kids fear their fathers the most!

Did u help her out?

Did you offer to bath some kids while she's in the kitchen?

Women shout less when there's help.

Lol.
You're complaining as though you help out. Kids can be very frustrating sometimes.

Chilipepper:
Can a woman get her kids ready for school without shouting? Please recommend ways to do it for me because my wife shouts too much.

You need not worry. It's just a phase. The kids are merely frustrating her. They will soon grow out of that phase.

Can't be fixed except if you get the kids ready yourself. If you tell her,she would still do same.

Let her prepare their food only.

It is normal children are not ready to do some things within the time framed to get them ready for school until you engage them by barking out orders or applying some corporal punishment.

Mariangeles:
Start by helping her get the kids ready for school.
Your wife is not crazy, she's overwhelmed.

Is that so hard to understand?

Stop defending this. 90% of mothers unconsciously bully their children until the children are old enough to begin to resist it in many ways and I tell you, it's never pleasant at the end...

It’s definitely possible, but it takes a lot of intentional planning, patience and calmness.
My wife tends to shout too in the mornings, and I notice it affects everyone. I started to involve myself by prepping uniforms and school bags the night before, setting alarms earlier, and using calm music or helping out in the kitchen.
This helped alot.

Children respond better when things are not rushed. It's not easy, but with some teamwork and consistency, it can be done."

Burntcoal:
Did u help her out?

Did you offer to bath some kids while she's in the kitchen?

Women shout less when there's help.

U lie 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I disagree completely.
Not all women scream to convey & request for assistance.
So why do they still scream at househelps who are already helping out?🤣🤣🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

Try doing it for a week without shouting.
We are rooting for you.

I really feel for our women honestly. It's never easy.

Same women wouldn't sleep at night because oga wants her to ride on him till daybreak. When it's daybreak, she has to prep the kids for sch and prepare breakfast for them and probably go to her own place of work. If she's a full-time housewife, she has to sleep during the day when the kids are away. But if oga dey house, him go still wan knack madam in the afternoon. It's tiring.

God bless all mothers

meobizy:
People will tell others “children are blessings” while nearly running mad from frustration. Tufia. One alone can run someone insane talk less of four.

This is still not enough reason for a person to say he or she will not have any kids

Hahaha Hahaha my wife shout too ,just join her to shout small then tell her is ok and that too much shouting is not good for her health...say it in a romantic way ,she will calm down

You are not alone. It's not easy to manage children especially if they are boys. You can't stop it but you can manage or curtail it by assisting her. When the burden is lesser, the shouting will reduce.

Kingpele:
Hahaha Hahaha my wife shout too ,just join her to shout small then tell her is ok and that too much shouting is not good for her health...say it in a romantic way ,she will calm down

🤣🤣🤣
...I dey tell you na trademark naaa
With such women If you no get BP by age 45, you no go get am again.