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Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(m): 10:00am On Jan 20, 2016
Is it advisable to have another elaborate wedding after losing a partner of a year marriage to death?considering how your former inlaws and those who are close to you would feel about it.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by chocolateme(f): 10:01am On Jan 20, 2016
I think so, atleast for the sake of the lady being married as its her own first time of being married and which is the joy of every woman though not every woman. It doesn't need to be expensive though.

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Cutehector(m): 10:03am On Jan 20, 2016
Till death do you two part.. Dat includes your in laws cheesy

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by dulux07(m): 10:10am On Jan 20, 2016
Sometimes, worryin abt wat others think affects us in a negative way. Jst do dat that makesvu happy. Elaborate or not. But personally i would go for a non-elaborate wedin

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(m): 10:14am On Jan 20, 2016
chocolateme:
I think so, atleast for the sake of the lady being married as its her own first time of being married and which is the joy of every woman though not every woman. It doesn't need to be expensive though.
you are right,because the new fiancee's relatives might want a loud wedding

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(m): 10:17am On Jan 20, 2016
dulux07:
Sometimes, worryin abt wat others think affects us in a negative way. Jst do dat that makesvu happy. Elaborate or not. But personally i would go for a non-elaborate wedin
I would also prefer that,but at times,one needs to dance to the tune of those around us to avoid being tagged a proud one

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(m): 10:19am On Jan 20, 2016
Cutehector:
Till death do you two part.. Dat includes your in laws cheesy
no be generational marriage na grin

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by dulux07(m): 10:20am On Jan 20, 2016
Holluwatarhyor:
I would also prefer that,but at times,one needs to dance to the tune of those around us to avoid being tagged a proud one
True, but remember u cant please evryone, even if one goes for a non- elaborate, sum pple will stil find sumtin bad to say.

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Holluwatarhyor(m): 10:23am On Jan 20, 2016
dulux07:

True, but remember u cant please evryone, even if one goes for a non- elaborate, sum pple will stil find sumtin bad to say.
very true

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jan 20, 2016
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Jan 20, 2016
Everyone's got a past but not every one has a future, if yu ever live to celebrate any significant event in your life do it irrespective of wht people mouth would say.

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by cutetopsey(f): 12:37pm On Jan 20, 2016
Its not advisable!
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jan 20, 2016
Don't think it's wise

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Jan 20, 2016
Are you saying that people should stop living their lives because of the dead?sad They are dead and they are not coming back. Having an elaborate wedding does not meena you loved the dead less, it means you are ready to forge on with lifesmiley

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by davedpo(m): 12:42pm On Jan 20, 2016
on such one needs Gods leading but to me i will talk to my spouse and make it a little elaborate
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by humanbeing5th(f): 12:42pm On Jan 20, 2016
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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by penzino(m): 12:42pm On Jan 20, 2016
It's a personal choice Jare.. ..

Weda na Elaborate or not, the decision is based on the parties involved.

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by afilaka(f): 12:43pm On Jan 20, 2016
I tink everytin dat wld b done during d weddin shuld b in moderation.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Pavore9: 12:43pm On Jan 20, 2016
We shouldn't live our lives worrying over what other would think. lt is between the person and the new spouse to decide how it should go!

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Perfecter4real(m): 12:44pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
cheap attention seeker....you now have it are u happy?

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by kennyman2000(m): 12:44pm On Jan 20, 2016
Hmmmm
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Rukkydelta(f): 12:45pm On Jan 20, 2016
It depends on the individual
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Godsonkemz(m): 12:46pm On Jan 20, 2016
Not necessary
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by austine4real(m): 12:47pm On Jan 20, 2016
Make sure it is not that expensive and u can do it in a location very far 4rm ur inlaws.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by OversightTM(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20, 2016
Na d person choice jare
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by kaziblake(f): 12:49pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley
lmao.
You are not serious.
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Mariojane(f): 12:49pm On Jan 20, 2016
Cutehector:
Till death do you two part.. Dat includes your in laws cheesy
SUPPORTED. if it is the other way round, will they consider the lady's families feeling? won't the guy move on with his life? he may manage to keep her pix on his phone for 2months after that he will delete it on the excuse that seeing her picture hurt him sooo much.

but even at that, everything should be done moderately and it also depend of the cause of death (if it is from the village, the best thing is to go to registry ) cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Bluezy13(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20, 2016
Simply put; it is ideal.



It is you and you alone.

You worry about your dead husband's relatives, you should also worry about your to-be-husband's relative as well. What are they thinking about you


Shove your thoughts aside and let's have a hell of an IDEAL wedding!!!


After all, life goes on...
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by kaziblake(f): 12:50pm On Jan 20, 2016
Pls go to registry and do your marriage.
Must everything in 9ja be loud.

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Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by Bluezy13(m): 12:51pm On Jan 20, 2016
irunooboo:
wedding is not the issue here but the sexual power of the man especially in marriage. if a man cannot last minimum of 50mins on the 1st round, such marriage is useless. secondly the man must possess a big dick so he's wife will have no reason to cheat on him later in life smiley

Fallacious!!!
Re: Is It Ideal Having Another Elaborate Wedding After A Wife/Husband Is Dead? by afosdan: 12:51pm On Jan 20, 2016
That's rubish and money wasted.

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