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You want to div*rce because wifey saved your name as ....whatever?
Tell her you don't like that and ask her to change it to your preferred choice.

You don't know what marriage is........................................................UPS and DOWNS

Node911:
Messing with him is different from her action rn. If she can go to that extent, she’s definitely or partly no more in the marriage. Except she’s childish enough not to know the meaning of what she did.

I’m not on the side of the husband. It’s possible what he did too is gravely. But she should file for a divorce instead of playing games.

I think you've answered your own question without realizing it. Women can be quite childish and may sometimes not know the gravity of their actions.

For his wife to change his name on her phone to "KUNLE AIRTEL", trust me, she's just messing with him to get him to react.

If she's truly tired of the marriage, she would have been showing any of the following signs;

1- Overtly disrespecting him. Like going out or coming back late without informing him.
2- Refusing him access to her OPUEH.
3- Frustrating the living daylight out of him through endless nagging, complaints and quarrels.
4- Refusing to do anything in the house like cooking or cleaning.

If all these don't work, then, she'll go for the jugular which will definitely drive Uncle crazy. See ehn, no try woman o. The only gender that spoke to the devil face to face without fear.

I repeat, his wife is an Angel in comparison to mine. I always make it a habit to be on her good side, make I for no collect. My own wife is full of evil tricks and you'll never know because she looks very innocent.

so what's the second name she wrote after dele if it not airtel so we can properly answer ur question lol hahaha

Is Dele not your name? Is Airtel not your work place. What offense has she committed na
Many of you attach too much seriousness to frivolities. Wetin you wan tell me wey no even save her number because I know it offhand

If no be say make the children no go suffer or wayward I for say make you fling her belongings outside

If no be say make the children no go suffer or wayward I for say make you fling her belongings outside .

I can't even remember the last time I addressed my wife by her actual name... Not to speak of saving it as such on my phone.

Not even during dating years did I call her by her first name.

If this story is true, then Op... That marriage is practically over.

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Don't be childish like her, show maturity and display emotional maturity....she's still in pain. Give it time and continue to love her, naturally she'll change it be herself even use your pix as wallpaper

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

hahahahaha. Just follow am jeje. Divorce no make sense

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

That's a woman for you. Just ignore it. Act as if you never saw it. She will change it when she has come over the pain of that fight between both of you.

pneumaticos:
For real

My wife knows my banking pass and I know her own too

Infact we use same.pass on phone

She sees all the people calling me.for money
Including the amount sent to them
But I no get escaped
Some time she dey vex
But she met me doing father Christmas

So she no get choice because I dey settle her own too

But some times I check her phone too
Like maybe once every month to see those disturbing her and the status of her business

I seriously don't know why husband and wife can't access each others phone

Many has misunderstood Union to combination of all things. Everything that has advantages also be with disadvantages.

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

You don downgrade be dat from hubby to Mr. Nobody.

Sorry, biko. Buy am plenty suya, she will quickly upgrade you back.

You are not serious



My wife used to do it when we fight, but it's just her way of fighting back and it's nothing



I didn't even do like I see it and she want me to react but I didn't and it's ok if you do not checking her phone, it help your marriage. Heart of women do forgive after a while

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

...just pretend as if you do not know about the dele Airtel ..she is still annoyed about the misunderstanding both of you had...so just treat her well, show her love and care when she realizes that you are caring about her and expressing that love to her ..she will change her ways and change your name back to hubby or even sweetheart

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

I deliberately save all names on my phone with actual names. So if my phone is stolen, fraudsters cannot figure out who to call with I am stranded in abc
Send money now

Of course you are just clout farming anyways

Sagefromtheeast:
So when you see those disturbing her,what do you do?
Just curious

Actually none never seen one
There are rules to marriage
Not just love

Oga fix your home. She is the best for you. What else do you want? She has beautiful kids for you

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Dzzzz:
You too save her name as Mercy-House…So when she sees it she go ask if na housegirl you wan call am.

perfect,lols

sexyto:
My wife also changed my name on her phone from my treasure to my hubby, na so I changed her own also and I no get time. Do same and let her see it, she will know you too can play the game.

My hubby no bad naa. 😄
You sef, wetin you do her?

Sonnobax15:

Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

This one na wife, no b gf

advanceDNA:
Did u cheat or something close to cheating?

Talk true ooooo .

even if she caught you cheating unless you are a weakling. Use ur head well because another man is in her mind.

Node911:
Messing with him is different from her action rn. If she can go to that extent, she’s definitely or partly no more in the marriage.
Except she’s childish enough not to know the meaning of what she did.

I’m not on the side of the husband. It’s possible what he did too is gravely. But she should file for a divorce instead of playing games.

Go to what extent?
You do know that women do not see things the way men do, don't you?

The issue could as simple as she being mad at him, and wanting to get back at him, nothing more.
And all she wants is to be pacified by him (if the husband offended her).
Una no know how to pet una wives again? Na wa O!

You men really need to learn to understand your women, honestly.

Nothing serious.

If this or something similar has not happened before, ask her why and let her know you don't like it but if it has happened in the time past depending on what you used to save her number. Let's assume it's wifey, you too can change her to Bola- Glo assuming that's her name and where she works.

Just pray she no give you pepper soup chop

Myrepublic:
Dele my guy No part ways jare.

The next one you go meet fit save ur name as meeeh. Oga fix ur home,make ur marriage work.

lol! I say make I complete d word, dele is equal to delete, sir.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

for what reasons exactly?

Look it's better he knows his fate with the wife now he can make a sound judgement

You have many numbers. She needs to differentiate.

Dele dey him own, things come dey lap for dele,, Abobi just dey like dele,,Wata Bam Bam,

Lovestrong:
lol! I say make I complete d word, dele is equal to delete, sir.

Wahala

Op go don tire for us Walai

pneumaticos:
Actually none never seen one
There are rules to marriage
Not just love

Good

pocohantas:
Please part ways with her. The children will be fine as far as you two coparent.

Once she leaves, stay single and enjoy your life. Men do not even benefit from marriage. Just see how this one is stressing you over small issue you thought has been resolved.

I wish you the best.

Has NL made you a defacto red piller? How do you come up with responses that gives aura for aura?

You need to discuss this with her. Go into the conversation without any assumptions. Try to find out what is in her heart. The goal should be to resolve any issues that remains unresolved.