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Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by alphonsoolajide(op): 7:42am On Jul 27, 2025
Popular Nollywood actress Shaffy Bello has opened up about her stance on dating younger men. During a recent appearance on the podcast “Diary of a Naija Girl”, Shaffy shared her personal reasons for no longer being interested in dating younger men, noting that her mindset and priorities have shifted over the years. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

Reflecting on her past relationships, the actress revealed that she once enjoyed dating younger men as part of a fun, carefree phase in her life. “What I want now is different,” she said. “When I did it, I was having fun. It was for a season, and that season is over. But there’s nothing wrong with it.”

Shaffy admitted that dating a younger man was an enjoyable experience at the time, but emphasized that she has moved on to a new chapter in her life where she’s now open to the idea of marriage.

The actress also disclosed that she still receives numerous direct messages (DMs) from young men, which she finds quite surprising and amusing. Despite this attention, Shaffy is clear that her focus has shifted, and she’s no longer interested in exploring relationships with younger men.

Her candid revelation sheds light on how evolving life goals and priorities can influence relationship choices, especially for individuals in the public eye.
https://eyesoflagos.com/shaffy-bello-explains-why-she-cant-date-young-men-anymore/

Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by columbus007(m): 7:53am On Jul 27, 2025
Just suits yourself already, you own you, the best way you can.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by bigpriik: 7:57am On Jul 27, 2025
Nobody ask you madame
Not enough content write more
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Nobody: 8:00am On Jul 27, 2025
It baffles me why someone that should be on a grandma level at this stage in her life should be talking about dating when she should be discussing highBP and diabetes management.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Omihanifa: 9:10am On Jul 27, 2025
Nonexisting1:
It baffles me why someone that should be on a grandma level at this stage in her life should be talking about dating when she should be discussing highBP and diabetes management.
Dey play. If only you know how western culture don penerate into nigeria. You wint be saying what you are saying.

Nowadays you go dey see women of 45 upwards dey openly flaunt their relationships with younger boys. When i say younger boys, am talking of guys in their 20s or early 30s

It's even worse among all these rich lagos women. Go festac and lekki make you see as e dey go.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by SocialJustice: 9:51am On Jul 27, 2025
She's in a very good place with her health. Looks like someone her knees can still touch her shoulders in bed.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by EvilMerodack(m): 10:22am On Jul 27, 2025
Attractiveness or not, there's nothing appealing about older women

I don't care if you are Genevieve or Omotola, as far say you old pass me, I'm tur-ned off already


Make men dey get small pri-de na
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by happney65: 10:32am On Jul 27, 2025
EvilMerodack:
Attractiveness or not, there's nothing appealing about older women

I don't care if you are Genevieve or Omotola, as far say you old pass me, I'm tur-ned off already


Make men dey get small pri-de na
I tire o. I can only whyne you. I have absolutely no business with an older woman.

Make she go meet Tinubu
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by cr7lomo: 11:50am On Jul 27, 2025
Delulu is real.... women really need a special course about life and men in general....cos women never get out their delusion
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Akinpresident: 2:01pm On Jul 27, 2025
Nonexisting1:
It baffles me why someone that should be on a grandma level at this stage in her life should be talking about dating when she should be discussing highBP and diabetes management.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


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Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by PythonPro001: 2:03pm On Jul 27, 2025
Her choice, her problem.

22. Don't ask Nairaland members for contact details (email, phone, bbpin) or investments.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by donleo92(m): 2:03pm On Jul 27, 2025
If you date....... None of my business


You don't date....... Still none of my business

I would prefer you become a second wife to a rich Ahaji, that would do you well
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by fasho01(m): 2:04pm On Jul 27, 2025
Sugar mummy. Why should you be dating your son's and nephew's in the first place undecided
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Konjiboii: 2:05pm On Jul 27, 2025
If our men can marry white women who are old enough to be their grand mum then I don’t see why young boys won’t hit on her, all things considered she look hella good. It would be more difficult for her to find someone older to settle with in Nigeria, outside the country she will absolutely find a partner.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Triangles1(m): 2:05pm On Jul 27, 2025
Dating younger guys anymore, meaning she has dated multiple young guys before now is big big gbol....
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by jojothaiv(m): 2:06pm On Jul 27, 2025
I'm weaken by this hee submission o.

Matter just heap anyhow.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by MrJames007: 2:06pm On Jul 27, 2025
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Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by blesdman(m): 2:08pm On Jul 27, 2025
EvilMerodack:
Attractiveness or not, there's nothing appealing about older women

I don't care if you are Genevieve or Omotola, as far say you old pass me, I'm tur-ned off already


Make men dey get small pri-de na
They are usually very sweet to deal with. So don't just castigate them
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by potent5(m): 2:08pm On Jul 27, 2025
You cannot have your cake and eat it. After doing oshofree for small boys who have removed all the ingredients, you are now looking for somebody's son to dump the chaff. grin
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by pocohantas(f): 2:10pm On Jul 27, 2025
I like this new pattern.
Stay away from marriage in young age.
Avoid all the stress and building stage.
Enter in retirement with one old tired man. Maybe as a second wife or second marriage.
Either way, the man is now calm and tired.

Nice one!👍👍👍
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Nobody: 2:12pm On Jul 27, 2025
Women will never cease to amaze someone. You mean a woman who's suppose to be talking about her children getting married is now advertising herself for marital suitors?

A lady at 25 will see young men of 28 - 32 as small broke boys. At 25 she's dating married men, big boys from 35+, Yahoo boys and co claiming she can never date small boys.

At 35, she start adjusting her age downward, at 37 she start talking about about marriage with young men of 33, 35 and within her age range and at this point those men she dated that were 10 - 15 older than her already consider her as an old cargo
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Ofunaofu: 2:15pm On Jul 27, 2025
happney65:
I tire o. I can only whyne you. I have absolutely no business with an older woman.

Make she go meet Tinubu
If she is endowed on the chest, why not

Wwwwwwwwww

Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Bwilliam(m): 2:15pm On Jul 27, 2025
"... What I want now is different,” she said. “When I did it, I was having fun. It was for a season, and that season is over. But there’s nothing wrong with it...”

She now wants to retire, looking for the good boy man that doesn't know the game.

Hey Siri, play J. Cole's - No Role Modelz -
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by BreakingNews21: 2:21pm On Jul 27, 2025
I don't know her films but I'm glad to read Madame Bello had her fun during her prime years. Did the Holy Bible make a mistake where only males and not females can sow dere wild oats and regret it later in life? Proverbs 1:10-14.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by meobizy(m): 2:23pm On Jul 27, 2025
Nobody asked.


vroom-vroom-vrrrroooooooommmmmm.
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by UkoAnnang(m): 2:25pm On Jul 27, 2025
cheesy

Shugar

Come over here let your boy pampered you
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by happney65: 2:26pm On Jul 27, 2025
Ofunaofu:
If she is endowed on the chest, why not

Wwwwwwwwww
You be werey .. grin grin grin

27 more characters needed. Lojsnd
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by jaszplus12(m): 2:28pm On Jul 27, 2025
Omihanifa:
Dey play. If only you know how western culture don penerate into nigeria. You wint be saying what you are saying.

Nowadays you go dey see women of 45 upwards dey openly flaunt their relationships with younger boys. When i say younger boys, am talking of guys in their 20s or early 30s

It's even worse among all these rich lagos women. Go festac and lekki make you see as e dey go.
You know the younger age goes in more times than an older age...if you know what I mean... grin
Re: Shaffy Bello Explains Why She Can't Date Young Men Anymore by Krankhead: 2:29pm On Jul 27, 2025
Confused person. All those time you suppose to marry you refused and was dating younger boys, now it's too late to be looking for a married and.
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