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Nonexisting1:
This is not the right question to ask the gentleman. Ask him what caused the quarrel not if he cheated. What if the wife started the quarrel and still be emotionally manipulating him to see if he will give in to her demands. She changed his name in her phone knowing fully well he would see it. That smells like one of their antics.

Bro ,not in this scenario! A quarrel that took the intervention of elders definitely has something to do with the unclothedness of one of them!

Na dele wey sumtin de pepper so na him most likely kommit!

pocohantas:
Please part ways with her. The children will be fine as far as you two coparent.

Once she leaves, stay single and enjoy your life. Men do not even benefit from marriage. Just see how this one is stressing you over small issue you thought has been resolved.

I wish you the best.

I pity who take this advice seriously. Lol.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

Why..
Why would husband stay away from their wife's phone. The husband should allow her to bring curse to the children?

Sonnobax15:

Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

Guy! Your mentally will change when you marry..
Your hustle, your money, your time, your everything will be dedicated to her and the children. Her money and everything is just for her.
Why do you think you should not police her extra activities. How can you marry a woman that you have the feelings she's cheating or would cheat.
Oga! Marriage is entirely a different ball game.
A cheating wife and disrespectful wife bring curse to children.

Most times men can be so Jealous and crazy at the same time, you no see suspicious messages nor nude pictures with man and you are going these far,that means say na die if you see am with man,na you fit die because you fit take sniper with your thinking

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

@bold
Lolz changing how she saves your line on her phone was out of anger right, and that been said, you thinking of parting ways with her meaning there's more to it not just the change of name on her phone. If parents are having issues aside cheating and witchcrafting eg wickedness can't it be resolved and come back to the way it used to be during relationship, during courtship before marriage and immediately after wedding those times are always sweet, can't it come back to the way it used to be

I'm not married yet and I'm not understanding ooo...

Why would you tell a married man to stay out of his wife's phone, this is how you guys encourage cheating and later shout DNA DNA

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

would you believe me same happened to me now she is a renounce olosho. Bros run for your life before it's too late

Angelfrost:
I can't even remember the last time I addressed my wife by her actual name... Not to speak of saving it as such on my phone.

Not even during dating years did I call her by her first name.

If this story is true, then Op... That marriage is practically over.

No marriage is over just by changing the name..She is just being childish which is common with women.
You are too serious my brother. What is the heck in that? Is his name not Dele again? Rubbish. The guy sef fun die.
I guess she knows your soft spot and she is playing the game.

Legally married couples who can't access each others phone are just deceiving themselves or they are in a marriage of convenience or open marriage.

If we can't be totally transparent with each other then we have no business been married. Most marriages are just existing they are not homes so am not surprised.

@op she is just angry, back then I use to delete the number of anyone am angry with even my elder sis once we laugh the next day I don go save am back.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

I pity for people like you! How can you be living with someone you can't check their phone any time! Alot of men have gone to early grave or father other men children because of this nonchalant attitude! Continue

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

You have ended the thread, it's such a simple matter and begs why immaturity level is not checked before people actually marry.

Why on earth will you as a man (with children ó) have so little to do with your time that you can even find time to check your wife's phone, then complain about what you find on there?

Anyway, we all know it's a false thread created to generate traffic.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

Please tell me why as a married man you can't check your wife's phone

Whois:
Afi suru



That heartbreak you're looking for

Same hrtbrk you are running for is waiting for you in the future.

By then I hope u would still have the energy and resources to take care of your own biological children after you might have wasted your youthful years nurturing someone else's flowers.

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

I feel you bro. When kids are involved. It's a very hard thing to do. I don't know how some people were able to do it.

Sonnobax15:

Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

Basically nobody should get married. Why would it be for those with strong heart. It shouldn't be like that.

torqque7:
Both of you are not mature enough for marriage sha,very childish of both of you..una think say marriage na child's play?so every time una fight she go change your name abi what does she mean?and you will end marriage cos your wife changed your pet name to your real name on her phone?choi na wa o..so if she comes cheat nkor?youl kill her kill yourself too?smh

Biko incase she cheat or send nvdes, what would you advise the husband to do?

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

Una like dey talk rubbish. Why can't the wife or husband check one another's phone. Why should he or her see rubbish

Yamleg:
Biko incase she cheat or send nvdes, what would you advise the husband to do?

Hmm that should be end of the marriage o..A married woman who has the guts to cheat or even send her nudes to another man doesn't respect or regard her husband at all but she regards the other man enough to not want to hurt his feelings by turning him or his request down so she places the man above her own husband and any man who decides to stay after his wife does so should get ready to kpai soon in the hands of the same woman.

helinues:
The issue is yet to be resolved. She might still be angry

She changing the name is even better. Some might even delete the number. When the issue has been resolved they will then save the number bk again.

Node911:
Messing with him is different from her action rn. If she can go to that extent, she’s definitely or partly no more in the marriage. Except she’s childish enough not to know the meaning of what she did.

I’m not on the side of the husband. It’s possible what he did too is gravely. But she should file for a divorce instead of playing games.

lol…things we see on the internet. And you still call them friends?

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Abeg don't part with her for the sake of those innocent kids.
As for me i dont care how you saved my number if you are discharging your duties as a wife

Sincere Advice !!!.. Dont bother yourself... and let it be obvious you don't care

Yvngex:
Please tell me why as a married man you can't check your wife's phone

Because it's immature and as a married man, you should have better things to do with your time than that.

Use that time to play with your children or thinking of an investment portfolio to build.

She let it slide cos she is also guilty of your crime.. even though it was an innocent one..

Sonnobax15:

Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

aswani:
Because it's immature and as a matted man, you should have better things to do with your time than that.

Use that time to play with your children or thinking of an investment portfolio to build.

Mmmm, my Guy if I no fit trust person wey dey cook for me, person wey I dey sleep on the same bed with then what's the need of being with the person at first?

Yvngex:
Mmmm, my Guy if I no fit trust person wey dey cook for me, person wey I dey sleep on the same bed with then what's the need of being with the person at first?

The reason you are checking the phone is because you don't trust the person, not because of what you saw.

You might want to explore your options of being with that person baring in mind any children.