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Everyone grew up making friends in and around his neighborhood including schools and religious gatherings

As time goes on,due to the unpredictability of life, different things happened that displaced nearly everyone.

Sometimes we come across some of them either in a good or bad situation.

But the question here is,has any of your childhood friends assisted youbin one way or the other in life.

They don't owe you anything...help from friends is not mandatory. Expectations lead to disappointments.

TUANKU:
They don't owe you anything...help from friends is not mandatory. Expectations lead to disappointments.

In life nobody owes anybody anything but in the journey of life we all needs assistance.

Those that render help to families and friends,did they owe them anything,no, sometimes if you are more opportune or fortunate in life, you should give back to society.

Do you think People like Bill gates that gives back to society and humanity doesn't know what they are doing.

If u want peace of mind in this world,don't let people contribute a dime in your life,if not,they will carry their trumpet and say what they didn't do for u.

ibechris:
If u want peace of mind in this world,don't let people contribute a dime in your life,if not,they will carry their trumpet and say what didn't do for u.

There's no way someone will not contribute anything to your life

The great people you see and admire in life,were assisted in one way or the other in some stages in their life..

So,as you are now, you will reject any help or assistance given to you

Why should they assist me when I’m not handicap?

No, they haven't and I prefer it that way... I wouldn't want to be made indebted to someone for the rest of my life simply because they once assisted me with something.

Just a small assistance, they'd start feeling entitled to your every achievement.

You only see that in Nollywood movies, nobody send your papa.