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If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by obembet(op): 7:09pm On Jul 28, 2025
I believe t is very natural for a woman to love her own child. It comes easily and naturally.

But with what I just saw on X today, it shows that's not every woman love or care about children.. expecially this ladies of nowadays.

Of course I believe every life matters but this message this lady take it so different.

Is This Statement Normal As From Responsible Woman?

Source: https://x.com/iyiowofavour/status/1930566422322679911?t=pmeq9FvOVx6ecalJ4ssDZA&s=19

Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Tohsynetita1(m): 9:03pm On Jul 28, 2025
Yes now, why will you save baby instead of mother first.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Arobaga:
I will save my wife too


Make I come allow my wife die for baby wey I no know


If wife die leaving child, do u know the task ahead? Can a single father handle the stress of a motherless child?


With 5k u don bury unborn child. Do u know how much it costs to bury a wife? Let alone a wife’s family that knows u chose your child over their daughter


Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu


I no mention names ooo if u like add helinu or yarim


Na u sabi
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by frankmoney(m): 9:08am On Jul 29, 2025
She is right actually, I would want my wife to be saved
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Racoon(m): 9:08am On Jul 29, 2025
Yes please! Medically the life of the woman will be preferentially spare than the baby
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Georgry(m): 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
I'm definitely saving my wife, it's a no brainier to be honest.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by jakD(m): 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
Nothing is wrong with her statement. If it's impossible to save the duo, then save her first. She can always give birth to more.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Mikespecialone(m): 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
very very very very very very true, if she is alive more children is coming
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by JAPAHTML: 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
I will save my wife and have another baby but I can't have the same her 😁
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by ZombieTAMER: 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
This is how it should be

The baby would be scared for life

The mother can give birth next time
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 9:09am On Jul 29, 2025
If I ever have to choose between my wife and our baby, I'll choose my wife abeg.

Better to have her recover and give me more children than lose her and raise a baby without a mom or with a stepmom who would never treat him like his biological mom.

Of course I'm gonna marry a woman who's worth choosing in the first place.

Na the koko be dat.

Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Karleb(m): 9:10am On Jul 29, 2025
The question we have never asked is why medical professionals ask husband of the woman who to save between the child and the mom.

Should it not be implied that the woman's life is more important?
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Pierocash(m): 9:10am On Jul 29, 2025
Which sane man will be saving a baby first instead of the wife. Except she is a bad wife, I'll save the baby first, she can die if she chooses
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by kingslj: 9:11am On Jul 29, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
Yes now, why will you save baby instead of mother first.
.

she is correct , wife 1st ... another baby will come ... if she was your daughter nko?
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by SEGLIZ: 9:11am On Jul 29, 2025
exactly. still pray your mother in-law is not present at that hospital. those nasty mother in-law would prefer the new born for an existing one.

witchcraft of the highest order.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by RillJ(m): 9:12am On Jul 29, 2025
I would say the same thing! Save the mother, more babies may come after.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Taquin(f): 9:12am On Jul 29, 2025
cry Obemebe, You are a lady.

Why did you create ths topic? Who is going to raise the child when she is gone? Her husband? Her mother-in-law?

You must be a man using a female's designation.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Macnnoli4(m): 9:12am On Jul 29, 2025
Too much Nollywood film lol. I think in medical ethics, the doctor is supposed to give priority to the woman's life after the doctor has determined it won't be possible to save both mother and child.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Landmaq: 9:13am On Jul 29, 2025
obembet:
I believe t is very natural for a woman to love her own child. It comes easily and naturally.

But with what I just saw on X today, it shows that's not every woman love or care about children.. expecially this ladies of nowadays.

Of course I believe every life matters but this message this lady take it so different.

Is This Statement Normal As From Responsible Woman?

Source: https://x.com/iyiowofavour/status/1930566422322679911?t=pmeq9FvOVx6ecalJ4ssDZA&s=19[/quote]Must you apply emotions to everything? She's being sensible. A baby that has not even experienced life. Amd coming to the world without a mother. That's even callous to birth that baby
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by AK481(m): 9:13am On Jul 29, 2025
Tohsynetita1:
Yes now, why will you save baby instead of mother first.
In medicine, you save the mother 1st and not the baby
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Offpoint1:
Let me think of what 40 characters I can give seun to make him happy.

Coming into the world without mom is already a disaster for you... If the baby themselves can choose, they will choose not be saved.


If we were consulted before coming to this world, 90% of us wouldn't choose to come.

Nothing in this world is worth us coming.
Men created money to comfort themselves from reality.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Cj4charles(m): 9:14am On Jul 29, 2025
Arobaga:
I will save my wife too


Make I come allow my wife die for baby wey I no know


Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu


I no mention names ooo if u like add helinu or yarim


Na u sabi
Direct shot fired......... This table was very strong before you touched it
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Cossybob(m): 9:15am On Jul 29, 2025
Pierocash:
Which sane man will be saving a baby first instead of the wife. Except she is a bad wife, I'll save the baby first, she can die if she chooses
She's a bad wife and you allowed her carry your kids, make it make sense huh
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by GIFTEDPLANNERS(m): 9:15am On Jul 29, 2025
It wrong for doctors to save lives of babies instead of the mothers. To what gain will you save babies in place of mothers. I find this very wrong
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by chronique(m): 9:15am On Jul 29, 2025
She's right. Save her first. She can always have another baby but you can not have another her. Yes, there are lots of women out there but chances of getting one like your wife If she's a good woman, isn't easy. Better to save the woman than the baby.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by dominique(mod):
Pierocash:
Which sane man will be saving a baby first instead of the wife. Except she is a bad wife, I'll save the baby first, she can die if she chooses
I hope you have a daughter would marry a man that'll be in a position to decide if her life is worth sparing or not. That's the only way you'll understand the gravity of your words.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by davodyguy: 9:15am On Jul 29, 2025
Same mentality I had when my first child was about to be born in the hospital. I pleaded with the Doctors. Now story has changed and I love the child so much. But I would have saved the mother, cos there would be another chance to give birth again, with same woman if anything happens to the child
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by PlasmaTV: 9:16am On Jul 29, 2025
It is a very responsible and correct statement.
Nothing more to add
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by OkoAnike(m): 9:16am On Jul 29, 2025
That's what every man will do for his wife... wife first, children follow but the scenario might not be same when it comes to women's view.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Kobicove(m): 9:16am On Jul 29, 2025
I see nothing wrong with this statement

7 more characters needed
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Blitzking: 9:16am On Jul 29, 2025
obembet:
I believe t is very natural for a woman to love her own child. It comes easily and naturally.

But with what I just saw on X today, it shows that's not every woman love or care about children.. expecially this ladies of nowadays.

Of course I believe every life matters but this message this lady take it so different.

Is This Statement Normal As From Responsible Woman?

Source: https://x.com/iyiowofavour/status/1930566422322679911?t=pmeq9FvOVx6ecalJ4ssDZA&s=19[/quote]This is very true..the tree is more important than the fruit..ppl should remember a baby cannot cater for itself..no family member can take care of a child more than their parent.
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