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Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by TrainPark: 9:55am On Jul 29, 2025
This is the quintessential female mindset. No surprises at all!

99% of men will say the exact opposite!

A woman (most) will actually sacrifice her family for her own happiness; but most men will sacrifice and do sacrifice their happiness for their family!
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by mastermaestro(m): 10:03am On Jul 29, 2025
SEGLIZ:
exactly. still pray your mother in-law is not present at that hospital. those nasty mother in-law would prefer the new born for an existing one.

witchcraft of the highest order.
I dey tell you. cheesy cheesy
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by JuanDeDios: 10:05am On Jul 29, 2025
pharmagba:
Some of this ladies need to start reading
I mean read extensively.
In a medical decision the aim is to save both in any other scenario mother takes precedence over the unborn baby.
Coming to social media to display this ignorance is sad
I'm also concerned that she felt the need to come online to say this to the world. I think her case is worse than ignorance. Some kind of narcissism has to be involved.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by bdon123(m): 10:08am On Jul 29, 2025
meobizy:
There are many laws which will make the average man emotional. It doesn’t stop them from being taught to millions of lawyers, doctors and law enforcement worldwide.
Fact is wen ny wife was in Laboour,i was scared for her life first before baby.She can always giv me another child or i can stop bearing kids as i hav one already.Either way even if its my first i prefer my wife survival before a baby i never met
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by CaptainJune(m): 10:09am On Jul 29, 2025
She is on point. Is it because the birth of a baby is involved that her life takes second place in importance? She needs the saving, not the baby. Saving both is my ideal but when it boils down to the choice of saving only one - save the mother.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by fabolouz1(m): 10:17am On Jul 29, 2025
That is the number one safety rule even if you are boarding a flight.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by ganilas007: 10:18am On Jul 29, 2025
Omo my wife first oo
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by wellmax(m): 10:19am On Jul 29, 2025
SEGLIZ:
exactly. still pray your mother in-law is not present at that hospital. those nasty mother in-law would prefer the new born for an existing one.

witchcraft of the highest order.
Abeg speak of your mother oo. My MIL will never do that.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by themanderon: 10:31am On Jul 29, 2025
obembet:
I believe t is very natural for a woman to love her own child. It comes easily and naturally.

But with what I just saw on X today, it shows that's not every woman love or care about children.. expecially this ladies of nowadays.

Of course I believe every life matters but this message this lady take it so different.

Is This Statement Normal As From Responsible Woman?

Source: https://x.com/iyiowofavour/status/1930566422322679911?t=pmeq9FvOVx6ecalJ4ssDZA&s=19[/quote]Are you surprised? That is the unfortunate generation we are living in. She talk say she be sabi girl not knowing say Ozuor better pass am.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by BafanaBafana: 10:36am On Jul 29, 2025
Karleb:
The question we have never asked is why medical professionals ask husband of the woman who to save between the child and the mom.

Should it not be implied that the woman's life is more important?
No be only Nollywood e dey happen?
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by koning: 10:40am On Jul 29, 2025
That's the standard procedure. You have nothing to worry about.

When complications arise, the mother's life is a priority. Especially with premature babies.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by spencekat(m): 10:45am On Jul 29, 2025
She is correct. Another baby can be conceived and delivered.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Trymeee: 10:49am On Jul 29, 2025
So she's saying she can't give her life for a life... Lol. Something ordinary snake does every other day.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by mateyboy(m): 10:54am On Jul 29, 2025
Babies still plenty for her body so save my wife for me.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Karleb(m): 10:55am On Jul 29, 2025
BafanaBafana:
No be only Nollywood e dey happen?
pocohantas:
I have never seen or heard of a doctor asking the husband who to save. Where do they even find time for such conversation?
So twitter people have been lying to us. embarassed embarassed
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Ulogwe1: 10:55am On Jul 29, 2025
Na so my sister. My prayer for you is you and your baby come out of the labour room save and sound in Jesus name.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by GraceWilliams2: 10:57am On Jul 29, 2025
She will live to make more babies. She's right
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by pocohantas(f): 10:59am On Jul 29, 2025
Karleb:
So twitter people have been lying to us. embarassed embarassed
You sef picture it. At what point do they come to ask that question? If it is obvious labour is taking a different turn, the husband might start saying things nobody asked him due to fear and pressure. Doctors want to save both, but if push comes to shove, they go for the mother first. If the child wins, it is definitely not because they asked the husband and he chose the child.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Father4all: 11:21am On Jul 29, 2025
She is very correct.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by descartes400: 11:26am On Jul 29, 2025
Arobaga:
I will save my wife too


Make I come allow my wife die for baby wey I no know


If wife die leaving child, do u know the task ahead? Can a single father handle the stress of a motherless child?


With 5k u don bury unborn child. Do u know how much it costs to bury a wife? Let alone a wife’s family that knows u chose your child over their daughter


Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu


I no mention names ooo if u like add helinu or yarim


Na u sabi
Where ever you are, i will find you and feed you agbado. angry

Your vawulence is too much! angry
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by webincomeplus(m): 11:29am On Jul 29, 2025
Karleb:
The question we have never asked is why medical professionals ask husband of the woman who to save between the child and the mom.

Should it not be implied that the woman's life is more important?
Where does that happen? In movies? Definitely not in Nigeria!

In medical practice, it's a no-brainer. If only one life could be saved, it has to be that of the mother.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Exceed15: 11:31am On Jul 29, 2025
It sounds harsh but it make sense.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by 9jatriot(m): 11:34am On Jul 29, 2025
I just tire for all these Gen ZEE people. This is the very order I have known since time immemorial even though I am not a medical doctor.

victorDanladi:
Even in medicine,that is what they will teach medical doctors.

1-Try to safe both
2-If you can't,safe the mother
3.If you can't,at least safe the child.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Emmy000seun(m): 11:35am On Jul 29, 2025
You get bad mouth ooo😂😂😂..easy now bros...the table wey you shake na vawulence table ooo..and na one leg e get ...
Arobaga:
I will save my wife too


Make I come allow my wife die for baby wey I no know


If wife die leaving child, do u know the task ahead? Can a single father handle the stress of a motherless child?


With 5k u don bury unborn child. Do u know how much it costs to bury a wife? Let alone a wife’s family that knows u chose your child over their daughter


Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu


I no mention names ooo if u like add helinu or yarim


Na u sabi
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Toymax88: 11:39am On Jul 29, 2025
A friend lost his wife two hours after delivery on Saturday last week, the baby is alive. So sad
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by tunapawizzy: 11:45am On Jul 29, 2025
Nothing is wrong with her.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by enemyofprogress: 11:47am On Jul 29, 2025
She make sense well well pass sense sef.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by tunapawizzy: 11:48am On Jul 29, 2025
Arobaga:
Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu
Hahahaha grin angry grin grin grin angry grin grin grin grin grin
Stop coming through the corners, mention their names nobody will beat you
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by PAQ(m): 12:14pm On Jul 29, 2025
She must live because through her babies will be born, but she can never be reborn, alot of blood, sweat, tears and emotions was used in making her a woman.
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by MrSly(m): 12:19pm On Jul 29, 2025
Arobaga:
I will save my wife too


Make I come allow my wife die for baby wey I no know


If wife die leaving child, do u know the task ahead? Can a single father handle the stress of a motherless child?


With 5k u don bury unborn child. Do u know how much it costs to bury a wife? Let alone a wife’s family that knows u chose your child over their daughter


Baby wey fit grow tomorrow turn to 30k stipend earner defending Buhari and Tinubu


I no mention names ooo if u like add helinu or yarim


Na u sabi
grin grin grin
Re: If anything goes wrong during labor, save me not the baby by Liverpoolfc(m): 12:25pm On Jul 29, 2025
Ethically, that is the right thing to do. Save the mother first. She can give birth over and over again if there is life
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