What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? - Family - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Family › What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? (772 Views)
| What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Toruibestate(op): 4:07am On Jul 30, 2025*. Modified: 4:38am On Jul 30, 2025 |
Your wife tells you that not in this life would she allow another person to take you.. You both have two children, a 4 years old daughter and a 2 months old son. She then said somebody trying to take me away from her is like someone trying to take the son away from her and my reply was am I your son? But then I start pondering on what she meant. What do you think she meant? |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Bsssss: 4:18am On Jul 30, 2025 |
It means you are performing very well as a good husband and for that you she wants to do everything possible to make sure she keeps you. 4 Likes |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by MaziObinnaokija: 4:41am On Jul 30, 2025 |
 kudos to u/ur wife.U are probably loving ,homely,caring husband. Such a man/husband like u are rare to find. She won't share u with those tiktok,streets free givers girls. |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by pharmagba: 4:41am On Jul 30, 2025 |
Don't overthink Just shower her with love at all times and communicate with her |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Bahamas95(m): 5:12am On Jul 30, 2025 |
That statement means she's the jealous type but she deeply loves you. If you love your life avoid anything side chick, if you must do it (which I don't advice) be VERY smart about it......Don't ever let her find out. "Na teeth wey dem dey use laugh dem take dey bite" 1 Like |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Babangidapikin: 6:49am On Jul 30, 2025 |
She loves you , so you are now bonded .. don't look outside. |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Whois(m): 10:57am On Jul 30, 2025 |
You'll find out what she means if she caught you cheating  2 Likes |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Oyindamolah: 11:47am On Jul 30, 2025 |
Toruibestate:What your wife said carries a deep emotional weight. When she compared someone trying to take you away to someone trying to take your son away from her, she likely meant: You’re not just her husband — you’re part of her identity, her heart, her emotional center. To her, the thought of losing you feels just as painful and unthinkable as losing a child. That doesn’t mean she sees you as her child literally your question “Am I your son?” probably came from a place of confusion or feeling like she was being overly possessive. But what she likely meant is: “You’re so deeply a part of me and this family — just like our children are — that losing you would feel like a personal devastation.” It’s a metaphor for the depth of her attachment, not a claim of ownership or parent-child dynamic. Her words express: How irreplaceable you are to her The seriousness of your bond A strong emotional claim, not out of control, but protective. She’s saying: “You’re mine not in a possessive way, but in the way that love, loyalty, and deep connection bind people.” If you’re pondering it now, it probably touched something inside you. Maybe explore that with her gently — “When you said that, it really made me think about how much we mean to each other.” That could open up a meaningful conversation. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Nehyooh(m): 12:25pm On Jul 30, 2025 |
Toruibestate:My brother, you still don't know what God has done for you. No let those dirty and useless girls around destroy your marriage please. Stay with your wife o |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Kobojunkie: 3:49pm On Jul 30, 2025 |
Toruibestate:Why don't you simply ask her to better explain herself to you? Let her know your fears as well. |
| Re: What Does It Mean If Your Wife Say Such Confusing Thing To You? by Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On Jul 30, 2025 |
Bahamas95:Contrary to the nonsense brainwashing that is traditional in places like Africa, Jealousy is a very healthy emotion for humans to have. What individuals decide to do as a result of the emotion can be either positive or negative. 2. It is funny how you don't see that having a sidechick is just as bad as a negative reaction to the emotion that is jealousy.  |
Look At Me And The Son My Wife Say Is Mine. Do We Even Look Alike At All? • What Does It Mean When Your Wife Saves Your Number On Her Like This? • What Does It Mean For Babies To Be Looking Through Their Legs? • 2 • 3 • 4
Married People, Stop Endangering Your Families!!! • I'm Responsible For The Pregnancy Of My Senior Brother Wife • Can Text Message Bring You Closer As A Family?