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| Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 10:12am On Jan 12, 2025*. Modified: 8:00am On Jul 31, 2025 |
Must you marry? Single guys and ladies need to answer this question. Must you marry? |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 2:25pm On Mar 19, 2025*. Modified: 12:50pm On Apr 02, 2025 |
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| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 4:02pm On Jul 30, 2025*. Modified: 12:37am On Aug 01, 2025 |
Must you marry? Can one not be happy, survive and succeed without marriage? |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 4:07pm On Jul 30, 2025*. Modified: 12:36am On Aug 01, 2025 |
Must you marry? This is not about the desperation to get married. 2 Likes |
| Re: Must you marry? by pocohantas(f): 4:27pm On Jul 30, 2025 |
They should just avoid cheating. That way they don't have to lie. "Bestie, just a friend, cousin from my mother mother's side" ___all are unnecessary. 2 Likes |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 4:56pm On Jul 30, 2025*. Modified: 12:34am On Aug 01, 2025 |
Must you marry? |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 8:00am On Jul 31, 2025 |
Must you marry? |
| Re: Must you marry? by AngelSlay: 12:52pm On Jul 31, 2025 |
essentialone1:Must you marry — or do you think happiness and fulfillment can be found outside of marriage too? |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 2:25pm On Jul 31, 2025 |
But some unmarried people are happier than married people |
| Re: Must you marry? by Wadoh: 4:35pm On Jul 31, 2025 |
True — some unmarried people are happier than married people, but that doesn’t mean marriage itself is the problem. It’s not marriage vs. singleness that determines happiness — it’s the quality of the life and relationship you build. Here’s the real issue: Some people marry for the wrong reasons — pressure, loneliness, status — and end up miserable. Others stay single for the right reasons — self-awareness, freedom, healing — and thrive. But the reverse is also true: there are countless married people in joyful, fulfilling unions, and many single people who feel lonely or stuck. So it’s not the status that makes you happy; it’s the intentionality behind your choices, your self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and the kind of people you let into your life. Marriage isn’t a guaranteed path to happiness — but neither is staying single. The goal is to build a life that aligns with your values — not just your relationship status. essentialone1: 2 Likes |
| Re: Must you marry? by kodix(m): 12:02am On Aug 01, 2025 |
No,you must not marry now!,but must get a child anyhow. 4 Likes |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 12:34am On Aug 01, 2025 |
Hmmm. Having a child but without getting married, will that not still yoke you together with the co-parent? 2 Likes |
| Re: Must you marry? by Kobojunkie: 12:35am On Aug 01, 2025 |
kodix:You intend to raise the child yourself, abi? Or you plan to dump it on someone else to raise on your behalf? |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 12:39am On Aug 01, 2025 |
Good question, because children are best raised by a couple. Right? |
| Re: Must you marry? by Kobojunkie: 12:41am On Aug 01, 2025 |
essentialone1:Wrong! Children are not best raised by a couple. Rather, children are best raised by at least one mature, socially and emotionally intelligent caregiver.  1 Like |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 3:34pm On Aug 01, 2025 |
Yeah. But if one does not marry, and has a child, does that not lead to this proliferation of Single Mothers and Baby Mama pandemic currently going on in Nigeria? |
| Re: Must you marry? by Kobojunkie: 3:38pm On Aug 01, 2025*. Modified: 8:38pm On Aug 01, 2025 |
essentialone1:Many of those whom you regard as Single mothers are divorced or abandoned in marriage; they were once married.  1 Like |
| Re: Must you marry? by MufasaLion: 12:19am On Aug 02, 2025 |
Marriage is overrated and has little to no benefits. |
| Re: Must you marry? by MufasaLion: 12:20am On Aug 02, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Many? Stop using words with no evidence. 1 Like |
| Re: Must you marry? by MufasaLion: 12:21am On Aug 02, 2025 |
kodix:It's not must to have a child also. You can live without any offspring. |
| Re: Must you marry? by Kobojunkie: 1:01am On Aug 02, 2025 |
| Re: Must you marry? by MufasaLion: 5:57am On Aug 02, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:These are not evidences. I deal with real data and statistics not social media post by random drunkards and ignorants for cheap clout. I will stop engaging you henceforth. I won't reply you anymore! |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 7:54am On Aug 02, 2025 |
MufasaLion:Why are you so angry? Who hurt you so badly? |
| Re: Must you marry? by Kobojunkie: 1:13pm On Aug 02, 2025 |
MufasaLion:Try to read and process a comment before responding next time so you don't end up posting unnecessary ramblings. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: Must you marry? by Emmanuel30a: 7:01pm On Aug 03, 2025 |
essentialone1:You should ask those who wants to marry... 1 Like |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 1:32am On Aug 08, 2025 |
ladies act as snobs in real life, but online are desperately searching for who to have sex with |
| Re: Must you marry? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Doesn't make economic sense this Tinubu era. |
| Re: Must you marry? by essentialone1(op): 5:30pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Chubhie:Times are hard |
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