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Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by mikeybrainy: 2:50pm On May 26, 2020
For me I wouldn't try it, I can never marry someone like my mom. If I try that I would end up in an asylum.

She is a good mother, though not perfect (nobody is).

Some of my reasons are:

Nagging (like the neigbours can narrate everything happening in our house if asked to)
Involving strangers in family issues (like she says everything)

She can't ever take the blame for anything (blames everyone for her woes, and she is never wrong)

She wants to collect back every single penny she spends in the house (which is impossible)
Incites the children against their father (never realized this until I grew up and started thinking like a man, and honestly I'm sorry for all the ways I have acted to my dad, though my own is still fair, my siblings have complete disregard for their father)

Other things too that I can't mention here (makes me feel ashamed.

I realized all these when I started looking at everything from the lens of a struggling husband and father, and I'm still contemplating if marriage is worth it after all, I might as well stay single.... (I only date and break up with girls in my mind, Lol) cos I don't think its worth all the stress. Growing up in a broken, dysfunctional home is hard (sighs).

I wouldn't put all the blame on my Mom but I have resolved not to imbibe my dad's bad habits too (I can't even drink 1% alcohol not because I can't or it's bad, but I run away from it when I think of the things dad would have achieved, if he were not addicted to it)

Sorry for the long post.

Can you marry someone like your mom/dad?

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by MegaPlayBoy: 2:55pm On May 26, 2020
I will marry someone like my mum, anytime, anyday

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 26, 2020
When you age and start handling adult responsibilities, then you understand your parents more.
You begin to appreciate the sacrifices they made, the decisions they took, the lives they lived, the memories they could make for you.
With time you begin to become your parents too.
You make the same choices too.
Then you know what love means.
Sometimes too, you abandon everything they were and create a new path.
But in all your parents choices makes ypu who you eventually become.
Never forget where you came from. NEVER!

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Righteousness89(m): 2:56pm On May 26, 2020
I will oo!

Somebody like my Mother Especially in the Aspect of Her Spirtual Life !

If u don't have a Spiritual back up like my Mum, Wahala de! Heavy Wahala De!


That Woman was my back up even when I was Spirtually Empty and soaked in iniquity..

With the things I did and the way I Lived , I should be a Confirmed Dead man Long ago if not for her prayers!

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by prospero5(m): 2:59pm On May 26, 2020
Yes o.
I will marry someone like my mum, twice on Saturday.

One who stepped in the big shoe of mum and dad?

I, definitely, will.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by crackland: 3:03pm On May 26, 2020
More men will definitely want to marry women like their mothers, but very few women will want to marry men like their fathers.

Says a whole lot... grin

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Genset: 3:06pm On May 26, 2020
I never pray to marry someone like my dad. God help me

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Tallesty1(m): 3:07pm On May 26, 2020
I will be the happiest man if I can get a woman like my mom with a bit of my father's stubbornness.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by DonBenny77(m): 3:09pm On May 26, 2020
No please

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by KELVINXY: 3:10pm On May 26, 2020
i have not seen any lady like my mother and thats why i am still single undecided

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by adadike(f): 3:10pm On May 26, 2020
My dad, a strict disciplinarian , provides for most of our needs. A strong prayer warrior, physically strong , very hard-working . Can stand by you even when the world is against you. Love you Daddy but I honestly would love to marry someone like my mom. Gently, tall, great physique, very sweet, light skin and beautiful woman. Kind to a fault. See everyone as a member of her family. Eat in the same plate with her maids and helpers. Takes good care of them as well. No difference between outsider, maid or children. Everyone is the same to her irrespective of religion and tribe, loves and caters for all . Strong and hard-working, supports her husband, keeps my extended family together. Loved and took good care of my paternal grand mother when she was alive. My Super Woman, I don't know if I can ever be like you coz you are extraordinary but I want to marry a man that near these qualities. God bless you mom

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Yustash001(m): 3:16pm On May 26, 2020
Not like my Dad at all

but like my mum in some aspect, not all....

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 3:19pm On May 26, 2020
I will marry someone like my dad over and over again.Infact I have been looking for someone with my dad's qualities but it seems to have gone into extinction lol.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Bola146(f): 3:25pm On May 26, 2020
Good forbid I marry a man like my father, I pray that I marry a man so good, caring and generous like my mom

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by softplace: 3:45pm On May 26, 2020
Even in my sleep i cant marry any of them

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Miarose: 4:04pm On May 26, 2020
Yes, I will marry my father even in the life to come.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by SweetCunt97(f): 4:09pm On May 26, 2020
No No

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 4:15pm On May 26, 2020
Well, I don't know about myself but my husband said I have his late mum's personality very well.
We are the same colour. Facially, we resemble a bit.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 4:21pm On May 26, 2020
crackland:
More men will definitely want to marry women like their mothers, but very few women will want to marry men like their fathers.

Says a whole lot... grin
U too dey twist jist.
Hian! tongue

Go and join Nigeria politics. U will do well as a naija politician cheesy

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by merieam16(f): 4:53pm On May 26, 2020
Here 2 read comments. Any1 with chair make i balance

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Amiraqfaith(f): 4:58pm On May 26, 2020
Like for real grin angry angry
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Mariangeles(f): 5:01pm On May 26, 2020
crackland:
More men will definitely want to marry women like their mothers, but very few women will want to marry men like their fathers.

Says a whole lot... grin

undecided

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Karleb(m): 5:04pm On May 26, 2020
Nope!

I certainly don't want to be like my Dad when I get married and I wouldn't want my son/daughter to be like myself or whoever their mum would be.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by elektra(f): 5:12pm On May 26, 2020
There was a thread like this one long ago.

Most men wished to marry women like their mothers
Most females hated the thought of marrying someone like their fathers

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by crackland: 5:37pm On May 26, 2020
sassysure:

U too dey twist jist.
Hian! tongue

Go and join Nigeria politics. U will do well as a naija politician cheesy
Which one be twist again, it's a fact.

Watch how the thread progresses and see the responses. cheesy

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 26, 2020
crackland:

Which one be twist again, it's a fact.

Watch how the thread progresses and see the responses. cheesy
That is why u brought that in na.
Cos u know it will cause drama angry
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Fidelismaria: 5:46pm On May 26, 2020

no

Because marriage is scam








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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by crackland: 5:50pm On May 26, 2020
sassysure:

That is why u brought that in na.
Cos u know it will cause drama angry

Drama or no drama... Is that fact a lie, or is it true? grin
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 26, 2020
crackland:

Drama or no drama... Is that fact a lie, or is it true? grin
U and these your memes cheesy

Crackhhaus, ejoor o cheesy cheesy
Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by 24kmagic: 8:50pm On May 26, 2020
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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Amanee(f): 8:19am On May 27, 2020
If na play, abeg stop am


A man like my dad? NEVER

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Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by DukeNija(m): 8:39am On May 27, 2020
Alero3Arubi:
When you age and start handling adult responsibilities, then you understand your parents more.
You begin to appreciate the sacrifices they made, the decisions they took, the lives they lived, the memories they could make for you.
With time you begin to become your parents too.
You make the same choices too.
Then you know what love means.
Sometimes too, you abandon everything they were and create a new path.
But in all your parents choices makes ypu who you eventually become.
Never forget where you came from. NEVER!

What does this have to do with the topic? Or am I missing something?

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