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Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by DiasGodinHeaven(op): 6:25am On Aug 01, 2025
If every family is good, our communities, LGAs, states and the nation will be good.
If we stop criminals from emanating from our families, we have stopped criminals from the communities, States and the nation.
Every criminal, arm rubber, drug abusers, etc came from a family. It is therefore to say that our families have failed us when they breed immoral children. We know our brothers and sisters behaviours.
Let's raise our families in a righteous way.
Proverbs said" train up a child in the way he should go, when he is old he will never depart from it"
Let's have a criminal free society by first having a criminal free families.
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by DiasGodinHeaven(op): 6:26am On Aug 01, 2025
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Please move to front page maybe it will help inspire us.
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Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by Ibechris2: 10:04am On Aug 01, 2025
In those days we used to hear people called bastard because they were born from an illegal union but today,these society have looked away.

Now,check out the history of people engaging in armed robbery and all sort of criminality including kidnappings.

Many of them have foundational problems hence problem like this. Abroad,the law enforcement checks u out from the time u were born,the condition surrounding u,the history surrounding ur care and what sort of work ur parents did.

So,it is easy to track those social bandits before they become full time criminals...here,no body is taking this precautionary measures anymore.

Come to Abuja,the number of ladies that has been stabbed in the last five years may have risen above 150...lugbe alone, along the airport road is prominent for such a crime. Around stadium,Central area,Mabushi,kubwa express by Dawaki Bridge and name it.

The police would rather block road in the day looking for papers,most especially boys to be called yahoo boys and fail to block same raid at night.

Nigeria govt knows what to do and until that is done...we shall continue to experience evil in our society. Let us start calling evil its real name now if not,wahala dey.
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by Kobojunkie:
DiasGodinHeaven:
➜If every family is good, our communities, LGAs, states and the nation will be good.
If we stop criminals from emanating from our families, we have stopped criminals from the communities, States and the nation.
Every criminal, arm rubber, drug abusers, etc came from a family. It is therefore to say that our families have failed us when they breed immoral children. We know our brothers and sisters behaviours.
Let's raise our families in a righteous way. Proverbs said" train up a child in the way he should go, when he is old he will never depart from it"
Let's have a criminal free society by first having a criminal free families.
Try telling the average Nigerian out there that not only are Nigerians generally terrible at parenting, but that Nigerians on the most part also lack love for their children, and they turn around and come at you with pitchforks and flaming torches. undecided
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by DiasGodinHeaven(op): 5:24pm On Aug 02, 2025
Ibechris2:
In those days we used to hear people called bastard because they were born from an illegal union but today,these society have looked away.

Now,check out the history of people engaging in armed robbery and all sort of criminality including kidnappings.

Many of them have foundational problems hence problem like this. Abroad,the law enforcement checks u out from the time u were born,the condition surrounding u,the history surrounding ur care and what sort of work ur parents did.

So,it is easy to track those social bandits before they become full time criminals...here,no body is taking this precautionary measures anymore.

Come to Abuja,the number of ladies that has been stabbed in the last five years may have risen above 150...lugbe alone, along the airport road is prominent for such a crime. Around stadium,Central area,Mabushi,kubwa express by Dawaki Bridge and name it.

The police would rather block road in the day looking for papers,most especially boys to be called yahoo boys and fail to block same raid at night.

Nigeria govt knows what to do and until that is done...we shall continue to experience evil in our society. Let us start calling evil its real name now if not,wahala dey.
You are right on the bastard. In my community those days the mother of a girl who became pregnant out of wedlock will be excommunicated until that girl marries. Those day's parents call police to discipline their children but today parents buy laptops and smart phones and send their children as yahoo yahoo apprentice instead of shoe making, mechanics, tailoring etc.
Yes if every family is good, our Communities and States will be good.
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by DiasGodinHeaven(op): 5:27pm On Aug 02, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Try telling the average Nigerian out there that not only are Nigerians generally terrible at parenting, but that Nigerians on the most part also lack love for their children, and they turn around and come at you with pitchforks and flaming torches. undecided
You are not far from the truth especially those harlots who became pregnant. They don't care how the baby feed and grow up. Many times they become criminals in the society.
If every family is good, the communities and States will be great
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by Kobojunkie: 5:31pm On Aug 02, 2025
DiasGodinHeaven:
➜You are not far from the truth especially those harlots who became pregnant. They don't care how the baby feed and grow up. Many times they become criminals in the society.
➜ If every family is good, the communities and States will be great
Did they get themselves pregnant or something? What of the men who, without thinking of how the babies would feed, decided to get those women pregnant? Are the men not themselves harlots and the fathers to those criminals in the society? undecided

2. This all starts with men and women jointly birthing and raising decent individuals; otherwise, all this is just talk. undecided
Re: Let's Save Our Communities By First Saving Our Families by DiasGodinHeaven(op): 6:11pm On Aug 03, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Did they get themselves pregnant or something? What of the men who, without thinking of how the babies would feed, decided to get those women pregnant? Are the men not themselves harlots and the fathers to those criminals in the society? undecided

2. This all starts with men and women jointly birthing and raising decent individuals; otherwise, all this is just talk. undecided
You are right brother or sister. Everything is centred on family building a good home to save the society.
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