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Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by anigold(m): 8:24pm On Sep 11, 2018
*SAVE YOUR HUSBAND!*

Why do husbands in Africa die most times before wives? A husband in Africa in most cases is under intense tension because he is responsible for:

● *Children school fees*

● *house rents*

● *Electricity bills*

● *Medical bills*

● *Generator fuel & repairs*

● *Car fuel and repairs*

● *Feeding of family*

● *Clothes for children*

● *festivals and New year bills*

● *Furniture & House maintenance*

● *In-laws wahala/demand*

● *His own aged parents*

● *His siblings most times*

● *His wife's demands*

● *Vigilante bills*

● *Erecting Building*

● *Religious demands*

● *Family social bills*

● *Electronics bills*

● *Recharge cards*

● *Extended family bills*

● *Community demands*

On top of the above, he also faces:

● *Wife stress/insults*

● *Boss stress at work*

● *Police stress on the way*

● *Area boys stress*

● *Kidnappers fear*

● *Friends stress*

● *Economy stress*

● *Fear of job loss*

● *Unemployment pains*

● *Armed Robbery stress*

● *Children misbehaviour*

● *Neighbours stress*

● *Bank loan payment stress*

● *Enemies stress*

● *heart attack stress*

● *Sex stress*

..and so on! OH!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home? Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?
Women, please lets give our husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands. Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:
That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging. Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!
Help your husband to live longer like you.

SHARE THIS TO ALL MEN & WOMEN LET US PROLONG THE LIFE OF OUR MEN!!

WE CAN'T DO WITHOUT THEM.


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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by addictiv(m): 8:43pm On Sep 11, 2018
choi....to be a man is not easy.. that's why I gladly support all these feminists let them come and carry load....its not by shouting gender equality
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by MrNipplesLover(m): 9:20pm On Sep 11, 2018
TonieLee, what ya say about this?
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by LadySarah(f): 9:55pm On Sep 11, 2018
Get out,op!

What of the widows,the single moms ,and wives married to lazyass jobless husbands who fend for their kids alone?
Carry his rubbish talk shift one side,biko

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Mumifortune: 4:13am On Sep 12, 2018
The burden and responsibilities a woman/wife carry is times 2 (2x) of this still they bear it silently.
In fact let's be sincere how many men actually carry out 100% of these responsibilities without sharing some for the wife.
Men are having it easy this days compare to what women/ wives go through everyday in keeping the home front running.

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Bullhari007(m): 7:25am On Sep 12, 2018
Mumifortune:
The burden and responsibilities a woman/wife carry is times 2 (2x) of this still they bear it silently.
In fact let's be sincere how many men actually carry out 100% of these responsibilities without sharing some for the wife.
Men are having it easy this days compare to what women/ wives go through everyday in keeping the home front running.
so to Cook , bear children and nurse them is now a burden abi
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Mumifortune: 7:28am On Sep 12, 2018
Bullhari007:
so to Cook , bear children and nurse them is now a burden abi
So to provide for your family is now a burden

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Mumifortune: 7:31am On Sep 12, 2018
Bullhari007:
so to Cook , bear children and nurse them is now a burden abi
So to provide for your family is now a burden as a man.
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Bullhari007(m): 8:01am On Sep 12, 2018
Mumifortune:

So to provide for your family is now a burden as a man.
.to be a man is not easy.. that's why I gladly support all these feminists let them come and carry load....its not by shouting gender equality
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by Mumifortune: 8:31am On Sep 12, 2018
Bullhari007:
.to be a man is not easy.. that's why I gladly support all these feminists let them come and carry load....its not by shouting gender equality

If a feminist carry the man's responsibilities I hope the man too is ready to carry the woman's responsibilities which includes but not limited to ..... 1. carrying belle for 9 months...... 2. Going through labour to deliver the baby....... 3. Nursing, caring, training the child or children night and day. ........ 4. Endless cleaning of the home, laundry, shopping, cooking....... 5. maintaining a good relationship with both the relatable and unrelatable in-laws....... 6. Ensuring the head of the family is satisfied on all level so he won't look outside..... 7. Working full/part time to support the family financially because Oga's income is not sufficient to carry out his so called responsibilities ........ 8. Work out and still look good so the head of the family won't look outside......9. Be the spiritual, physical, psychological backbone for everyone in the home to rest on without support for her back.....
Be the first to welcome daybreak and last to say goodbye to the day......Doing all these and more with no thank you only to be told is your job so you shouldn't complain as if is a burden.

Some men (am not going to generalise) wants to have it good at both ends......eating their cake finish but still wants it in their hand.

I still insist that men have it easy this days so they should quit whining and complaining.
Women who should complain are not instead they bear it silently while hoping for better days to come

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by TonieLee(f): 2:56pm On Sep 22, 2018
MrNipplesLover:
TonieLee, what ya say about this?

One thing must kill a man.

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by MrNipplesLover(m): 2:57pm On Sep 22, 2018
TonieLee:

One thing must kill a man.
where have been you all this while?
Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by TonieLee(f): 3:01pm On Sep 22, 2018
MrNipplesLover:


where have been you all this while?


Phone issues. Missed me?

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Re: Let's Save Our Husbands And Fathers by MrNipplesLover(m): 3:10pm On Sep 22, 2018
TonieLee:

Phone issues. Missed me?
oh. okay.
of course, missed ya cool

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