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Kobojunkie:
1. The other poster did not conclude but instead gave a possible reason for why the friend may have decided to ghost OP. OP didn't say that his friend did not thank him for his kindness before deciding to ghost him. So, there maybe more to this story than OP's side..

2. Stop playing the age card for Pete's sake! 🥱🥱

3. Was the friend supposed to take the OP along or something? We don't know how he was able to relocate given that OP claimed he had nowhere and was probably too poor to get a place of his own too. So it is essential to get the other side of the story here.

Teeklef:
I✓ f I tell you my own story you will cry for me. A friend we went to the same nursery and primary,the same town,the same area,the same higher institution,housing him when he needs accommodation and also feed him then. We both live in almost 5 different area together at ondo then. Is it Aluta,newtown,rainbow,ayeyemi?. He even travelled out through the help of God and I.

Kobojunkie:
1. The other poster did not conclude but instead gave a possible reason for why the friend may have decided to ghost OP. OP didn't say that his friend did not thank him for his kindness before deciding to ghost him. So, there maybe more to this story than OP's side..

2. Stop playing the age card for Pete's sake! 🥱🥱

3. Was the friend supposed to take the OP along or something? We don't know how he was able to relocate given that OP claimed he had nowhere and was probably too poor to get a place of his own too. So it is essential to get the other side of the story here.

omoredia:
Nobody owes u anything bro. He is hustling and the time for ur reward is not yet due

captianfreeman:
Move on with your life. Most of our people became miserable immediately they crossed the border. When things become well with your friend, he is likely to reach out to you.

Kobojunkie:
Go ahead and tell us your own story. When it comes to human relationships,never assume your story is same as another's.

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

Teeklef:
✓ Read

mrksquare:
Not really. I have housed a friend whose working place was close to my house. Some week, he will wear my shirt and trousers just to go to work without even returning it back. Some of his official work as an auditor, I was the one that was preparing it for him. The both of us were classmates in University, same department. Even when we were in University I was always sustaining him. Even gave him one of my phone when he had none. Even bought him goat when his father died as part of my support. What caused our problem? The Rivers state government under Gov. Wike decided to do biometrics, which lasted for over 3 months. For the three months duration Civil servants were not paid salary.

I resorted to my friend for mere #10k to solve a pressing matter. He kept assuring me he will give me the money. After pestering him for like a week, I halted. For a year, he refused calling me after the incident. After a year, he called me to check up on me. But deep down, I knew the friendship is over.

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.

https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]He should be patient with him for another two years to settle down in the abroad.

Life is not easy for newcomers there.

Kobojunkie:
When you tell it!

mrksquare:
✓ Not really. I have housed a friend whose working place was close to my house. Some week, he will wear my shirt and trousers just to go to work without even returning it back. Some of his official work as an auditor, I was the one that was preparing it for him. The both of us were classmates in University, same department. Even when we were in University I was always sustaining him. Even gave him one of my phone when he had none. Even bought him goat when his father died as part of my support. What caused our problem? The Rivers state government under Gov. Wike decided to do biometrics, which lasted for over 3 months. For the three months duration Civil servants were not paid salary.
I resorted to my friend for mere #10k to solve a pressing matter. He kept assuring me he will give me the money. After pestering him for like a week, I halted. For a year, he refused calling me after the incident. After a year, he called me to check up on me. But deep down, I knew the friendship is over.

Teeklef:
✓ Done that already. Read again.

Btruth:
I know that feeling. But first, pray for his safety. Pray that America is good to him. Not everyone that's in Western world is living well bro. I'm sure he is not that bad person. But some situations might be tough on him. It's well sir.

Kobojunkie:
You actually believed you told an entire story with that? 🥱🥱🥱

Teeklef:
✓ O tida!!! Kuku bring camera and crew make we shoot am for movie.

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

NaijaNaWaa:
Relax. Maybe ground never level for him. Abroad can be extremely challenging

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

Bar1941:
You may not know what your so called friend is passing through!

fuckingAyaya:
Check if he's still alive first

Kobojunkie:
Now you are at least getting the gist. Trying to win sympathy by telling a half-baked story of how you are some sort of messiah without faults ain't supposed to cut it in the world we live in, thankfully.