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Time to burn and be burn again! 👍

It is plausible, that, pain is needed to achieve some distinct forms of progress.
Buhh using "pain", as an integral prerequisite for all forms of progress in life, isn't tenable please. It is misleading.

Rather than pain, the true prerequisites for giant strides are discipline, focus, tenacity, patience and resilience.

Life in Nigeria, and the momentarily entrenched structures which are inept, births the propensity, to normalize pain.
There is everything abnormal with going through pain, everytime advancement wants to be made.

Shall we say an individual is truly living when he/she is always experiencing unending pain??!

At times, pain that is being avoided, either spontaneously or by advise, is where an individual's failure or doom lies.

People need to be careful about the teachings they encounter and subject themselves to.
Someone may listen to a message, and either be set backward or forward, by at least 10 years, in the course of fulfilling destiny in life, so, individuals needs to make it an habit, to properly vet what they read or listen to, before commiting to it.

Brahamimo:
I'm in pains.
I'm in pains.

No matter the pain, pain is pain. Lack is even more painful

Necessity is the mother of invention. Maybe pain of hunger will force you to think deeper and create a legal way to earn income.

chinchum:
Necessity is the mother of invention. Maybe pain of hunger will force you to think deeper and create a legal way to earn income.

True talk.

I pray so. Thanks.

Sometimes I like to suffer so I can get angry with my situation and redouble my efforts towards becoming better and improving my situation

As you dey write pain upandan betta apply documentation and wisdom.
You go just dey pass Tru pain for nothing and when the success finally comes you will use its gains to nurse the aftermath of the pain.

Omoor as una no like baba Adeboye ehn, the preaching dat man did today ehn I can never forget it in my life time and my wisdom is not only from him I just used him as one of my et als'...

See in life I have discovered that every thing has rules by which they re been played, if you don't play through these rules my brother u go suffer .
There's a rule for making money and other things of life though they my now be hidden, but they can be found not necessarily through pain but through wisdom.

Baba said and I quote "you must know how to win" that's the koko.
In my tech journey I watch that you can capitalize on the pain on others to fast track your own success, Nastradamous rules of going through pain may have been outdated .

Sometimes last week here on Nairaland someone posted on 48 laws of power, my brother that book you need to read it whether you are a Christian or pagan or do you even know that even in most religions for you to achieve something you must play by the rules and be very wise or else the best person that went through most pains are still on mountain praying now!

You see those agberos you see ehn how I wish we can learn from them like that Cos what you pass through pain to achieve you can use omo lile to become it sometimes.

While in secondary school in the late 2000 the omo lile that some of our teachers cursed that they can never amount to anything were the first to use their omo lile style to become something in life while we that were good and gentle went through pain and we looke on God.
Most wealthy people you see today solved problems not with pain but through wisdom navigation.

Wooh, I have a lot to say jare let everyone choose his style and run with it but as for me I choose to play this life with its rules .

Nice write up though, I must commend.

What kind of pain have I avoided
Which pain is that wey I never see for this life ...
All this motivational speaker self ...
Shey na frustration or what is it exactly

Demonslayer, I saw this thread and thought you might enjoy reading it. If I’m honest; I fear the pain of growth. I now understand (thanks to op) that it’s the old self that is afraid of dying.

I can’t birth the honourable one until I put out the current resident. I have to give her her eviction notice! There’s inflation in the land and she isn’t capable of paying the rent. The more pain and discomfort I feel the closer I am to evicting her.

Brahamimo:
I'm in pains.
I've endured so much pains in this life.
When will these pains end?
From birth, till now, it's pains.
It's suffering
It's hardship
Death of loved ones.
Difficulty in having a comfortable existence.
None to call on.... I'm tired of everything sef!
It's work work work and work. Work like an elephant but eat smaller than an ant. I've never in my life worked in any place that pays me 50k salary despite being a graduate. Is this not painful?

So sorry bro. What's your background?

This is a great piece. We all know what to do in order to change levels but are most times scared of the unknown. We therefore stay in our comfort zone. Thank you for this, it's indeed, inspiring.

Darkmode64:
So sorry bro. What's your background?

Thanks brother. I'm sorry, I'm just seeing this now.
You may pls check your notifications sir.
Thanks.

Bro, you are not your pains. You are trying daily as every responsible person should do to make ends meet. Pls, try and add any other sellable skill to your certificate, it will increase your value in the labour market. Do not give up, make a daily affirmation that you'll break out from lack and breakthrough in Life. Cheers

Double0h7:
Demonslayer, I saw this thread and thought you might enjoy reading it. If I’m honest; I fear the pain of growth. I now understand (thanks to op) that it’s the old self that is afraid of dying.

I can’t birth the honourable one until I put out the current resident. I have to give her her eviction notice! There’s inflation in the land and she isn’t capable of paying the rent. The more pain and discomfort I feel the closer I am to evicting her.

Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏿
It's absolutely on point. 💯
The pain is the way.

I'll pin this as a reminder. 📌

Posts like this are life boaster

omoredia:
All these fake motivation are just a way for them to make people comfortable with a failed apc govt. During GEJ time they weren't saying all these.

Hope you've taken you drugs ?

What has this post has to do with any country or government?

How did you guys even pass secondary school exams cos I will not even bring tertiary in institution here

Okay thank you.

jibsiddy456:
Na

This is real stuff right here.👌👌