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You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 5:40pm On Aug 05, 2025
📢 "DEAR NIGERIAN MEN: You see that your child from side chick? He has the SAME inheritance rights as the ones from your legally married wife!"

Yes, you heard me right.
As long as you’re the father, Nigerian law does NOT discriminate.
Wife, baby mama, side chic, weekend mistake… the children are equal under the law.
Even if your wife does Thanksgiving every Sunday…
Even if you never paid bride price…
Even if the child lives in another state…

👉🏾 If there’s no will, ALL your children can show up and inherit when you die.
💀 You won’t be here to explain. But the courts will simply settle it for you by following 📜 Section 42 of the Nigerian Constitution which says:

No Nigerian child shall be denied any of their rights because of how or where they were born.
Let that sink in.
😳 So before you start hiding children in other states...
😬 Before you say “Na only my wife’s pikin dey count”...

Ask yourself:
📉 Have I written a will?
📈 Do I want my children to drag themselves in court or beat themselves at the funeral?

💡 Solution?
Write a will.
Or be ready for "game of throne movie" after you die. 🎬⚰️

👀 Tag that your uncle, cousin, or friend that needs to hear this.
🧠 Share this to someone before it’s too late.

#NaijaLaw #BabyMamaNoBeSideChic #NigerianFathers #KnowYourRights #InheritanceWahala #WillOrWahala #FamilyDramaLoading
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by EmperorIsaac(m): 6:20pm On Aug 05, 2025
Is the child of a side-chick not a human being? Rubbish message.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Aug 05, 2025
Chidix123:
➜📢 "DEAR NIGERIAN MEN: You see that your child from side chick? He has the SAME inheritance rights as the ones from your legally married wife!"
Yes, you heard me right.
As long as you’re the father, Nigerian law does NOT discriminate.
Wife, baby mama, side chic, weekend mistake… the children are equal under the law.
Even if your wife does Thanksgiving every Sunday…
Even if you never paid bride price…
Even if the child lives in another state…
👉🏾 If there’s no will, ALL your children can show up and inherit when you die.
💀 You won’t be here to explain. But the courts will simply settle it for you by following 📜 Section 42 of the Nigerian Constitution which says:
No Nigerian child shall be denied any of their rights because of how or where they were born. Let that sink in.
😳 So before you start hiding children in other states...
😬 Before you say “Na only my wife’s pikin dey count”...
Ask yourself:
📉 Have I written a will?
📈 Do I want my children to drag themselves in court or beat themselves at the funeral?
💡 Solution? Write a will. Or be ready for "game of throne movie" after you die. 🎬⚰️
Are you suggesting that the man should exclude the side-chick's children from getting anything by writing a will? That is cruel! undecided
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 11:03pm On Aug 05, 2025
EmperorIsaac:
Is the child of a side-chick not a human being? Rubbish message.
Orphans too are human beings and no one is giving them anything
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 11:07pm On Aug 05, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you suggesting that the man should exclude the side-chick's children from getting anything by writing a will? That is cruel! undecided
Yes!

A child that I did not intend to have and I did not take care of in my lifetime has no right to part take in my main family's benefits.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 8:16am On Aug 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Are you suggesting that the man should exclude the side-chick's children from getting anything by writing a will? That is cruel! undecided
I never said that bro I only meant that men should put their house in order when they are alive. Give everyone their share when you are still alive so that there will be peace when the man leaves.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 8:17am On Aug 06, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Orphans too are human beings and no one is giving them anything
Bro no matter at least give them something small so they can use it to guide
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 8:18am On Aug 06, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Yes!

A child that I did not intend to have and I did not take care of in my lifetime has no right to part take in my main family's benefits.
they may start to cause problems when the man dies so it is better that the man will share everything and give everyone something before leaving the world. The constitution is very clear on that.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Kobojunkie: 12:32pm On Aug 06, 2025
Chidix123:
I never said that bro I only meant that men should put their house in order when they are alive. Give everyone their share when you are still alive so that there will be peace when the man leaves.
It just that your focus seemed a bit on ensuring the man's bastard child wouldn't get any share of his wealth. undecided
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Kobojunkie: 12:34pm On Aug 06, 2025
Chidix123:
✓ they may start to cause problems when the man dies so it is better that the man will share everything and give everyone something before leaving the world. The constitution is very clear on that.
What do you mean that they may start to cause problems? The one who caused the problem was the man in this. The innocent child has a right or should to his own father' wealth, after all. undecided
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Kobojunkie: 12:35pm On Aug 06, 2025
Chidix123:
✓ Bro no matter at least give them something small so they can use it to guide
Small,because they are lesser beings or something? huh
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 1:45pm On Aug 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
Small,because they are lesser beings or something? huh
yes they should get something because it is their right. I think that is the right thing to do.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 1:46pm On Aug 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It just that your focus seemed a bit on ensuring the man's bastard child wouldn't get any share of his wealth. undecided
nobody is a bastard i am sure they are not at fault. men should do the fair thing and take care of their children.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 1:47pm On Aug 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
What do you mean that they may start to cause problems? The one who caused the problem was the man in this. The innocent child has a right or should to his own father' wealth, after all. undecided
most men dont care if they were responsible they will not be running away from their responsibility.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Samantha125(f): 7:18pm On Aug 06, 2025
What do you mean "a child you did not intend to have"?

Wouldn't you'd have been the one who'd have decided to step outside of your marriaga without any protection?

Whether you like it or not, you'd have brought that child to the world and he or she would be entitled to get equal share of your assets upon your passing.
Dtruthspeaker:
Yes!

A child that I did not intend to have and I did not take care of in my lifetime has no right to part take in my main family's benefits.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 8:11am On Aug 07, 2025
Samantha125:
What do you mean "a child you did not intend to have"?

Wouldn't you'd have been the one who'd have decided to step outside of your marriaga without any protection?

Whether you like it or not, you'd have brought that child to the world and he or she would be entitled to get equal share of your assets upon your passing.
I did not go out to step out of my marriage. I went out to have "swim" and play.

I did not go out to buy or rent or acquire a kid.

Infact I dodged all those fertile women who if I do atishoo, a baby may follow to pick a woman who knows I just want to fun with her and that's all. No baby is wanted or expected.

Also, the partner in fun also offers this safe sex as she represents one nights fun

All these are the fine prints of the contract of fun exactly how it is written on bottles "liquid content only". So this one is a contract of pleasure only.

So, if she allows herself to get pregnant then, it is her own liability exactly how we use a hotel or Airbn and then they will call me because of the soap foams left in the bathroom?

If they like let them not flush it.

For me, no child I have outside my wife will ever get even a match stick. The woman who birthed the child knew the contract did not include her having children exactly as you women say you have a right not to get pregnant even when the husband wants to.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 8:18am On Aug 07, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
I did not go out to step out of my marriage. I went out to have "swim" and play.

I did not go out to buy or rent or acquire a kid.

Infact I dodged all those fertile women who if I do atishoo, a baby may follow to pick a woman who knows I just want to fun with her and that's all. No baby is wanted or expected.

Also, the partner in fun also offers this safe sex as she represents one nights fun

All these are the fine prints of the contract of fun exactly how it is written on bottles "liquid content only". So this one is a contract of pleasure only.

So, if she allows herself to get pregnant then, it is her own liability exactly how we use a hotel or Airbn and then they will call me because of the soap foams left in the bathroom?

If they like let them not flush it.

For me, no child I have outside my wife will ever get even a match stick. The woman who birthed the child knew the contract did not include her having children exactly as you women say you have a right not to get pregnant even when the husband wants to.
but the constitution said they should have equal shares and when a man dies he will not be there to say anything. The court will decide it for him.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 8:19am On Aug 07, 2025
Samantha125:
What do you mean "a child you did not intend to have"?

Wouldn't you'd have been the one who'd have decided to step outside of your marriaga without any protection?

Whether you like it or not, you'd have brought that child to the world and he or she would be entitled to get equal share of your assets upon your passing.
the constitution said there is no difference between a child born inside a marriage and the one born outside a marriage.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 10:49am On Aug 07, 2025
Chidix123:
but the constitution said they should have equal shares and when a man dies he will not be there to say anything. The court will decide it for him.
No. The constitution did not say equal share. It only said that such a child has a right to take.

And now here begins the problem which I have solved which is under what circumstance?

Now in truth that pronouncement of Law is right and good and all and I support that which is right and good, however, it is not all right and good.

So, check it, the times when that laws is applied is in situations where the man truly does not mind having other outside children. They are even happy about it. So, they are under that law.

But my case is different, my contract with the wilful participant was clearly "a pleasure only arrangement" which clearly removes a child from the equation. An equation which she also guarantees under the feeling of safe and discreet sex.

So, if she departs from the contract, then it means that she on her own just wanted to have and carry a child on her own. So she and the child have no right to come near my house and my family's property, whether I'm dead or alive

And the court will support me. Cases dey
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 10:53am On Aug 07, 2025
Chidix123:
they may start to cause problems when the man dies so it is better that the man will share everything and give everyone something before leaving the world. The constitution is very clear on that.
Shame on my family if they don't know their rights and allow a stranger to take what I never intended to give to them.

But I kukuma trust my children, dem already know law grin
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 10:56am On Aug 07, 2025
Chidix123:
Bro no matter at least give them something small so they can use it to guide
It is that giving that gives them that right. If you remind the child mama that that is not the contract, there is nothing the constitution can do
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 9:40am On Aug 08, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
It is that giving that gives them that right. If you remind the child mama that that is not the contract, there is nothing the constitution can do
but the child is not the mother.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Chidix123(op): 9:41am On Aug 08, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Shame on my family if they don't know their rights and allow a stranger to take what I never intended to give to them.

But I kukuma trust my children, dem already know law grin
but the child is your own not an outsider.
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker: 9:22pm On Aug 08, 2025
Chidix123:
but the child is your own not an outsider.
That's the power of consent. Exactly like if your accountant uses your account to do 419 would you accept it, since it's your account?

Or if your driver uses your vehicle to rob and kidnap people, so when he gives you the money from his action you would accept it since it is your vehicle?
Re: You Think Your Wife And Children Will Get Everything When You Die? Think Again! by Dtruthspeaker:
Chidix123:
but the child is not the mother.
See The Law
Fetus sequitur ventrem[/] or [I]Partus sequitur ventrem,- that which is born follows the womb,”

Children follow their mother's status.

And what is the status of this woman of pleasure?

Answer: A Stranger and outsider who gives sechual pleasure to people having no rights in my house

Therefore, the child is "filius populi"

And that is why you see Cubana chief priest reject the child and woman screaming that she has a child for him. I bet his lawyers are just waiting for her
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