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TikToker Sparks Outrage After Calling Wife “A Fairly Used Mother of 4” While Boasting About His Looks

A Nigerian TikToker identified as eksschooloflife has come under heavy fire online after making demeaning remarks about his wife while praising his own looks during a TikTok live session.

In a video that has since gone viral on X (formerly Twitter), the social media personality bragged about the attention he still receives from much younger women, stating that ladies aged 21 and 22 often refer to him as “baby,” a term he claims makes him blush. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

However, the content creator took a controversial turn when he compared himself to his wife in unflattering terms.

“I’m still called baby by girls of 21, 22. When they call me baby, I blush. My wife is a fairly used mother of 4. A man going after her, his mental health would be checked,” he said during the stream.

Public Backlash Erupts Online

The comments immediately sparked outrage across social media, with many users condemning his statements as misogynistic, disrespectful, and deeply shameful, especially coming from a husband.

Here are some of the reactions from X:

@Brighter6N: “Some people are just a disgrace to their family… What has he gained to say this trash about his own wife?”

@Deenoblee: “If this man get shame and sense pass you then your life don Manchester.”

@Mercytwts: “I will always say this—women, prioritise yourself. Most of these men see women as baby factories.”

@promise_ben10: “He is still looking young.” (This comment, however, drew mixed responses.)

A Bigger Conversation on Respect and Marriage

While some viewers brushed off his words as a desperate attempt at clout chasing, many saw it as a reflection of how some men view their partners once children and age set in. The video has sparked renewed calls for respectful partnerships and self-worth in marriage.

So far, the TikToker has not issued any apology or response to the backlash.

gasparpisciotta:
The guy is demarketing his wife to would-be toasters.

In real sense of it, how would a man find another man's wife attractive after having 4kids 🤔

simpleseyi:
But Natasha said everybody wants to sleep with her after having 4 children from 4 different men

Zonefree:
He's just being honest. World people dislike honest people.