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no respect for kpekus again

OZIOGU1:
Pls is the wife complaining?

Sometimes men are not wicked, they only find themselves in the hand of woman without value.

I am married and i call my wife who is a mother of 4 kids Inya, INYA in my native language means mother, that is the highest honor you can give to your wife, she is actually a mother to all of us in the house...so if the husband call her fairly use mother of 4, she might be okay with it coz that's the standard they operate in their home

Better not to say anything than to be seen as a fuuul.

Your comment and the man's degradation of his wife, where is the correlation?

Na this one dey call himself handsome and young bobo.Wetin him go call some of us wey don dey close to our late 40s going to fifty??

gbadexy:
But the wife aged due to birthing whole 4 children. Perhaps it's a joke the wife understands.

That kind of joke should be between them, not saying it publicly and be seen as an adult child with a low IQ.

gasparpisciotta:
The guy is demarketing his wife to would-be toasters.

In real sense of it, how would a man find another man's wife attractive after having 4kids 🤔

Would be toasters? And insulting the wife in the process?

Only God can explain how y'all brain works.

I don't like half stories and commenting on people we don't know on the internet because anyone can say what they feel like. Just yesterday, a NLer was commenting on how men never rejected women that had kids in the past. Today, men are behaving like children.

Onegai:
Back then, a Man who married a woman with children KNEW that all her children were now his responsibility. He didn't insist that their biological father keeps them.

That ensured that children ALWAYS had a father present in their lives. Children need BOTH their fathers and mothers.

A lot of popular families will testify to this, MKO Abiola never refused a child. But it ended up causing problems because people are greedy.

Nowadays men treat single mothers like lepers, punishing them for being responsible and training their kids. Which is why women are now opting to send those kids to their dads (and a stepmother who will never love them). Causing even more problems.

This man is unwise if he thinks a man who likes his fairly used wise needs a mental check. Men or let me write, matured men will go for experienced women most times, including the mother of 4. He is delusional if he thinks she is used. From this guy's comment, there's something from his youth that he has not healed from, let him get it from the younglings.

brain54:
It is what it is...

A man going after a married mother of 4 needs to be checked.

At 60 as a man he might still have something to offer women that will flock around him.

It's just what it is!

Be wise, or pray for it if lacking, then apply common sense, because the above statement is totally off and doesn't correlate.

simpleseyi:
The truth is too bitter for them to swallow. Bitter truth

The bitter truth? If ur father said same to ur mother in public, is it also the bitter truth?

bluefilm:
People cannot take simple jokes anymore

God forbid BAT thing

In public? The mother of his kids? If it was the wife that said worse, I'm sure hell would have broken loose by now.

Zonefree:
He's just being honest. World people dislike honest people.

If ur father said same to ur mother in public, I'm sure he's also honest too.

OZIOGU1:
Pls is the wife complaining?

Sometimes men are not wicked, they only find themselves in the hand of woman without value.

I am married and i call my wife who is a mother of 4 kids Inya, INYA in my native language means mother, that is the highest honor you can give to your wife, she is actually a mother to all of us in the house...so if the husband call her fairly use mother of 4, she might be okay with it coz that's the standard they operate in their home

This is not respect to women or mothers. He likes to be called baby, what if the kids call him "old man", "Baba", "after 4", "fairly used father of 4"?

If his own mom was called fairly used, will he be happy?

JovialJune:
Be wise, or pray for it if lacking, then apply common sense, because the above statement is totally off and doesn't correlate.

If you like allow sentiments Cho.. ke you...

That's your wahala.

I only stated the bare facts.

I don't like people poking fingers at my comments without stating their opinions or countering with a better argument or facts by the way!

Some women often look fat and overweight after having children.lt is important to keep yourself fit and in shape to have a better health,confidence and self-esteem.Sarah ogoke went to play basketball for Nigeria even after childbirth.

gbadexy:
But the wife aged due to birthing whole 4 children. Perhaps it's a joke the wife understands.

Hian, that is an expensive joke, derogatory and condescending, that man deserves 100 million lashes of Koboko laden with chilly pepper 🌶️


The gif below 👇 is for the man

An extremely foolish man should never be allowed near any social media app so as to prevent major embarrassment to his family and friends.

OZIOGU1:
Pls is the wife complaining?

Sometimes men are not wicked, they only find themselves in the hand of woman without value.

I am married and i call my wife who is a mother of 4 kids Inya, INYA in my native language means mother, that is the highest honor you can give to your wife, she is actually a mother to all of us in the house...so if the husband call her fairly use mother of 4, she might be okay with it coz that's the standard they operate in their home

Did you read the story at all?

Very foolish statement.

JovialJune:
Would be toasters? And insulting the wife in the process?

Only God can explain how y'all brain works.

Bold of you to think it works.

Na husband and wife talk e no concern you.

No come vex pass his wife.

Una too dey like to take paracetamol on top another person headache.

Let his wife respond accordingly and her vent anger if she's angry at all and not you hypocrites on NL.

SlavaUkraini:
And his own mother is what ?

A "Nigerian used" mother of 5

Such a useless, careless statement

Coming from a man that resembles Zebrudaya. Ladies call him Zebbie but he’s hearing baby.

Outrage from broke people. Is that one outrage?

Before I open thread, I just know it's a light skinned man. LOL.

On a more serious note, this is why women should be selfish about who their omelette chef is because this is highly embarrassing.

Shame wear me leg chain.

😂😂😂, one of my lecturers in uniabuja once said even your wife get prostitute tendencies, the whole class shout say na lie, the man say make una no give her money wey she ask for, make una see if she go willingly or happily open her legs for una 😂😁😂😂😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

JovialJune:
In public? The mother of his kids? If it was the wife that said worse, I'm sure hell would have broken loose by now.

Why are you guys drinking Panadol on someone else's headache?

The wife is not even complaining because she understands her man but you people have decided to carry the "insult" on your heads

Tufiakwa

God forbid BAT thing

TallNigerian:
Although this man is very silly and stupid for making such condescending remarks about his wife, women must learn to build themselves before entering into marriage.

I'm sure he met his wife as a broke woman and has been financially responsible for her ever since, else he won't have the audacity to spew such thrash about his wife and mother of his kids.

Some men think that once the woman doesn't bring any financial value to the union, then she is trash and no other sacrifice will matter, not even child birth. This man is one of such men.

Again, women build yourselves, your career and your finances before entering into marriage.

I respect your opinion on women building themselves before marriage but how sustainable is that building when the children come in?

I had a teaching job before married but I had to relocate. Guess what. That life ended. I had some savings but it didn't last long.

The point is that a woman's life is on transit, having many stops and turns. If a woman is lucky to establish herself before and during marriage, in spite of pregnancy and childbirth and whatever else might accompany it, then she's truly lucky.

folake4u:
Before I open thread, I just know it's a light skinned man. LOL.

On a more serious note, this is why women should be selfish about who their omelette chef is because this is highly embarrassing.

Shame wear me leg chain.

leave light skinned guys out of this and face alaba shane diesel squarely

midlife crisis dey wire the guy. smalley wey wan rip am dey wind the man and he dey swallow am

GloriousGbola:
leave light skinned guys out of this and face alaba shane diesel squarely

midlife crisis dey wire the guy. smalley wey wan rip am dey wind the man and he dey swallow am

I know say you go come for me. 😂😂😂😂That was on a lighter note though.

I know right! One babe is rubbing his head and the werey is acting as if he's not loved at home. Leemao.

All the women calling him "baby" are actually addressing his wallet fondly. They're kissing and caressing his bank accounts, not him. If the wallet falls to the ground and he has a heart attack and falls into a deep gutter, the women will save the wallet, dust it, kiss it and pet it whilst asking the wallet: "are you okay, are you hurting, pls be okay baby ".

GloriousGbola:
leave light skinned guys out of this and face alaba shane diesel squarely

midlife crisis dey wire the guy. smalley wey wan rip am dey wind the man and he dey swallow am

They seriously need to be having annual lectures about Mid-life crisis to men. It's so ridiculous. And the shame and guilt they feel internally once it has passed and they're looking at the destruction and havoc they've wrecked but are unable to admit to because of pride...

Hmmm… That’s social media for you… anything goes… Well… not far from the truth…

MasterMariner:
Na husband and wife talk e no concern you.

No come vex pass his wife.

Una too dey like to take paracetamol on top another person headache.

Let his wife respond accordingly and her vent anger if she's angry at all and not you hypocrites on NL.

Why you nor go support the man

Na so you dey disgrace your wife for public na..

Shameless and reckless