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Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Ibkay32(m): 12:05pm On Aug 08, 2025
Sonnobax15:
lemme just assume you mistakenly typed this with sleepy eyes angry. Cuz what da hell is the meaning of this bullsh*t you just wrote ? angry. Someone whose wife insisting on moving to her hometown despite all his persuasion for her to stay with him,yet you still found your regular manipulative way to put the blame on the head of the innocent man angry.
Don't mind her, she don't understand the content of the post
She's hard to understand
That's her doing 😂
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Nobody: 12:40pm On Aug 08, 2025
Maybe the ancestors are trying to pass you a message?
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by sacajawea(m): 2:10pm On Aug 08, 2025
Okkkayyyyy.....
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Justnation: 2:23pm On Aug 08, 2025
Your body is warning you to keep away from danger.
The same woman who disobeyed you and went on rendezvous after collecting pregnancy and possibly infection wants to come back and ruin your life.

Be careful
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by ezegenigbonine:
It happens to every married men out there. Some cheat to regain confidence while some takes aphrodisiac. Simply go and take aphrodisiac codedly till you start feeling her again.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:26pm On Aug 08, 2025
uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.
You don dey carry eye go outside?

If not, then tell your wife your problem.

She will handle it.

Women know how to do such things.

If she no Sabi, she go go do research.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Rexymania(m): 4:26pm On Aug 08, 2025
You wife has chest or maybe you have cheated

No more soul ties between you and your wife
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by kpankpangolo: 4:31pm On Aug 08, 2025
There are more aspects than sex in a marriage. Focus on the other parts.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by DUTY(m): 4:31pm On Aug 08, 2025
I'm from ekiti and I know what just happened. It's kind of a cast men do on women's body that no man will have erection whenever they want to have sex with her except the man who did the casting. Your woman has been violated, move on but if you still love her, I csn help remove the cast
uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by abobote: 4:31pm On Aug 08, 2025
Have you tried with another girl since then to know if you ok?

One night I carried one side chic to a hotel and paid for short time,when I tried to sleep with her my dick went flat, she tried everything, no way. When I got home , and touched my wife itresponded, I felt better after making love to my wife
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by TribalChair: 4:33pm On Aug 08, 2025
8month, wow!


She's definitely gon look like a stranger to you....
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by AguluLiar: 4:33pm On Aug 08, 2025
uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.
I suspect you have erectile dysfunction.
Go and treat yourself with herbs
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by koladata(m): 4:34pm On Aug 08, 2025
she's from south Africa , sex means nothing to them
Sonnobax15:
lemme just assume you mistakenly typed this with sleepy eyes angry. Cuz what da hell is the meaning of this bullsh*t you just wrote ? angry. Someone whose wife insisted on moving to her hometown despite all his persuasion for her to stay with him,yet you still found your regular manipulative way to put the blame on the head of the innocent man angry.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by onatisi(m): 4:34pm On Aug 08, 2025
uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.
Unfortunately this is the situation with many married men above 50, but it is a silent issue noone talks about . I also think this is one reason why polygamy is better and secondly at time been away for sometime usually brings back the intimacy
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by sisisioge: 4:34pm On Aug 08, 2025
Wahala just tie wrapper fa....but I understand you perfectly. You have probably lost feelings for her which is why your body is rigid towards her....the solution is very simple o. Just try to rekindle your feelings by courting her all over again. Both of you should hangout, do all those things you did together when you were still dating. Before you say wetin....e go happen grin

I thought I was the only one whose brain and body links feelings to intimacy grin
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Kewekubosineh: 4:35pm On Aug 08, 2025
Samantha125:
Ke tla go keketa wa swaba.
What are you saying.

Are you speaking Zulu or which language?

You are not fazed with the message because aggressive sexism is acceptable in South Africa where married or unmarried can have easy access to sex.

South Africa is Sodom and Gomorrah!

That is the life of Mzansi.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by 1mansolder: 4:35pm On Aug 08, 2025
Bro maybe she is not the wife you use to know, take her for test and also be careful and vigilant.Any woman that decided to go far from her husband in the name of business or work even when the opportunity to remain is there,is having a different motive.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Mariangeles(f): 4:36pm On Aug 08, 2025
Samantha125:
Ke tla go keketa wa swaba.
Samantha ti so ede. Hehehe 😀
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by UkoAnnang(m): 4:38pm On Aug 08, 2025
uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.
cry

Side chic don jazz u

Ooooh urok
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by 1mansolder: 4:38pm On Aug 08, 2025
sisisioge:
Wahala just tie wrapper fa....but I understand you perfectly. You have probably lost feelings for her which is why your body is rigid towards her....the solution is very simple o. Just try to rekindle your feelings by courting her all over again. Both of you should hangout, do all those things you did together when you were still dating. Before you say wetin....e go happen grin

I thought I was the only one whose brain and body links feelings to intimacy grin
You May be right too but let the man take her for test.women are very funny.For her to insist on going to the village for business when the husband doesn't buy the idea shows she is up to something.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Eberex(m): 4:39pm On Aug 08, 2025
There are questions that i would need you to answer: How long is your marriage? Has it been happening before this time?
In any case i feel this has nothing to do with you. It also has nothing to do with medical too. Your wife has gotten herself involve in something spiritual such that you won't have any erection whenever you are trying to sleep with her, no matter how hard you try. Someone from the village is responsible obviously.

If this happened from inception of your marriage, then it would have been a case of a marine husband. But since i am guessing it just started after she returned from the village after spending 8 solid months? It is clear she came back a different person with respect to her spiritual elements. Wat is happening to you is spiritual. Deliverance is possible for her if there is a genuine man of God out there.

You need to do your own investigation in the traditional way. Forget medical solution because you won't see anything wrong with you. I bet you will not have the same effect with another woman if you want to sleep with them.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by olaJako(m): 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2025
Make she cleanse herself.. She sold the emotions in her absence... In as much as she refused to listen to you things changed.
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Ezedgreat: 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2025
Vulcanheph:
Dear Op.... Sorry to say this but your wife has been away for 8 months, there's a possibility that some village man have been shining her congo, (body no be firewood and 8 months is a long time).
She might be pregnant outside and justs wants you to knack her so she can pin the pregnancy on you .
My advice is not to do anything, your d!ck not rising might actually be a good thing for you.
within this ur submission if this op erection problem will last for 6 months it will now extend to 3 years .
Sorry ohh op , just let ur wife be with time it will gradually return back . Just remove ur mind in anything lacking especially in the area of ur wife for now
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by litaninja(m): 4:43pm On Aug 08, 2025
Dem type nonsense give you, you say na thank you?
lmao

AfahaAbia:
Thank you so very much for this advice. Seriously I have never been touched by words of advice like this. I'm amazed! Before now I have been thinking of seeing a therapist or something. I will do exactly as you have said. Thank you!
Re: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by Fryx: 4:47pm On Aug 08, 2025
I think she has cheated on you.
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