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auduadeniyi:
[So even your age father? Whatever you planted you shall reap it please be careful karma is real. You can have billions within a thinkle of an eye the money can finish. By the time you lost them that is when you know the essence of having a parent
quote author=Samantha125 post=136364300]Repent from what? And no, they haven't offended me.

marlow1962:
I spend on my family without counting.

okito:
I am wondering how it makes sense to disclose to anyone how much i spend on my parents. Doesn't seem to make sense to me. My opinion, though.

Lekby25:
For your information, Bishop Oyedepo's children give him money even though he is rich. Because they believe whatever you sow that is what you will reap.

Desusi:
Excuse maker.This is just to encourage others who don't. This is a faceless forum.Who knows you?

spiceadole:
My mother is not just "a relative".
She means the world to me.
I am her retirement plan.
I am a medical doctor...It's Pounds,not Euros.


Meanwhile,I'm a woman.
God bless you

spiceadole:
Who told you I be man?


Oh,I forgot.
In your small mind,only men make money.

Sorry oh.
I be woman.

And I'm very financially comfortable .

Offpoint1:
Who was referring to money? If all you have is "Money and comfort" as human... You have nothing.

ibechris:
I have given my parents more than I can quantify and I can't stop given.

This year alone,I have bought them food items worth more than 500k just my dad and mum alone.

Money,I give them 100k feeding every month.
Gas 15k every month this is excluding food items.

Well done sir.
No matter what we do for our parents, we can't never do enough. And we would definitely regret not t doing enough especially when they die.
I miss my parents.


In six months,I can respectfully say I have given them about 1.2m.

Flakky26:
Aside religion. our parents deserve our gifts and money even if they are wicked. Its a command.

And its sowing today what you want your kids to do more for you later in life.

Offpoint1:
Who was referring to money? If all you have is "Money and comfort" as human... You have nothing.

AbuAeesha:
Sure your opinion is logical.
Though mentioning it can inspire someone to do better

anslemarinze52:
Hmmm, mine isn’t nice. Sometimes I am angry at them for bringing me into this world without any plans for me.

My dad died while I was aged 3, and I know if he was alive he would have put in some effort for me but my mom is just so helpless.
Sometimes I gets so angry at her, there was a time I wanted to further my education, my mom could be of no help. She is just so so helpless and I notice myself transferring the aggression to her.

Samantha125:
I spent zero amount on them... It's my father's responsibility to take care of himself and his sweetheart.

Samantha125:
My parents have well paying jobs... Not all of us come from poor homes.

auduadeniyi:
Now you are talking but your write-up as if nothing concerned you with your parents. Perception different

Danisaint112:
So you don't feel there is a need to give your parents gifts wether in cash or boxes? Wow, what a mentality.

auduadeniyi:
Now you are talking but your write-up as if nothing concerned you with your parents. Perception different

Klass99:
Actually, she has plenty if you ask me! Our whole lives revolve around the making, spending and saving of money. Try doing this life with little or no money then you'll understand how far. House rent, school fees, food, transportation, basic sanitary and hygiene items, etcetera, are all purchased or done with money.

I will take money and comfort, any time any day, over a human relationship with a bad or toxic person, family or not. The former will benefit me more than the latter, and particularly for us women having these things (money/comfort) saves us from a lot of rubbish.

I will never forget the childhood friend who asked for my nude photos because I requested a 40k loan some years ago. I was going to start a new job and I didn't have money for transportation, the loan was to tide me over until pay day then I'll pay him back. He said there was no need for a loan he'll give me the money if I sent my nudes, the higher the quality of the nudes, the more generous he would be. Those were his words.

I didn't send the nudes I sourced the money from someone else. Right now we don't talk, he has tried to contact me over the years but he is one of those people I have permanently deleted from my life. You don't get to demean me like that and think we can still have a relationship of any sort.

It is not so much about the money or comfort itself, it's the power and ability it gives us (as women) to walk away from n.o.n.s.e.n.s.e and s.t.u.p.i.d.i.t.y. I really like.

Praktikals:
I ve not done upto half of that and I deh here deh feel like king kong

ibechris:
Just don't feel bad but proud of that little bro.

Do according to ur financial strength.

That "God bless u" they often say can change alot for u.

Keep it up.

Flakky26:
Naturally ,after God ,,,our parents should be the first Humans we have a duty to honour ,respect and care for. Spending on our parents should be a thing of joy and honor to them which has a great reward and blessings. God even commanded us to Honour parents so that , it will be well with us ...meaning its possible life is not well with some people because they are not honoring their parents. Some are living BIG ..But their parents are living a small life , the kind of life they are living is not honorable. Pls have a rethink ..if you think your parents are in this kind of ugly situation. It doesn't make sense if you pay your tithe, give seeds to your pastor and you can't remember when last you send money to your parents, even if our parents are wealthy, they still deserve our money.

Lets know how much you have spent on your parents this year and also the special gift you have given them.
This is to challenge someone who has not been spending enough on their parents.

“Honor your father and mother; and you will live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” – Exodus 20:12

ArcSEMPECJ:
They shouldn't expect much from you but depending on how you started, you have to continue or be called a bad person if you stop...

You should only help your in-laws through your wife and it must be discussed so you won't pass your limit...
With that, they will know they can only reach you through your wife .....
Then is up to you to know how to handle your wife ..