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she would never marry a man who can’t pay her ₦5 million every month and buy her a new phone every six months.

The unidentified woman made the bold claim in a candid clip shared on X (formerly Twitter), and her remarks have since ignited heated debates about money, gender roles, and relationship expectations in today’s world.

In the video, she makes it clear she has no plans to work or contribute financially once married. Instead, she says her role would be to stay home, raise children, and let her husband handle all the bills.

Her exact words were:

“In as much as I’m not beautiful, let me tell you, I cannot get married to a guy who cannot pay me a minimum of ₦5 million every month for being his wife.”
“A man who cannot pay me ₦5 million monthly, change my phone every six months I can’t marry him. I’m not going to work as a wife. I’ll only sit at home, have your kids. It’s your responsibility to work and bring money for us to chop.”



She ended by saying:

“Look at me very well just in case you want me I cannot marry a man that doesn’t pay me ₦5 million every month.”

The statement has triggered a wave of reactions online, ranging from outrage and sarcasm to laughter and even a few voices defending her “high standards.” The video has already racked up thousands of views and comments, making it one of the most talked-about clips of the week.

See some reactions below:

@BigSammm1: “Later na dating apps she go full for 30+ and Church when she no see husband.”

@dabuthegemini: “Yes now!!! I mean you’re qualified to earn 5 million at your job right? Marriage is a job right? You get paid cause you’ve been employed as a wife. I totally agree with you sis. You don’t have to even do anything, just look cute for hubby, and 5 million zaaa.”

@Nega_sus: “Marrying ladies in survival mode is the cruelest thing you can do to yourself.”

@ganymedescrater: “This one should just go and find a spot at peka or Allen avenue, open a profile on Tinder & sell her services.”

@MOkpogode: “That’s how poor she is! She doesn’t even know phones are easiest stuffs to acquire in developed world, yet they are a luxury to her jobless **s.”

@SimisolaTomori: “First pay yourself 5m a month, after that, we start the discussion.”

Despite the criticism, the woman appears confident in her standards and unapologetic about her expectations, reflecting a growing trend of individuals publicly expressing high relationship demands on social media.

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She is simply saying what she wants... That's all!!!

We move...

I am happy for you dearrrr
I am happy for you dear
I am happy for you dear

Shilo in a bit

Then you in return what do you intend to bring to the table?

How much dey her papa aza

If na so her mama do during her young age shey she go marry her broke father

They will soon use her do rituals...

Is that how her father dey give her mama 5M every month.

Useless gold digger.

Nigerians don’t know how to ignore silly people that’s why they keep being popular. There is something called rage bait and you people keep falling for it

Kimo21:
Nigerians don’t know how to ignore silly people that’s why they keep being popular. There is something called rage bait and you people keep falling for it

Spot on. Giving idiots attention to expand their idiocy.

Nah your palaba be that one..

ko Kan Aye..

Typical naija girl mentality

Comfypearl080:
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she would never marry a man who can’t pay her ₦5 million every month and buy her a new phone every six months.

The unidentified woman made the bold claim in a candid clip shared on X (formerly Twitter), and her remarks have since ignited heated debates about money, gender roles, and relationship expectations in today’s world.

In the video, she makes it clear she has no plans to work or contribute financially once married. Instead, she says her role would be to stay home, raise children, and let her husband handle all the bills.

Her exact words were:

“In as much as I’m not beautiful, let me tell you, I cannot get married to a guy who cannot pay me a minimum of ₦5 million every month for being his wife.”
“A man who cannot pay me ₦5 million monthly, change my phone every six months I can’t marry him. I’m not going to work as a wife. I’ll only sit at home, have your kids. It’s your responsibility to work and bring money for us to chop.”



She ended by saying:

“Look at me very well just in case you want me I cannot marry a man that doesn’t pay me ₦5 million every month.”

The statement has triggered a wave of reactions online, ranging from outrage and sarcasm to laughter and even a few voices defending her “high standards.” The video has already racked up thousands of views and comments, making it one of the most talked-about clips of the week.

See some reactions below:

@BigSammm1: “Later na dating apps she go full for 30+ and Church when she no see husband.”

@dabuthegemini: “Yes now!!! I mean you’re qualified to earn 5 million at your job right? Marriage is a job right? You get paid cause you’ve been employed as a wife. I totally agree with you sis. You don’t have to even do anything, just look cute for hubby, and 5 million zaaa.”

@Nega_sus: “Marrying ladies in survival mode is the cruelest thing you can do to yourself.”

@ganymedescrater: “This one should just go and find a spot at peka or Allen avenue, open a profile on Tinder & sell her services.”

@MOkpogode: “That’s how poor she is! She doesn’t even know phones are easiest stuffs to acquire in developed world, yet they are a luxury to her jobless **s.”

@SimisolaTomori: “First pay yourself 5m a month, after that, we start the discussion.”

Despite the criticism, the woman appears confident in her standards and unapologetic about her expectations, reflecting a growing trend of individuals publicly expressing high relationship demands on social media.

WATCH VIDEO:

https://gistjam.com.ng/if-you-cant-give-me-₦5m-every-month-dont-propose-woman-declares/

If dem use this one nau, people go talk say dem use am do ritual 😏, her papa fit give am 5milla every month?

You men sef you just open your mouth waaah without thinking. Do you people not know that she knows that this is how you people would react?

Then therefore do you people not see that she is saying another thing that you don't consciously get?

And check it, do you people notice that it is only or mostly you men who are reacting?

Common sense no tell una to wonder why women no dey talk too?

Dat na why women go dey continue to play una like doll baby yet una tink say na dem be fufu

😂 y'all comments make me laugh engage guys 👋🙏

This generation of women have planned to show men shege promax. Na man do man. The natural order has be upturned. This is coup!

Raising kids is a full time job. The lady is within her rights to make such demands. It is up to a man to accept or switch roles with her.