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Not surprised actually, just frowning at the fact that she tries to manipulatively change the topic against the man. How do someone with good intentions talk on an issue as presented , trash the most important parts of the issue and starts with if you can do you job as a man, leave her so other men can do it How did she even got there?!!

omooba969:
Lol , I struggle to understand why you're still surprised as you already know that Samantha125 often give 'very disturbing comments'.

If your wife can't perform her conjugal duties as a wife, wouldn't you look elsewhere to enjoy yourself?

Osashalom:
Not surprised actually, just frowning at the fact that she tries to manipulatively change the topic against the man. How do someone with good intentions talk on an issue as presented , trash the most important parts of the issue and starts with if you can do you job as a man, leave her so other men can do it How did she even got there?!!

Is that where the matter started from??

Samantha125:
If your wife can't perform her conjugal duties as a wife, wouldn't you look elsewhere to enjoy yourself?

Osashalom:
Not surprised actually, just frowning at the fact that she tries to manipulatively change the topic against the man. How do someone with good intentions talk on an issue as presented , trash the most important parts of the issue and starts with if you can do you job as a man, leave her so other men can do it How did she even got there?!!

It's good that you're able to spot the mould. Don't be surprised that some other sensible ladies would have seen her comment and think that something must be wrong with her orientation/ sense of reasoning.

On the other side, I want to believe that the cultural lifestyle of where she comes from plays a part in how she reasons. Sexxx is like sport in south africa, married couples fvcck anyhow like rabbits.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

I don't know why I have this weird feeling that she's already pregnant for another man and her coming back to visit you is just a grand plan to get you to sleep with her and the pregnancy will be yours. I hate when men can't just simply use their brain. TUFIA!!!

You can't ask me a question on top of another one... Answer me first.

Osashalom:
Is that where the matter started from??

Thank you very much for this insightful revelation, I may as well leave her to continue if she wishes. I just pray other good and innocent women don't get corrupted by her types.

omooba969:
It's good that you're able to spot the mould. Don't be surprised that some other sensible ladies would have seen her comment and think that something must be wrong with her orientation/ sense of reasoning.

On the other side, I want to believe that the cultural lifestyle of where she comes from plays a part in how she reasons. Sexxx is like sport in south africa, married couples fvcck anyhow like rabbits.

I was the one that first asked you, how did you arrived at your comment?

Samantha125:
You can't ask me a question on top of another one... Answer me first.

I see many men telling him it's okay to not touch his wife after 8 months apart of which we don't know what made her stay that long away from him. But, if reverse was the case, none would tell a wife that it's okay to leave her hubby cold in the bed for any reason. The way some of you men treat the eomen you call wives is very deplorable.

You were asking the other guy and not me.

Osashalom:
I was the one that first asked you, how did you arrived at your comment?

You're very right, intimacy is like a sport to us because our men have the game and bedmatics skills, unlike some people who either have to use force or money to buy their women's love.

Your women have been exposing you guys over the years...😂😂😂

omooba969:
It's good that you're able to spot the mould. Don't be surprised that some other sensible ladies would have seen her comment and think that something must be wrong with her orientation/ sense of reasoning.

On the other side, I want to believe that the cultural lifestyle of where she comes from plays a part in how she reasons. Sexxx is like sport in south africa, married couples fvcck anyhow like rabbits.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Na tẹshọ(in yoruba) dey her body .

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Check your blood sugar level and or go spiritual, it could be spiritual husband or wife

Maybe she don back another person for village.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Check your blood sugar level and or go spiritual, it could be spiritual husband or wife

Maybe she don nack another person for village.

uwuana:
My wife has been away for a period of 8 months, all in the name of she wants to stay in her hometown and be doing business which I don't even buy the idea in the first place, but despite all my efforts to stop her everything proves abortive.

She came back two weeks ago, and since then I haven't developed any feelings for her, we're just living like roommates, she has done everything to turn me on yet still my body no gree move, I tried to have sex this morning with her and the whole thing just turns out to be embarrassment,as in my manhood just get cold and freezen.

Please note before, before I always get early morning erection strong and hard, but when it comes to my wife, my body system will just collapse instantly.

Thank your stars, if you check feel something has gone wrong.
Your beliefs might be playing a role hear.
Ask her if there is any case of infidelity, then you know the next action to take .

Onegai:
There's a book I'll recommend and please take reading it VERY seriously:

Stormie Omartian "Power Of A Praying Husband".

Read it, Pray every single prayer at the end of each chapter. Open your Bible and start studying Scripture on Forgiveness and Love. The Bible is a book about Love. Ask God to show you your wife's heart the way He sees it. She's shut down emotionally from you.

Then you need to work on your anger and need to resort to violence. Love means submission and Apostle Paul tells us to submit to each other. So you need to find out who you are in Christ Jesus (because change is very hard and we don't want you resorting to violence ever again).

I'm glad you regret it, next step is repentance.

When you get home, phone should be on silent or vibrate, you sit with your woman and do whatever she's doing. Gist with her. If she says she wants to eat grilled fish, don't buy it and bring home, tell her to go make herself pretty because you want to take her out.

Treat her like a fresh new bride, because your old marriage NEEDS to die. It wasn't a good one.

When you feel the anger and impatience rising (violence is the last resort of a weak man), you walk away and turn to prayer. Then come back calmly. She needs to give you Respect, not Fear. A lot of men think they're the same, they're not: Respect is rooted in Love, Fear thrives in Hate. And Fear means she will be waiting for the right time to strike you back, one day. So make her love and respect you, slapping her around breeds her fear.

Tell yourself "she is mine, my church and I will love her like Christ loved the church". That means when she's getting on your last nerve, you tell yourself and her "I love you, I'm not going to let the devil use me to destroy my blessing. You're my blessing!". Keep saying it till you believe it.

It will take time and patience, which is good training for you to learn how not to resort to quick anger and violence.

The intimacy will come back. Better than before sef, you won't have time for us on Nairaland

Brother, you're going to make your wife fall in love with you again. Doable and possible, the love will even be sweeter. Commit it to God and come back with your testimony.

PS: today, go and buy her lunch or dinner (fried rice and turkey, with salad and dodo ), get a scrap of paper and write "Songs of Solomon 1:15", put it on the food. Drop it beside her, don't say anything.

Another day,when she's done bathing and is dressing up, creaming her body, make sure you're in the room always. But act like you're not looking. Then send her Songs Of Solomon 7:1-9 after she's done dressing. So she knows you were admiring her nekkidness to the point that you needed to go and read Bible

You'll be messing with her small small, working on yourself, showing her you're a better man now, who's completely in love with her.

It'll work.

Nonsensical comment.