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| Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by MONEY247(op): 5:14pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
It could be anything An encouragement Or how to navigate life
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| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by annayawchee: 5:18pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Make una dey hustle like thief.. Dem say na 40 characters ooooooooo |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by SHIVA001: 5:27pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Learn trade Learn business, be a sales man,. Don't think that salary Earning will be enough oo. Unless u dey work for chevron or other oil company if not Start Selling Something make sure you are seeing money daily not Monthly only... Lord Shiva Sees all |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by njelrapheal: 5:50pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Dont smoke. Don't gamble..drink with sense. How many characters |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by meobizy(m): 5:52pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Don’t rush to become old. Enjoy your youth. Too many kids here claim they’ll soon hit thirty. Check their real ages, just twenty-seven years of age. Gen Z’s now call themselves mid-twenties as early as twenty-two. Where una dey rush go? Take care of yourself health-wise and you will meet the age. Everybody’s race in life is different. That your mates have made it and you’re yet to find your feet means nothing. Work hard when young then smart when older. Hopefully, you will reach your goal or fall a little short. Some people become billionaires in their twenties, some in their thirties, others forties and unlucky ones in their later years. Everybody will get their opportunity in life. Prepare early so you can take advantage when it comes. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Stephen0mozzy: 5:55pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Life has no timer - but give yourself the benefits of early preparation. Always think 1year ahead, whether in finance, job or relationship - if anything will be useless in a year from now, don't invest your time and cash into it. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by LordBiden(m): 6:11pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Avoid women till you are ready to marry. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by yomi007k(m): 6:40pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
1. Stop comparing the past to this present times;the fact that my dad got married and had 5 kids doesn't mean I can do that. 2. Life has no mercy for a man. Children and women even have laws protecting them but not you. Try and stay out of trouble. Even men hardly pity/help men. 3. All you can get is "conditional love". The moment you fail at those conditions, you will be cast aside. 4. Be morally upright. Learn a trade and work well. Save and invest. Read wide. Solve problem-stop creating them. 5. Plan. Do needs instead of wants. Practice delayed gratification. 6. Time is wealth. Health is wealth. Also try and be grateful for the little things. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by YoobaNesan: 8:46pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
You can be forgiven in your 20s, not in your 30s, if you failed to deliver in life. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by yvesboss(m): 9:29pm On Aug 10, 2025 |
Be intentional about everything Don’t leave anything to chance!! Pls pls I beg of you |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by RealityKings1: 2:53am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Don't sacrifice your dreams and ambition for a girlfriend or woman. Be resilient and be very stingy with your resources if it's meant to boost your ambition |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by GenderMix: 8:12am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Learn to be early for meetings always Everyone you meet is a potential link to your greatness. Treat them we'll and with respect Buy stocks, shares. Invest in mutual funds no matter how little Control your sexual libido always. Be in charge |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by ruzell86: 9:21am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Love yourself first, only then you can learn to love others better. Loving yourselves include taking care of your whole self, and not engaging in activities that would endanger your lives or harm your health. Life is a gift... so make each day count ! |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Hamachi(f): 6:43pm On Aug 11, 2025 |
"Hey young blood, your 20s are not just about proving yourself to the world — they’re about learning yourself. Don’t rush to ‘arrive.’ Most of us over 30 wish we enjoyed the journey more instead of constantly thinking life would start after some big break. Invest in your health now — your body won’t forgive you later like it does now. Sleep, eat decent food, lift something heavier than your phone. Keep learning new skills even if they don’t pay immediately. The skills you start now will save you when life throws a curveball later. Stop trying to impress everyone. Most of the people you’re trying to impress won’t even be in your life in 5 years. Save something. I know money is tight, but even 5k a month compounds. The habit matters more than the amount. Don’t be scared of failure. Half the men you admire now were a complete mess in their 20s. And lastly — choose your circle wisely. If your friends aren’t pushing you to be better, you’ll stay the same… or worse, get dragged down." |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by UncleJJ(m): 3:36pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Women - never prefer successful woman over success in womanhood |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by UncleJJ(m): 3:37pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Women - never prefer successful woman over a success in womanhood. The latter is behind most powerful men you know, the former their albatross! |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Cum4me(m): 12:28pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Immediately you reach 30. 35 come so quickly like it's just like 5months from 35 you hit 40 like a blink of eye. If you haven't prepare since 25. My brother watin your eyes go see from 40 mostly if you come from poor family. It's not funny oo it's hell depression fit kpie u. Life is very short |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:37pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Avoid polytechnic, go to university. Dont date broke girls,date capable girls.peaceout |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by helinues: 3:47pm On Aug 13, 2025*. Modified: 4:37pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Life is not fair to anyone, you need to learn how to deal with it like others Love yourself first before loving others. That shouldn't be restricted to only relationship, also friendship and family as well |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by ecomalchemisttt: 3:47pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Learn handwork Skill Business Stay blessed. Naija get as e be |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by twilliamx(m): 3:48pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
It's not by might or power but by God's grace. NEVER Ever take God out of your equation |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Fryx: 3:49pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
SHIVA001:Sales have always been the best gift any man could possess. I had to learn it myself even though it’s naturally not in my blood. A good sales man will never lack. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by twilliamx(m): 3:49pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Don't use your heart to love, use your head to love... Original content kee u there |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Mabuggi88: 3:50pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Aaaaarghmed:You stole this from my mind. Avoid Polytechnic like you avoid mosquitoes in order to stop malaria. By doing that your problem as a graduate will be cut by more than half. 2. No matter how far you have gone doing the wrong thing, it' is never too late to turn back. I rest my case |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Advice: Avoid single mothers when you want to marry. Avoid non virgns when you want to marry. However, to quench konjii, fvck any girl you want. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Domyresearch: 3:50pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Women and sex should be the last things on your list. Prioritize skill building, purpose and focusing on developing yourself physically and spiritually. Pursuing women and sex drain your resources, physically , mentally and spiritually. Channel it into developing yourself. If you are pressured by peers to chase after women, look for friends that are pursuing purpose. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by Montana23: 3:51pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Don't cry over a woman, if you want to cry go to computer village or Lagos island for idumota.. girls yapa stay hustling too |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by autoez: 3:51pm On Aug 13, 2025*. Modified: 9:01am On Aug 14, 2025 |
Spend less on flexing. Save Save Save. Open a cowrywise account and save like never before. Don't allow anyone deceive you. Flexing is for the retired not for you. Work hard and save. Sex is normal for your health. Don't stop having it but not with the wrong woman. Even the poorest men have sex. So do it wisely, you should understand this. That's all I have to say. Shalom |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by PUMPIN11(m): 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
MONEY247:Calm down! Don't rush to do/achieve ANYTHING! Special emphasis on the ANYTHING. |
| Re: Men Over 30 Give Advice To Men In Their 20s by moscow007: 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2025*. Modified: 4:14pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Build connections, attend public functions especially the ones within ur career.(Interviews can't give u good high paying jobs, connections can) Do not take ur alumni network for granted if u attended great high school. Travel as much as u can and take as much videos and pics as u can, makes for great stories. Integrity pays... despise and flea from all get rich quick scheme instead learn a skill u really love and become master at it. Always call home, no matter how busy u are. |
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