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pocohantas:
It is not about hearing it.

It is about supporting it as we have seen on this thread. Don't call them feminist, bitter or threaten with Shiloh and menopause.

xtianchris:
You talk from a Canal point of View. It's like you haven't met responsible ladies for relationship.. Have a woman who would impact in your life .. You Better redefine your search and be purposeful . Try to structure yourself and everything fall in place. ..If you wanan dine with the devil use a long spoon .The man is the price. If you no stand well you fall.

Melagros:
COMRADES, well, I may agree with Chike, because when I hinted my GM (a white man man) that I wanted to get married and he asked me...do you want to lose your freedom?

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

Batman2412:
Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?

nothing, I repeat nothing is ever free in life.
Where you run from commitment in marriage, you definitely give it out in messing around. You're still committed to that.

You run from focus and responsibility in marriage, you lose focus and become irresponsible outside marriage.

Where you run from health from having just one partner in marriage, you pay for it dearly outside marriage by treating a barrage of infections and diseases.

Where you run from being a responsible father who will train his kids with his wife under the same roof, you pay dearly for it when you have other kids with baby mamas by either making the kids to be trained by her alone, or her and another man, or you train the kids alone and make them not experience the joys of father and mother togetherness. Those kids will later blame you for it.

I can go on and on.

But nothing is ever free. You only chose how you pay. Cash or transfer.

Myrepublic:
Oga dating is not marriage. If only you know the bullshit some men endures just to ensure their home doesn't break. As soon as she gives birth,her focus goes to her kids.. and the reason you are still important is bills. Take that out,Oga she no send you... But most of your type won't understand, because that gender are pro in manipulations.. Na men dey love women genuinely,women don't. They can only love their kids,the way men love them.Know this and know peace oga.

immortalcrown:
Na him sing love songs pass, na him no want lifetime commitment to love. After saying he will be beside her like the wall of Jericho.😂

"Follow my words and not my actions."

Sonnobax15:

I support chike on this one...

Since financially stable and independent ladies choose not to do relationship or begin to raise their shoulders when they are in a relationship,the same thing should also apply to the male gender as well

At least,it's good to know now that madness doesn't belong to only one gender

Flamemignon1:
You don't need a piece of paper for a lifetime commitment, what century are you living in?

Exceed15:
You can have healthy, intimate relationship without marriage . Most people married because of societal expectations

Flamemignon1:
Relationships and marriage are two different things

IsraelDollars13:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/its-a-stupid-step-to-get-married-says-singer-chike/%3famp

brain54:
It's clearly stated there were he said "for him"...

Meaning he wasn't generalizing!

He also added "Marriage is not for me. "My happiness depends on my financial stability”

Make una dey take am easy!

Apus:
Sharp. I believe we share the same views and I salute his courage for speaking his truth.

My own parents dey put pressure on me to do the needful since I got a job, have an apartment etc but looking at the big picture and thinking sustainability I know I'm not even close.

Couldn't speak my truth cause I know they fit get BP being the only son.

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

Ponmoalata:
That's why he started with "in my personal opinion"

Ashirioluwa:
That his choice and I don’t expect people to have sleepless nights over this.

immortalcrown:
Na him sing love songs pass, na him no want lifetime commitment to love. After saying he will be beside her like the wall of Jericho.😂

"Follow my words and not my actions."

correctguy101:
Lols...

Many wey dey sing about love no dey concern demselves with the public definition of love. See Tu Baba na... (Only Lady Celine Dion I suspect mean what she says in her songs, you fit even turn her songs to Christian song by replacing Jesus or God in some words in the lyrics and boom, legit church song don set )

If I tell some children on here say, no matter what it is, everyone has a different approach and definition for things. Dem the inexperienced kids go dey argue.

Because he no wan marry no mean say he no get person wey e love or go fit love. Like me, I once had my first best and we both subconsciously agree not to marry, until death stole her and I never still even see second best until today. I still love first best even after over 2 decades. Na so our own love be. No ask the kind of love we get for each other, no be ya concern.

If you dey with woman wey love ya pocket, na still love be that, you too find something for her body wey you fit love and don't bother yasef with too much matter.

All those TV dramas don spoil una ways of thinking. Even God no go fit love anyone for free, there's a price for everything. If it seems free to you, it's just that na you no dey aware of the cost.

IsraelDollars13:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/its-a-stupid-step-to-get-married-says-singer-chike/%3famp

immortalcrown:
Na him sing love songs pass, na him no want lifetime commitment to love. After saying he will be beside her like the wall of Jericho.😂

"Follow my words and not my actions."

immortalcrown:
Your point will be valid if only you will remain childless for life. But if you want to have a baby mama, your point is invalid. Between a man who has a baby mama and do not leave together with the woman to raise the child and another man who lives together with his wife to raise his child or children, who makes more commitment to love? . Commitment to love is not limited to sticking to and taking care of one woman, it extends to attaining the greatest height in ensuring the welfare of children.

MARKETfund:
It's over 3 years I heard dude is gay from a source I dare to say it's reliable.
So I'm not really surprised.

immortalcrown:
Na him sing love songs pass, na him no want lifetime commitment to love. After saying he will be beside her like the wall of Jericho.😂

"Follow my words and not my actions."