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pakute :
Shallow minds discuss people, average minds discuss issues, great minds discuss ideas while helinues maasoap elsudani discuss obi day and nite OP good afternoon

CaptainFM1:
Justice is not dispensed like that when a child is involved. Whether advance payment or instant toto-payment. Once a child is involved, they have to see how they can co-parent.

achimendy:
What did he do wrong that you're faulting him? He told her to come over to Nigeria for DNA test but she refused, only to go online and rain insults on him.

What exactly do you want him to do again after all this?

CaptainFM1:
It's not a must to accept it. It's just my view. Established or not, it's my view and my take.

motymop:
dey there dey cap.

The woman is fighting for the future of her child and you are here typing this stuff

the man act like he didnt see the woman messages in private, she came public and he is speaking about it, that is a start

soon he will do dna and take the kid, you on the otherside will still change mouth.

omooba969:
Do you think the adults involved in this matter should be denied their individual rights of choice?

The reason for my question is that I'm compelled to believe the lady premeditated the eventual outcome (if at all they had sexxx), and subsequently kept the pregnancy for reasons best known to her. CP ,clearly, was never a consented part to this arrangement and he has demonstrated to not want to be part of this either.

However, if the DNA test proves that CP is the biological father, his right of choice on whether he wants to be part of the child's life or not should be recognised, upheld and respected. The law court can give an order for adequate child support in the child's interest though.

You asked a question and you immediately supplied the answer yourself. The child support can be sufficient for being part of the child's life. Like you said DNA would conclusively confirm if he's the father or not. What is delaying the DNA testing?

However, what is morally right to ask CCP is, "did he do or not do with the lady"?

Individual rights and liberty shouldn't be eroded in a matter such as this.

omooba969:
Views are not admissible as facts.

DoctorStanley:
This obese guy don buy market.
Babymama dramaaaa

CaptainFM1:
The adults rights are waved when a child is involved. Consent or no consent, there are no illegitimate child. Once a child has come into being, the focus priority of the law is to protect the child irrespective of the misunderstandings or earlier agreement of the parent.

SmartPolician:
Oga, rest! That lady has tried all best possible means to reach Cubana CP. He keeps running away from his responsibility. He impregnated that lady and he knows that. That woman is acting like crazy because she's frustrated. She's too broke to take care of the child alone. That's why she's asking for child support and CP is angry that she exposed the product of his one-night-stand go wrong.


Think about it for a second. A lady you have never met in your life accuses you that you are the father of her child and demands a DNA test. You know you have never met her and you are very influential like Chief Priest. Of course, you will go for the test to prove your innocence. Afterwards, you make sure you jail the lady.

DoctorStanley:
Plenty he did wrong. Said all sorts of things, even said he didn't know the woman. DNA test can be done anywhere. This is a matter money could have nipped in the bud - and he says money na water!

luminouz:
You are not smart sha.

Na today women dey accuse men of being the father of their babes only for DNA tests to say otherwise?

So she is broke but decides to get pregnant for him despite knowing he has a wife? What stops her from getting a job. she couldn't use birth control but is now pestering him for child support from a dude who doesn't want a baby? A woman can say no to a baby even if a man wants it and it's cool but when a man doesn't want it and she does, she goes ahead and gets that baby,THEN ASKS HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ON A KID HE NEVER WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE?

Are you hearing yourself?

omooba969:
I've stated that a court order for child support would be the way to go.

However, I'm yet to find the law that compels a parent to be in the child's life. More so, the extant rights of individuals cannot be disregarded nor infringed upon as far as family law is concerned, bcoz whilst working to uphold one, you're in effect breaching another.

omooba969:
WORD!!! 🙌 🔥 🔥 🔥

In family law, your submission can prove a case of 'entrapment' if well articulated.

CaptainFM1:
Stop mixing words up and down. Child support is sufficient as being in the child's life. Nobody is asking anyone to be there physically. Afterall, there are so many men that are physically present that can't also support financially.

Where you cannot reach or don't want to reach, let your money reach there.

luminouz:
You are not smart sha.

Na today women dey accuse men of being the father of their babes only for DNA tests to say otherwise?

So she is broke but decides to get pregnant for him despite knowing he has a wife? What stops her from getting a job. she couldn't use birth control but is now pestering him for child support from a dude who doesn't want a baby? A woman can say no to a baby even if a man wants it and it's cool but when a man doesn't want it and she does, she goes ahead and gets that baby,THEN ASKS HIM FOR CHILD SUPPORT ON A KID HE NEVER WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE?


It doesn't matter how the child comes. There are no illegitimate child.
Are you hearing yourself?

CaptainFM1:
Stop mixing words up and down. Child support is sufficient as being in the child's life. Nobody is asking anyone to be there physically. Afterall, there are so many men that are physically present that can't also support financially.

Where you cannot reach or don't want to reach, let your money reach there.

omooba969:
Wow! So you actually equate child support to being in a child's life as a parent....REALLY! ??

O well, you're Nigerian, why am I even surprised.

luminouz:
Leave those guys and their emotional mindset.

The woman wants the baby abi and now she has a baby. Why can't she work to provide for that child or is she not a strong , independent woman again?

She can't care for a child that's not 5 years old on her own. Is she that broke? No work? No business? Haba nah!!! That shows you how messed up and manipulative she is.

luminouz:
You are still not addressing the issue. Was she forced to have a baby?[b] If he doesn't want a baby [/b]and she does, why force him to pay for a child he clearly doesn't want. Is she disabled to work to feed a child of less than 5 years?

Then, she called him a ritualist and she still wants child support from the same ritualist? 🙄🙄🙄

How does that make sense?

Caaz:
And there re men like cubana chiefpriest on nairalamd.the lady has told him countless times to run Dna test on the child,so what the hell is stopping him from doing so?

AMI3:
Oga go and do DNA test. Make una no suffer that innocent child.
Did u do or u didn't do?
Do u know the babe?

CaptainFM1:
If you don't want a baby, you don't drill a leaking shaft in an axle.

What are you implying the lady should have done if he came inside her?

I really should leave you to it now. Gosh!

omooba969:
Wow! So you actually equate child support to being in a child's life as a parent....REALLY! ??

O well, you're Nigerian, why am I even surprised.

omooba969:
I think you prefer to entertain your emotions over logical reasoning. Would you advise an adult lady to have a baby for a stranger? She knows what to do but kept the pregnancy for reasons best known to her, which is obvious actually.

Hope you're aware that's not her first child?

omooba969:
Why not do some critical reasoning on the matter. Everyone appears to be riding on emotions.

CaptainFM1:
I made my point clear. Stop twisting everything together.

I summarized it by saying, "if you cannot be there or don't want to be there, let your money be there"

Now, How is the above quote equating child support to being in a child's life as a parent?

I smile when I hear people saying "you're Nigerian". It's indeed a shame. Before you claim foreigners, check my page. I was a merchant navy Captain for 12years. I've been to over 150countries of this world. And I've touched all the continents of this world. I am happily a Nigerian.

I don't know what being a Nigerian has got to do with the topic we're discussing.

SMHFU!

Child support is sufficient as being in the child's life.

DoctorStanley:
And no responsible babydaddy will behave like the fat guy