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10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by voiceoftheupcom(op): 8:59am On Aug 20, 2025
If you grew up in a Nigerian home, then you know childhood wasn’t just about cartoons and school — it was a full cultural experience. From unspoken rules to unique family traditions, Nigerian parenting shaped us in ways that still follow us into adulthood. Whether you grew up in Lagos or anywhere across the country, these habits will instantly bring back memories and make you say, “Ah! That’s me!” Eyes Of Lagos reports,

Here are 10 habits that prove you definitely grew up in a Nigerian household:

1. Washing Plates Immediately After Eating
There was no such thing as leaving plates in the sink. The moment you dropped your spoon, mummy’s voice would follow: “Go and wash that plate before ants enter!”

2. Running Errands for Maggi or Pure Water
If you didn’t run to the corner shop to buy Maggi, pure water, or kerosene at least once a day, did you even grow up in Nigeria?

3. “Don’t On the Gen Until Daddy Comes
The generator was sacred. No matter how hot or dark the night got, you dared not touch it until your father gave the final order.

4. Greeting Every Adult You See
Nigerian parents trained us to greet everyone — from neighbors to strangers passing by. Forgetting to say “Good morning” was almost a crime.

5. Eating Rice Every Sunday
No matter how rich or poor, one thing was constant — Sunday rice. Jollof, fried, or white, it didn’t matter, but rice had to be on the menu.

6. Watching TV with Caution
Cartoon time was limited. Once daddy came in, the channel was switched to NTA news or Africa Magic Yoruba — no arguments.

7. Sleeping Under Mosquito Nets or with “Odomos
You either had the big blue mosquito net tucked under your mattress or mummy rubbed you with Odomos like body lotion before bed.

8. Beating Was a Love Language
From slippers to koboko, Nigerian parents had a way of reminding you that “spare the rod and spoil the child” was not just a saying.

9. The Famous ‘Visitor Meat’
Growing up, you knew not to touch the meat in the pot — it was for visitors. And even if the visitor never came, you still couldn’t eat it.

10. Family Morning Prayers
Before school, before food, before anything — morning devotion came first. Sometimes you even dozed off during the endless prayer points.

🎯 Final Thoughts
These little habits shaped us, disciplined us, and gave us stories that only fellow Nigerians can truly understand. Whether you still live at home or you’ve “japa-ed” abroad, these childhood memories will always remind you that you grew up in a Nigerian household.

👉 Which of these habits do you remember most? Share your own childhood memories in the comments — let’s see how many we all have in common!
https://eyesoflagos.com/10-habits-that-prove-you-grew-up-in-a-nigerian-household/

Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by dawnomike(m): 9:06am On Aug 20, 2025
All the above rules were in play in my household while growing up...
Plus there is always a chair in the parlour that belongs to the Dad. Same goes for Cup, plate and spoon
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Sonnobax15(m): 9:14am On Aug 20, 2025
lipsrsealed
I can relate to all of them..


And one major one in my house was that my dad always leaves a small portion of his meal for the last born of the family grin
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by okomile(f): 9:33am On Aug 20, 2025
grin
These makes me remember my mum

Blessed soul

All these shaped my growing up.
Things I instilled in my son. He must greet his elders and it made his friends parents to love him. He will greet and prostrate. He too is now telling his kids to do same

Life goes on
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Tradepunter2: 10:41am On Aug 20, 2025
dawnomike:
All the above rules were in play in my household while growing up...
Plus there is always a chair in the parlour that belongs to the Dad. Same goes for Cup, plate and spoon
Hahaha.... nice... even till now my dad and mum still have their chair only for them in the parlor.... even our kids know that's grand pa and grands ma chair 😂😂😂😂
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Majesty33(m): 10:42am On Aug 20, 2025
Running to greet dad when he is back from work has consequences, its either u maintain if your clothes look dirty cos u might be served with hot slap or spank at the back. grin
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Jayson504(m): 10:43am On Aug 20, 2025
Hahahaha this brings back nostalgic memories good old days....
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by bluefilm: 10:44am On Aug 20, 2025
Your list is somehow strange

Seun find 8 more characters for me please
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Proudlyngwa(m): 10:51am On Aug 20, 2025
And the tradition continues in my family

I even inherit my papa kaikai cup
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by armadeo(m): 10:54am On Aug 20, 2025
Proudlyngwa:
And the tradition continues in my family

I even inherit my papa kaikai cup
Lol. That cup has more value to you than anyone knows. People will wonder why you treasure the cup.
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by TheStranger: 10:58am On Aug 20, 2025
I can't relate with seven and eight.
We were poor growing up but we don't put visitors above family
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Davoneskay(m): 11:12am On Aug 20, 2025
Another one is that you must finish eating before touching the meat or fish
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Niceguy4ever: 11:12am On Aug 20, 2025
You are talking of Nigerian home and you are saying African Magic Yoruba.

You should have just tagged your post "Growing up in a Yoruba home"
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by rainluv: 11:13am On Aug 20, 2025
I can't relate to 1,3,4,7,8,9 tho

But 10 was a very mustt
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Trueprophet91: 11:13am On Aug 20, 2025
armadeo:
Lol. That cup has more value to you than anyone knows. People will wonder why you treasure the cup.
What are you trying to say?
Are you calling him a drunkard? grin grin grin
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by KingDashx(m): 11:17am On Aug 20, 2025
A 100 years from now we'll all be dead
Makes you wonder, were you just born to die...
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by femi4: 11:18am On Aug 20, 2025
voiceoftheupcom:
https://eyesoflagos.com/10-habits-that-prove-you-grew-up-in-a-nigerian-household/
no 1 isn't always true

Plates for night food are watched in the morning

Never used mosquito net, not a fan
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by wizdooarchy3(m): 11:23am On Aug 20, 2025
Nice once
But you missed " don't go to neighbors house to watch TV...

Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Miramonica: 11:23am On Aug 20, 2025
I can relate to 4, 6 and 8.

Then my lovely Mum(God bless her soul) would make us feel we committed a crime of we are walking with her and pass a neighbour and didn't greet the person.

If you misbehave, my mum will always wait till night to treat your fvckup, she will give you dinner, you will eat and relax, we will all say Goodnight and head to our rooms...she will later come into the room and order my siblings to go out, she will lock the door and ask you if you've finished running before she will beat okro soup comot for your eyes.

It's that training that made my siblings and I become responsible members of the society.

Sadly, they are both late. May God bless their souls.

Childhood memories sha!
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 11:23am On Aug 20, 2025
I can't relate to a lotta things here.

The Nigeria I grew in is clearly different from the one you grew in.
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by SlavaUkraini:
voiceoftheupcom:
8. Beating Was a Love Language
From slippers to koboko, Nigerian parents had a way of reminding you that “spare the rod and spoil the child” was not just a saying.


https://eyesoflagos.com/10-habits-that-prove-you-grew-up-in-a-nigerian-household/
Na my dear mama Sabi do this one well well

When you Fûçk up for daytime, momsy nor go answer you...

For night when you don eat and fast asleep...

My sweet mother go wake you up and give you the whipping you deserve..

Those beatings and floggings were Iconic and Legendary.. .... grin cheesy grin cheesy

Sometimes neighbors had to get involve and plead on your behalf because the flogging were getting out of hand...

On one such occasions, my Mama nor gree listen to anyone pleading on my behalf

I had to tell the neighbor to please allow me chop the beating because I wanted to go to sleep........ How Rude I was

I am better off today because of those Mama Whooping
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by osuofia2(m): 11:26am On Aug 20, 2025
Add giving visitors food and the visitor pretending he/she is not seeing the food or say no first but later eat
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Lawalemi(m): 11:27am On Aug 20, 2025
No. 3 - I practice that even as a father.

You can't put on my gen anyhow except when Im around o or when you start buying petrol by yourself sha.
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Mindlog: 11:28am On Aug 20, 2025
Meats in the pot, reserved for the visitors....which colour of mindset is that?

Growing up, visitors ate what we the children and my parents ate, my parents gave no preference to visitors.
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by bigdawg7:
We don't give no special treatment to any visitor not even my dad's brother who was the igwe of our community, even when he comes to our house we treat him like every other person, ogun keep any visitor wey go come our come chop well before us
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by bigpicture001: 11:43am On Aug 20, 2025
KingDashx:
A 100 years from now we'll all be dead
Makes you wonder, were you just born to die...
Ur whole essense is to stay for a period and make a choice... ..

That choice is why u were born.. they need u to make a choice...
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by ufotunang: 11:48am On Aug 20, 2025
femi4:
no 1 isn't always true

Plates for night food are watched in the morning

Never used mosquito net, not a fan
..that time mosquito coil was used


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Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by Guestmale: 11:56am On Aug 20, 2025
And any child that grew up or trained under these 10 habits you hardly see him or her miss behaving when he or she grow up.Majority grow up to become a responsible man or woman.
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by tiamiyukunle69(m): 12:11pm On Aug 20, 2025
You forgot to add, putting brooms behind the kitchen door
Re: 10 Habits That Prove You Grew Up In A Nigerian Household by ibawon(m): 12:20pm On Aug 20, 2025
Finishing your food before eating your meat nko?
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