₦airaland Forum

motymop:
but your pastor, friends teacher, imans and politicians influences you.does that not makes you not an adult? thinking you will not get influenced in the society you live is silly thought.

Lol,nice question.

ravensckar:
Dude, stop being mischievious by trying to bandy words with me.

I didn't use the word "influence" in my post. I said "indoctrinate". Unless you graduated from a Night School, there's no way you won't know the difference between the two.

Please ehn, I don't have the strength to argue this afternoon. I'm having a headache in my stomach please.

#Picks_tooth

is religion not indoctrination? You are expected to believe something that is not proven and sometimes by force.

Softmirror:
He is not different from Mr Macaroni, Peller and the rest. All of dem dey d same level. He is trying to make ends meet like his colleagues too with EMPTY CONTENTS which some Nigerians obviously love.😁

You obviously do NOT know him.

His Contents are mostly on Financial Matters, not Macaroni that focuses on Yan.ch.

It is recently he started all the Tow.tow talk in response to SaidaBoj and other Feminists that shame Broke Guys.

My advice to men is to remain men. If you guys masculine women, it will not be in your favour. The only upper hand you have is that you make more money than women. I won't say much.

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

This looks like a post I saw on a Facebook page...

Who is Gaygay again?

Everytime you people will just churn up one funny character.
Please who is he abi she?

illicit:
I listen to myself alone and alone

That's how I have been surviving

Just remember you are your own enemy

immortalcrown:
1.
Any man listening to that guy had already started running from his responsibilities or has been searching for a means of dodging his responsibility before he came across the guy. Stop blaming the guy. It is not the maker of torn clothes that is responsible for madness. Those who locate and put on torn clothes were already mad before coming across the torn clothes. Gege or whatsoever he is called does not convert men. He only encourages or coaches those who already have his mindset.

2.
The second to the last paragraph in your post is totally fallacious. If women becoming men is a choice of survival, men becoming women is also a choice of survival and not a choice of weakness.

3.
If you want to preach the Bible, I will agree with you that men are created to provide for women. But if you want to follow the way the world is going, men are no longer supposed to provide for women every time. A man should provide for his woman if the woman does not have. But if the woman has her own money, why should she save it so that the man will be the one spending his own or her?
Women are now equally being empowered the same way men are being empowered. Women now go to school and get jobs. If it was in the past when only men were empowered, when only men were trained in school and offered jobs, I will agree that it remains the responsibility of men to be providing for women. If men should continue to provide all the financial needs of women now that women are equally empowered, what then is the essence of empowering women? If women want all their needs to be provided by men, then the women should focus on opening their legs in bedrooms and nursing children, the women should not bother about going to school and competing with men in the job market.

4.
Your analysis is not balanced. In other words, it is one-sided. Men are not the only problem. Women are equally part of the problem. People like Gege and his fellows are warming up because more women are becoming more materialistic in this generation. In the past, a disciplined or decent man can use his good personality to attract a woman. But today on average, only a man with money attracts almost every woman in his environment. In today's world, a male criminal that has wealth can get any woman of his choice while it is almost impossible for a decent man that doesn't have money to get a woman of his choice. There are also Saidaboj and her followers. So, don't address the issue halfway.

A simple question with characters less than 40.

WHAT ARE THE RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE GIRLS/ WOMEN?

So it is now the responsibility of men to completely take up the financial burden and responsibilities of girls in the name of being in a relationship?

wouldn't that continue to re-enforce the negative stereotype of women being leeches and selfish beings that have no value outside of what a man provides for them?

Is this not demeaning, disrespectful and insulting to encourage the narative that women should continue to hawk toto as the only thing of value that they have?

Women are human beings too and are fully endowed with a brain and capacity to develop themselves by adding value to themselves and to society apart from being various flavours of prostitutes called HOOKUP GIRLS, OS, etc

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

I thought what a man can do, a woman can do better? So women should scam men off their hard earned money for the sake of being a woman?

Verbtips:
after the podcast where Saida boj said u pay her for being beautiful bla. BLA BLA,ghe ghe strategically set up a trap by singing Saida boj tóohtooo***oh if na 20 million I. Go pay,from there he began to build the momentum,and Saida boj play an important role in his game time to time,now all of them have been tamed by him.everything was well planed and organized

I was thinking how he just blow up suddenly
It was behind the scene something lol

Well said. Time will tell. Also, in most cases, you can not eat your cake and still expect to have it. Everybody go dey alright las las

franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home/kids while the men went out to work and bring back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home/kids while the men went out to work and bring back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

The most intelligent response.

You are good in reasoning.

He never said you should not take care of your woman. He's only saying you should know how to spend on ladies probably not only you fkin her. He's talking about boyfriend and girlfriend, not wife and husband. And if you have problem with that, that mean you have to check yourself.

franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home/kids while the men went out to work and bring back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

Oil dey your head it's been long i read a sensible post in here, kudos!

Every week, jobless Nigerian netizens randomly select one miscreant to promote, for no tangible reason whatsoever. Who is this guy? And why should I give a damn about him? How am I even sure that the endless outbursts hurled at him for the past 24 hours aren't even part of a sponsored campaign to make him a household name?

God, grand me the wisdom to transcend Nigeria internet.

VinnyBaba:
You obviously do NOT know him.

His Contents are mostly on Financial Matters, not Macaroni that focuses on Yan.ch.

It is recently he started all the Tow.tow talk in response to SaidaBoj and other Feminists that shame Broke Guys.

I know very well. He belongs to the same level as the ones I just mentioned. Nothing special about him.

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

I no blame Gehgeh, I blame the people who listen to a nonentity who claims he's a financial advisor with zero trainings and certifications.

If you don't have men with identifiable means of wealth and solid track records to mentor you, and you feel that a nondescript like gehgeh can mentor you, then it's fine

franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home/kids while the men went out to work and bring back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

In summary, there's nothing new under the Sun

Men are not the problem as you want us to believe. The opportunities that men used to have that allowed them to assume full responsibilities for their women are now being shared with women thanks to feminism. I don't care if this is a good or bad thing, but I cared about how this part is often conveniently ignored in conversations of this nature.

Men in power steal, so do women. But while the men will settle the dude who helped him launder his money, set up businesses that employ dozens and even pay taxes to the government, pay for their kids school fees in advance like a certain former governor from Kogi. I mean, even the side chickens will benefit from the loot. Contrast that with a woman, when she steals, at best she will buy properties or cars or phones or wigs, things that doesn't serve anyone other than herself.

Take the entertainment sector in Nigeria as another example. You can mention names like the late Kayode Peters, Olamide, Don Jazzy, and even Davido. These men gave platform to the likes of Basketmouth, Korede Bello, Asake, Adekunle Gold, Reekado Banks, etc. Now think about their women equivalent in the industry and ask yourself who they have made. The story is the same in politics too. While we have not had women governors, we have had senators. Now go and look at who the male senators have produced in politics vis-a-vis the women.

The point is, we got to where we are today because men opportunities were significantly reduced in favour of women, despite the fact that men when they get opportunities distribute to other men and women alike.

illicit:
I listen to myself alone and alone

That's how I have been surviving

Just like me. I don't see advice. I do it all on my own.

I judge you to be a wise fellow!

immortalcrown:
1.
Any man listening to that guy had already started running from his responsibilities or has been searching for a means of dodging his responsibility before he came across the guy. Stop blaming the guy. It is not the maker of torn clothes that is responsible for madness. Those who locate and put on torn clothes were already mad before coming across the torn clothes. Gege or whatsoever he is called does not convert men. He only encourages or coaches those who already have his mindset.

2.
The second to the last paragraph in your post is totally fallacious. If women becoming men is a choice of survival, men becoming women is also a choice of survival and not a choice of weakness.

3.
If you want to preach the Bible, I will agree with you that men are created to provide for women. But if you want to follow the way the world is going, men are no longer supposed to provide for women every time. A man should provide for his woman if the woman does not have. But if the woman has her own money, why should she save it so that the man will be the one spending his own or her?
Women are now equally being empowered the same way men are being empowered. Women now go to school and get jobs. If it was in the past when only men were empowered, when only men were trained in school and offered jobs, I will agree that it remains the responsibility of men to be providing for women. If men should continue to provide all the financial needs of women now that women are equally empowered, what then is the essence of empowering women? If women want all their needs to be provided by men, then the women should focus on opening their legs in bedrooms and nursing children, the women should not bother about going to school and competing with men in the job market.

4.
Your analysis is not balanced. In other words, it is one-sided. Men are not the only problem. Women are equally part of the problem. People like Gege and his fellows are warming up because more women are becoming more materialistic in this generation. In the past, a disciplined or decent man can use his good personality to attract a woman. But today on average, only a man with money attracts almost every woman in his environment. In today's world, a male criminal that has wealth can get any woman of his choice while it is almost impossible for a decent man that doesn't have money to get a woman of his choice. There are also Saidaboj and her followers. So, don't address the issue halfway.

Venusman:
As a man that you claimed to be,


Do you mean you don't know what you need to do to handle you life and affairs with your woman until Gheghe started his doctrine? You dey fall my hand already for this post

Don't be surprised, there are many out there who don't have the essential life skills.

So bankrolling women upandan is a responsibility ..

.be like op no know wetin do am ..

sammiewrite:
Men are not the problem as you want us to believe. The opportunities that men used to have that allowed them to assume full responsibilities for their women are now being shared with women thanks to feminism. I don't care if this is a good or bad thing, but I cared about how this part is often conveniently ignored in conversations of this nature.

Men in power steal, so do women. But while the men will settle the dude who helped him launder his money, set up businesses that employ dozens and even pay taxes to the government, pay for their kids school fees in advance like a certain former governor from Kogi. I mean, even the side chickens will benefit from the loot. Contrast that with a woman, when she steals, at best she will buy properties or cars or phones or wigs, things that doesn't serve anyone other than herself.

Take the entertainment sector in Nigeria as another example. You can mention names like the late Kayode Peters, Olamide, Don Jazzy, and even Davido. These men gave platform to the likes of Basketmouth, Korede Bello, Asake, Adekunle Gold, Reekado Banks, etc. Now think about their women equivalent in the industry and ask yourself who they have made. The story is the same in politics too. While we have not had women governors, we have had senators. Now go and look at who the male senators have produced in politics vis-a-vis the women.

The point is, we got to where we are today because men opportunities were significantly reduced in favour of women, despite the fact that men when they get opportunities distribute to other men and women alike.

They're probably gonna tell us that 'women are not providers', lol .

Maybe they are consumers by nature ....hahahahaha 😂🤣

omooba969:
They're probably gonna tell us that 'women are not providers', lol .

Maybe they are consumers by nature ....hahahahaha 😂🤣

Consumers that wanna be dragging opportunities with men. Shame on feminism. With the way things are going,e go reach one time when men go dey their own,women go dey their own make we see who go suffer am.

DanBJChem:
You talk wella, but you see the bolded quotes...
There'll never be a time cycle were it will happen bro. Nature will always win

Lol, let's start from guys hustling on the street, the loaders for instance.
A loader loading goods from truck to warehouse, they no born women well to go near there.
Although we have started seeing women doing kpon kpon, assisting bricklayers to carry lock and my ed sand but it's just very few of dem, I have only seen 1 women driving long truck.
In 100 generations women can't equate men role with us

Theama:
This looks like a post I saw on a Facebook page...

Na copy and paste.

Na wan guy on Facebook named Tito that posted it when I saw it on my timeline

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...

Mt man shift and face your way o,face wetin concern you and leave gehgeh alone.

is it only bills that make someone a man? moreover Gehegh said girlfriend not wife.

PresidentMUGABE:
I'm scared for Nigerian women in the next 10 to 15 years. When I look at Gegeh's doctrines and the number of young men who followed him, lots of Nigerian women will face a massive decline in masculine men.

Therefore there will be lots of masculine women. Gehgeh is teaching men not to be responsible. Running away from responsibility, which is one of the principles of turning a boy into a man.

This isn't rocket science! If the men are running away from being responsible men who work and take care of themselves and their women, the women will have to work hard and become the men they wish they had.

Sadly, the same men will hate their women because they will become aggressive, competitive, less agreeable, dominant and masculine traits are opposing to men in the dating market.

Women are not built to face toughness. Men are built for it. Men becoming women is a choice of weakness; women becoming men is a choice of survival.

We need men to be men and women to be women. It's what its...