₦airaland Forum

VonScott:
➜MY WORRY is a trend that has actually been creeping for a while. A trend of Western men taking wives from africa esp eastern rural african villages only to abuse them when they get to europe. This directly relates to the thread. IS it every single one? I never said that.
➜ I did not INTEND to have you to BELIEVE anything, STOP PROJECTING YOUR INSECURITIES! You say whatever you want, believe anything. I am just forming my opinion based on observation & facts, I implore everyone to do same. I have no problem either if you chose a course different from that just leave me outta that.
➜ Lastly, and for the umpteeth, I have NO interest in hearing those boring arguments about practices from that horrible place you come from. Not here either to compare one womans worth here nor there.

1. There exists no such trend as what you describe, though.

However, we all know of the trend created by African men in the diaspora coming back to take wives from African villages, not just from East African countries, to serve them in the Western countries where they live. And we have troves of stories of abuse that trail that trend to sink our teeth into until kingdom come naw. So, what in the world are you really worried about?

2. The one clearly projecting insecurities here is your person who clearly assumes a non-existent trend and pretends worry for women when you care nothing about the 10s of millions of women in Africa whose lives have been decimated by the marriage culture in your precious Africa.

3. Stop trading lies and deceit... interest or no interest!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUdpq2dHc5o

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

There is one thing I can tell, that man despite everything is damn attracted to her.

Last last, Mixed feelings na bastard...🤦🏾‍♂️

The veils is out of his eyes and he now know the truth. He has seen the real her without make up.

wow

enemyofprogress:
She seems not to know her write in UK. Babe you're no more in Nigeria. Go to the nearest police station and report the him. You're no more in Nigeria, you're now in UK, the home belongs to you. Report him to the police and send him packing. I trust Mynd44, she willl never take this rubbish from any man

Send a citizen packing in his own nation?

mecuries:
They are psychos alright, but they aren't selfish... Leave the part for Africans

White men are selfish in relationship and marriages.

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

Stop giving excuse for bad behaviors maybe something is fundamentally wrong with the mindset of a black man and I hope you are not the type who beats a woman. saying she deserves it. That white man is lucky he is supposed to be in jail already. All women beater should rot in jail.

Two sides to a story, better to hear the man's side. Women can tune a story to fit their narrative, they will turn the story and gain sympathy making them the saint and the man a demon.
Until you hear both sides, take her version with a pinch of salt.

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

Chimamanda’s husband is not a white man. He is from Edo - born of an Edo father and white mom. Chimamanda and her husband met when they were both attending UNN Nsukka.

dederocs:
✓White men are selfish in relationship and marriages.

Are black men not the same?

Phut:
Chimamanda’s husband is not a white man. He is from Edo - born of an Edo father and white mom. Chimamanda and her husband met when they were both attending UNN Nsukka.

He is biracial from Cross River actually.

Whites can only marry blacks for two reasons:

1. Domination and Control
Blacks generally have this inferiority complex when they're with a white man or lady as the case maybe. This makes it easier for the white partner to establish total domination and control of his/her black partner. Of course, they can't get such level of subservience from their own race, so the control freaks among them look for black men or women to marry. So as a black guy or lady dreaming of marrying whites, just know what you're signing up for and be ready to know your place and submit.

2. Fame or wealth

A white man or lady may also consider marrying blacks who have achieved fame or wealth and who stands out among fellow blacks eg, football stars, musicians, business moguls, politicians etc.

It is rare to find a white man or lady who is genuinely in love with his or her black partner. They'll rather stick to their race when love is the yardstick for marriage ie for those of them who are not homosexuals

99thEnemy:
There is one thing I can tell, that man despite everything is damn attracted to her.

Last last, Mixed feelings na bastard...🤦🏾‍♂️

What makes you think so?

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

Chimanda husband is actually a nigerian from cross river state he is mixed.

motymop:
so you think there is no domestic violence in the UK...damn people are funny

I am just surprised why she couldn't call the Police on him, instead prefers to be a punching bag in a country where women wield a lot of power.

RollinTNDA:
You see that if a woman invest much in marriage. If you like carry her up and give her smack down she will not leave that marriage.

The reason women easily leave marriage is
.1. She didn't spend a dime on you
2. Bride price was paid by the man
3. Wedding bills by the man
4. House to live in bought by man

So when she sees that she has nothing she contributed she will leave the marriage after small argument with her

[b]When A Woman pays groom price
And bring 50% wedding money
And bring 50% money for household
[/b]If you like bomb the house with nuclear bomb. She will not leave that marriage ooo.

In this case she invested in the marriage to gain citizenship. Once women are invested in something. No matter how many slap you give her she will not back out easily.

The ones that easily divorce and walk away
They never invested anything so no loss for them.

With what you said, I just remember one of Ubunja's lesson on Redpill...

Macnnoli4:
Eeyah. Not meeting his family was an obvious red flag because even oyibo people relate well with their extended families too. After all, when you see those Yoruba traditional marriages of interracial nature on social media, you notice the white groom's family literally come in entourages.

big mistake not meeting his family

pocohantas:
I saw it on TikTok today.
Any race can be bad, but the way our people ignore all checks and standard just because they want to marry a foreigner needs to be studied. It reeks of inferiority complex. Those people are not brash like us that will show you all their cards. They will slowly finish you inside, hence the name calling to destroy her self-esteem in addition to the physical abuse.

If they had their way, they will stick to their own. When you see them going outside their race, they are hiding something or gaining something major. Could be money, or extreme subservience. Could be a mental condition, addiction or criminal past. Look well o, and try have a source of income. So you can at least feed yourself if things get bad.

Criminal past....... hmmmmm

She married him as a result of desperation and not love.

Jman06:
Whites can only marry blacks for two reasons:

1. Domination and Control
Blacks generally have this inferiority complex when they're with a white man or lady as the case maybe. This makes it easier for the white partner to establish total domination and control of his/her black partner. Of course, they can't get such level of subservience from their own race, so the control freaks among them look for black men or women to marry. So as a black guy or lady dreaming of marrying whites, just know what you're signing up for and be ready to know your place and submit.

2. Fame or wealth

A white man or lady may also consider marrying blacks who have achieved fame or wealth and who stands out among fellow blacks eg, football stars, musicians, business moguls, politicians etc.

It is rare to find a white man or lady who is genuinely in love with his or her black partner. They'll rather stick to their race when love is the yardstick for marriage ie for those of them who are not homosexuals

I agree with you to a large extent

Chilipepper:
Sad story of Nigerian woman abused by husband after relocating to UK for love

She married a Racist.

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

Some women, simply ignore red flags in foreign citizens, some just marry any white man who comes their way.

There are good white men. Every country has both good and bad people.

Mathewrichard99:
A very big risk indeed. Most of them are even psychological insane, lunatic. Some take drugs regularly to make them well behaved. It's a big risk and am talking from experienced.

If you tell them to ask questions, they will say it doesn’t need.
If you ask them questions, they will say it’s too much.

Helpout12345:
As usual, she is looking for sympathy or validation to dump the man she used to japa.

In the whole of UK with power given to women legally, a man will be punching you and you didn't call the police.

She didn't, never loved the white man to begin with. She just used him to escape Nigerian poverty

Lol 😂 this guy.. looks like you know women way. Wotgoor revealing too much, I know of women (very close ones for that matter) that successfuly carry out this type of trick. Use the man japa go USA, the man filled affidavit of support during green card stage so he can’t bail out now that the lady is fcvking other men in the US. Some even go to the extent of having baby with him before the man take them away from Nigeria cuz they know child support is guaranteed in the US when they decide to bail out and marry a man they want in the US. Lol these are just open trick tho


Not just Nigerian women.. this is for women generally .. the moment they get their green card in the US, they divorce you and leave ur ass, leaving u with financial wreck, you still go Dey pay her monthly cuz she’ll take ur ass to court (most US court award alimony even for marriage less than 5yrs, exception is Texas), and if you have a child together, you’re doom, they slash you with CS.

To enjoy women in the western world;

(1) make sure you don’t take any woman there (don’t sponsor any woman). Marry in Nigeria and have babies. Never take her there.

(2) when you get to the US, if you’re good looking, yu get options. But make sure you don’t procreate with them (there are tricks wise men use for this one), you can marry them if you want but ensure u protect ur properties (have offshore account in case things go south

isyourboy:
Lol 😂 this guy.. looks like you know women way. Wotgoor revealing too much, I know of women (very close ones for that matter) that successfuly carry out this type of trick. Use the man japa go USA, the man filled affidavit of support during green card stage so he can’t bail out now that the lady is fcvking other men in the US. Some even go to the extent of having baby with him before the man take them away from Nigeria cuz they know child support is guaranteed in the US when they decide to bail out and marry a man they want in the US. Lol these are just open trick tho


Not just Nigerian women.. this is for women generally .. the moment they get their green card in the US, they divorce you and leave ur ass, leaving u with financial wreck, you still go Dey pay her monthly cuz she’ll take ur ass to court (most US court award alimony even for marriage less than 5yrs, exception is Texas), and if you have a child together, you’re doom, they slash you with CS.

To enjoy women in the western world;

(1) make sure you don’t take any woman there (don’t sponsor any woman). Marry in Nigeria and have babies. Never take her there.

(2) when you get to the US, if you’re good looking, yu get options. But make sure you don’t procreate with them (there are tricks wise men use for this one), you can marry them if you want but ensure u protect ur properties (have offshore account in case things go south

Personal and other men experiences around women have taught me a lot.

I concur 💯pct to your submission up there.

Women are always in business while men are in love.

Chimamanda is not married to a white man

[Qquote author=Nonexisting1 post=136544355]The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.[/quote]

Jman06:
Whites can only marry blacks for two reasons:

1. Domination and Control
Blacks generally have this inferiority complex when they're with a white man or lady as the case maybe. This makes it easier for the white partner to establish total domination and control of his/her black partner. Of course, they can't get such level of subservience from their own race, so the control freaks among them look for black men or women to marry. So as a black guy or lady dreaming of marrying whites, just know what you're signing up for and be ready to know your place and submit.

2. Fame or wealth

A white man or lady may also consider marrying blacks who have achieved fame or wealth and who stands out among fellow blacks eg, football stars, musicians, business moguls, politicians etc.

It is rare to find a white man or lady who is genuinely in love with his or her black partner. They'll rather stick to their race when love is the yardstick for marriage ie for those of them who are not homosexuals

Lol...Isn't that what African marriages is all about. When y'all talk about submissive women, is the sole aim not to control or dominate her? The truth is, white men can be psychos, I agree, but in marriages, they are more flexible and accord a woman more freedom and respect. All these talk about white men doing this and that, won't stop African women from getting attracted to them because they make the best husbands if you find a genuine man.