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I saw this and decided to share it here. Why are our women like this.

Guys what would you do in this situation if you are the one?

Every monetary marital debt has to be paid,nature itself is in support.
So blame the deptor,not the collector.

Caaz:
Every monetary marital debt has to be paid,nature itself is in support.
So blame the deptor,not the collector.

So if I'm owing you 4k and I give you 100k you'll still expect me to pay you the 4k am owing you ba. Very well I will collect back my 100k and give you your 4k.

Gbadugbakun:
So if I'm owing you 4k and I give you 100k you'll still expect me to pay you the 4k am owing you ba. Very well I will collect back my 100k and give you your 4k.

That's why you re not my spouse, only odiegwu husbands act like you.you ve no idea the joys that comes with collecting the 4k.

Caaz:
That's why you re not my spouse, only odiegwu husbands act like you.

So you're now the victim on top of my money. Wonderful.

Caaz:
That's why you re not my spouse, only odiegwu husbands act like you.you ve no idea the joys that comes with collecting the 4k.

Mere iq no supposed know say na 96k he dash u plus the 4k making 100k
Waiting u dey prove

Gbadugbakun:
So you're now the victim on top of my money. Wonderful.

Stop spinning the narratives...the question here is....you dey owe abii you nor dey owe?


Maybe we should liken this same narrative with that girl that collected 40k from emmanuel,and failed to show up,prompting emmanuel to seek for legal redress
And she ending up paying 400k to emmanuel.

Caaz:
Stop spinning the narratives...the question here is....you dey owe abii you nor dey owe?


Maybe we should liken this same narrative with that girl that collected 40k from emmanuel,and failed to show up,prompting emmanuel to seek for legal redress
And she ending up paying 400k to emmanuel.

The 100k that was given to you is what then?

I hate entitled people

Racheal45:
Mere iq no supposed know say na 96k he dash u plus the 4k making 100k
Waiting u dey prove

Leave her alone jare. I just pray to meet girls like this. I'll jejely collect my 96k and give her her 4k make everybody rest.

Go school dem go say no. See the result.

Gbadugbakun:
Leave her alone jare. I just pray to meet girls like this. I'll jejely collect my 96k and give her her 4k make everybody rest.

Go school dem go say no. See the result.

Abi na na pipo like them get the mentality of his money is our money but my money is my money,which one is bigger 100k or 4k

Gbadugbakun:
I saw this and decided to share it here. Why are our women like this. Guys what would you do in this situation if you are the one?

Are you sure you are OK at all?

That makes zero sense! Even if I give you 10k you can not ask me about any 4k I owe you! Be it brother, sister, mother or father; I’m collecting my change from the 10k after you extract your loan. 🥴

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are OK at all?

You're the one who seems not OK.

Double0h7:
That makes zero sense! Even if I give you 10k you can not ask me about any 4k I owe you! Be it brother, sister, mother or father; I’m collecting my change from the 10k after you extract your loan. 🥴

You're a wife material.

Gbadugbakun:
➜You're the one who seems not OK.

The one insisting that a woman who gets money due her, referred in this case as pocket money, should not expect a loan owed her to be paid back is clearly the one who probably has a couple of loose nuts somewhere. 🙄🙄

If your Oga borrowed Naira 4000 from you, do you write off the loan amount because he has handed you your salary/pay at the end of that month?

Kobojunkie:
The one insisting that a woman who gets money due her, referred in this case as pocket money, should not expect a loan owed her to be paid back is clearly the one who probably has a couple of loose nuts somewhere. 🙄🙄

If your Oga borrowed Naira 4000 from you, do you write off the loan amount because he has handed you your salary/pay at the end of that month?

you are not wise junkie.

We are talking about husband and wife here not a boss and his staff

Ok now, if your oga borrowed 4k from you and later gifted you 100k, that's not your salary, do you still ask him for the 4k?

Because if you do and I am your boss, I will relieve you of your duty the next day.


Now a husband has given a wife 200k for feeding, which she may not exhaust, and extra 100k for her own upkeep, if she dares ask for 4k, she's an ungrateful and irresponsible wife, as the husband, I won't even talk plenty, I will give her the 4k.

But she's never getting 100k as her personal upkeep again, neither would I ever ask her for any money.


What level of entitlement mentality is that?

Caaz:
That's why you re not my spouse, only odiegwu husbands act like you.you ve no idea the joys that comes with collecting the 4k.

Everyday I see the benefits of staying single and peaceful

Op forget. woman dey, ingrates dey,leeches dey, wife dey, bride sef dey join.
To get a desired outcome na 15odds. Stake responsibly

Maybe he for just tell the woman...

I dey give you 100k so just deduct that 4k I owe you so keep 96 for yourself since the maths is too complex for her fish bran to process he soppose to help her out!

Even if she wan ask for that 4k because she dey stingy, wicked and rigid na the right time to ask be that?

Some women never appreciate any effort you do for them o.

Na this kind woman go later ask the man what have you ever done for me?

Oga next time, ask am if you dey owe am any money b4 u give am.

Racheal45:
Mere iq no supposed know say na 96k he dash u plus the 4k making 100k
Waiting u dey prove

brother wetin happen?
so because person no get sense na why you wan kill am? na so you dey do?

Gadafii:
✓ you are not wise junkie. We are talking about husband and wife here not a boss and his staff
✓ Ok now, if your oga borrowed 4k from you and later gifted you 100k, that's not your salary, do you still ask him for the 4k?
✓ Because if you do and I am your boss, I will relieve you of your duty the next day.
✓ Now a husband has given a wife 200k for feeding, which she may not exhaust, and extra 100k for her own upkeep, if she dares ask for 4k, she's an ungrateful and irresponsible wife, as the husband, I won't even talk plenty, I will give her the 4k.
But she's never getting 100k as her personal upkeep again, neither would I ever ask her for any money.
What level of entitlement mentality is that?

1 So, you think a husband does a wife a favor when he gives her money for her own upkeep in the relationship while he obviously takes out money for his own upkeep in the relationship as well?

2. Gifted? You think that money a husband gives his wife for her upkeep is a gift? Are you certain you are OK? So, when your parentis gave you allowance as a child, you regarded that as a gift?

3. I wouldn't want to work with an incompetent individual who does not realize that loans are meant to be repaid, not wiggled out of because because I also get paid a deserved allowance/ salary/bonus.

4. I honestly blame women who engage little minded individuals in the name of marriage. The situation is almost guaranteed to end up pathetic one for them 😩

imagine a man thinking the allowance he gives his own wife is more a gift than payment she deserves for her part in the marriage;the same man will have no problems giving himself all the allowance he desires by the way, all while considering it pay deserved for his own efforts.😩😩😩😩

Racheal45:
Mere iq no supposed know say na 96k he dash u plus the 4k making 100k
Waiting u dey prove

Monthly allowance, for a partner in the marriage, no be dash money same as the allowance the man gives himself each salary, is also not dash money. It is more of a wage of sorts for all the efforts put in for that period. And yes, he out to pay back any loans he took from his wife in addition.

Kobojunkie:
He monthly allowance as a partner in the marriage no be dash money same as his allowance is also not dash money. It is more of a wage of sorts from all the efforts out in for that period. And yes, he out to pay back any loans he took from his wife in addition.

Ur own talk always Dey somehow I no fit argue with u 😂😂😂😂

Racheal45:
Ur own talk always Dey somehow I no fit argue with u 😂😂😂😂

Maybe it is because you have never really considered marriage for what it really is, an agreement between two individuals...a partnership where responsibilities as well as dividends are meant to be shared.

The allowance a man gets from his monthly salary== made possible by his wife taking care of all domestic aspects of his relationship -- is not dash money; the allowance a wife gets from that same salary is also not dash money.

Caaz:
That's why you re not my spouse, only odiegwu husbands act like you.you ve no idea the joys that comes with collecting the 4k.

That's greediness and insensitivity

Rexymania:
✓ That's greediness and insensitivity

Getting back a loan is greediness and insensitivity? How?

Kobojunkie:
Getting back a loan is greediness and insensitivity? How?

When I'm giving you x10 of what you be borrowed me?

Rexymania:
✓ When I'm giving you x10 of what you be borrowed me?

You are giving 10 x that I don't deserve or 10 x that is rightfully mine to have, which one?

When your parents gave you upkeep/pocket money/allowance to use as you pleased each month, did you consider that money you did not deserve to have or money that was rightfully yours to have?

Kobojunkie:
You are giving 10 x that I don't deserve or 10 x that is rightfully mine to have, which one?

When your parents gave you upkeep/pocket money/allowance to use as you pleased each month, did you consider that money you did not deserve to have or money that was rightfully yours to have?

After stocking the house with food? Any money given to you could be optional