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I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Which kinda wahala be this? No wonder men die early

To nack you two by two from this place the hungry me
This must be a fabricated story sha,
if not, if it easy why can't you find your way down there by yourself....

Nonsensical entitled mentality

this is one of the reasons why you should avoid marrying a girl from a poor background. not your brother or uncle, but your brother inlaw, and you call what he sent to you pittance. don’t you think he has relatives and siblings he gift money as well?

Many are mad and many are roaming!!!!!

Stingy?? I don't know how so many people think, if it's that easy why don't you be at the giving side.

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

From the way you talk/feel is your Birth-Right, it means during marriage ceremony you people collected so much form him.

With this your character, if i were the man and you displayed this your character before the marriage, i would have cancelled it.

This is the reason some men don't take some of your sisters serious, because if you marry one, it means you married all family member. You guys need to change, unfortunately it's only affecting the female.

You might tell me to be stingier when you see what he does with the money I send him from Canada.

isyourboy:
CC: ubunja, martinez39, pansophist, ilegend, nd others

First and foremost, I'll like to say thank you to the above monikers particularly ubunja, for saving my grace From pussy slavery and manipulation.

The below is a screenshot of how one was trying to gold dig me.

Girls have always have their ways with me.

There are some I pay money into their account every month and they've turn into their birth right

Another nairaland girl is on my DM right now requesting for 50k Just because we've hang out once.

I've saved a lot of money since I started following ubunja theory

So for the fact that he married your sister, he should run a poorverty alleviation programme for your family. You have a lot going for yourself and you couldn't raise just 5M. You see one of the disadvantages of marrying from a poorverty stricken family?

Na him be your papa? Why your papa no establish you?

These actions of yours can end that marriage. I for one will be pulling out if I have an in law like you.

How many people you or your family don establish or dey give 50k or 100k per month?

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Congratulations! You have finally chased away your helper. Someone is even trying to give you money, you are complaining that it is small. Life is not like this o

peanutbutterr:
this is one of the reasons why you should avoid marrying a girl from a poor ground.

U can say that again.....

His own sister is now abroad....but he's not harassing her for money....but thinks it's okay to strangle another person's son...complaining that 100k is too small...

some Nigerians just think you have truckload of money because you are abroad... He's wasn't even afraid to call five million naira...

imagine the rubbish coming out of his mouth, entitlement will destroy u

if e easy run am

OP you are seriously unwell

Texcyndy:
Congratulations! You have finally chased away your helper. Someone is even trying to give you money, you are complaining that it is small. Life is not like this o

He said it’s a pittance. Lord have mercy

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

I refuse to believe that this is real.

This person is just looking for engagement!

irumole1975:
Which kinda wahala be this? No wonder men die early

I blame the man for enabling the lifestyle!

I wanted to dismiss this as trolling but I've seen a lot of people with this mentality before.

Very useless and entitled post. I have been to Canada, so I know how hard it is to find work. You act like your bro in law is Dangote when in reality he trying to survive.[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]

Troll alert!!! 🚨🚨🚨

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Nonexisting1:
I wanted to dismiss this as trolling but I've seen a lot of people with this mentality before.

When they don't engage, definitely a troll.

That man is not owing you anything, you are an ingrate. I don't know how many people you've help in your own life. Nonsense

This must be a rage post because I don't know how someone will call 50k pittance, money wey if someone dash me free now I go do fasting and prayer for the person for 1 month, some people just get weird entitlement mentality.
OP your eyes go soon clear

Bro If life was so easy you to would have your own money instead of waiting for people to send you money.
Why don't you have your own money?

Also don't you think the man too has his own actually family and relatives? You think you are the only person who is in his life?
More so, you are even from the wife's family.

When you grow up, you'll understand that it's not easy to close eyes and send people money.

Fake story to farm reactions

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

Such disgusting level of entitlement over a fellow man’s pocket.

Thank God you’re just a story teller shaaa… 😤😠

Omoh...
This man need better reset of the brain

This is rage bait.

cococandy:
He said it’s a pittance. Lord have mercy

do u really think u are blocking me?

na me no wan launch 100 moniker to subdue u. ❤️

It is fabricated story tho,so why should I be bothered

Entitled ingrate.