₦airaland Forum

Man cancels wedding after his fiancée refused to let his sister join her bridal train.

This guy was planning to get married to this girl, they had already fixed the wedding date and sent out invites, but the marriage had to be cancelled a few days to it, because his would-be wife refused his request to have one of his sisters participate as one of her bridesmaids.

Baba spoke to her for days about it, trying to convince her, because he had discussed it with his sister, but she remained adamant, he just had to end the marriage before it even began.

As a woman, why would something this trivial be an issue for you? A wedding he’s funding 💯?

https://x.com/Kasieobi_1/status/1963639626704249243?s=19

Their cup of palavar.
Do what gives you peace on the long run

Chilipepper:
➜Man cancels wedding after his fiancée refused to let his sister join her bridal train.

He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

I know one stupid mod will move this fabricated rubbish to front page.

A STUPID man for many reasons!

First, for getting married at all.
Second, for sponsoring the WHOLE wedding by himself.
Third, for ENDING a relationship on the verge of matrimonial conjoinment because the bride doesn't want to be best friends with his sister.

Finally, the LAST line of the screenshot is MANIPULATIVE.

If it were such a "trivial" matter, why did the man CANCEL the marriage.
The triviality is not exclusive to the woman.

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into her bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Why is it that anytime I see your posts I always picture you typing with one hand and puffing weed with the other one?

SeeWahala:
➜Why is it that anytime I see your posts I always picture you typing with one hand and puffing weed with the other one?

It is probably what you imagine your relatives and those around you also do that, so you quietly project it on others.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

This life no hard
Make the fiancee marry her bridesmaids while the guy marry him sister.

Nice 👍 one from the man, I support him

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into her bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

it's obvious he doesn't have a say or influence over her.

If you don't have a say or influence over your woman whether wife or wife to be, then you are a dimwit. If you are not a dimwit, Then what are you doing with such a woman?

A woman must learn to listen, go around and see what's happening to marriages and friendships where women don't listen to their men. Chaos and disaster! is all they bring to the table.

Men make una try get sense like this guy, I'm proud of him. 99% of men would have trivialized her stubbornness and disrespect and moved on with the wedding.

After marriage what next? The man will go right she will go left, the man will say stand up, she will tell him sit down. Two captains will emerge in the marriage and the roof will crash on the man.

Let her remain in her father's house.

The wife has planned naughty things to do with her friends.

The sisters is not photogenic

Even at all that, the sister can wear cloth for photo ops on the day of the wedding.

Anyhow sha

Sharp no be she dey marry you na him dey wifey am

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into her bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Na bride dey spend abi?

When it comes to traditional white weddings, aren't bridesmaids supposed to be from the bride's side?

Some people just like doing white weddings without understanding their rules and regulations, and why end your wedding plans over a Western wedding ceremony when he could've opted for an African traditional wedding instead? Imagine a British man who doesn't understand anything about African weddings cancelling his African wedding because he's having disputes with his British wife over the ceremony...

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into her bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Do you eat bridal train?..

Samantha125:
When it comes to traditional white weddings, aren't bridesmaids supposed to be from the bride's side?

Some people just like doing white weddings without understanding their rules and regulations, and why end your wedding plans over a Western wedding ceremony when he could've opted for an African traditional wedding instead? Imagine a British man who doesn't understand anything about African weddings cancelling his African wedding because he's having disputes with his British wife over the ceremony...

No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?

I'd understand... I have no reason to be going on a vacation with the people I'm not close to, I'll get bored.

My husband and I will arrange our own vacation together.

fyneboi79:
No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?

Samantha125:
I'd understand... I have no reason to be going on a vacation with the people I'm not close to, I'll get bored.

My husband and I will arrange our own vacation together.

Ok,I respect your opinion but I will also cancel the wedding because its a huge red flag.

Then you'd have saved that lady from being disrespected by your sister, clearly she'd be the one calling the shots in your matrimonial home... If you don't want your relationship or marriage to last, involve family members in your decision makings... A real man knows when to draw the line between his family members and his wife.

And ask yourself this, would your sister cancel her own white wedding for you?

fyneboi79:
Ok,I respect your opinion but I will also cancel the wedding because its a huge red flag.

Samantha125:
Then you'd have saved that lady from being disrespected by your sister, clearly she'd be the one calling the shots in your matrimonial home... If you don't want your relationship or marriage to last, involve family members in your decision makings... A real man knows when to draw the line between his family members and his wife.

And ask yourself this, would your sister cancel her own white wedding for you?

The guy also dodged a bullet .. if you can't accommodate my family then why I'm I getting married to you.... But your brothers and sisters can come and stay with us.. your brothers can join grooms men.. unwise women everywhere.

Both of them are unserious egomaniacs.

Make everybody rest

Krissjones:
I know one stupid mod will move this fabricated rubbish to front page.

It's already on front page now.

Wachu gonna do abourit?

Sounds too trivial to cause marriage cancellation, but to me, it isn't.

Although we don't have the full story, but from the little provided here, I support the man for ending it.

She is marrying into his family, and if she couldn't bend for a thing as simple as that and grant the husband's little request, then she's a potential family scatterer!

It ought not to be that deep. Anyways, I can't cry more than the bereaved

My opinion is
There is more to it than just bridal train
I have been married for years now and I can tell you that
One Question I have with the man before concluding to get married, are they not into relationship
Doe he wants to tell me he doesn't know her behaviors
For me something more complicated is at hand
We all getting married soon should work on ourself because for the man you need more absorber dealing with women
Women too need to calm down sometimes not all men take shit
Life is always a lesson

Man wey Sabi. I would have done same. This shows the resentment she has towards his family members

I smell liessssssssssssssdddxddbvcxxddffggh

They both dodged a bullet.
The lady could do better and the guy can also do better.

Save themselves A world of hurt, long term pain and Future catastrophy!

SeeWahala:
Why is it that anytime I see your posts I always picture you typing with one hand and puffing weed with the other one?

Guess you want to see Wahala 😁

A bullet dodged — his mother must be a prayer warrior!

favour32:
✓ Na bride dey spend abi?

So, because him dey spend money, all of her own efforts in making certain the ceremony goes according to plan are valueless? 🥱🥱🥱

This is madness...

This is why I like the traditional/court wedding system. It will save you of many stresses such as emotional, mental, physical and even trust issues.

Just a ceremony of few hours or a day thing depending on the show off from both ends.

Why is contract wedding always peaceful?