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Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by dederocs(m): 4:21am On Sep 06, 2025
Nigerian laws and judiciary are too lenient with killers, people kill for fun, in America you will be roasted on the chair.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by oladipuposadeeq(m): 4:43am On Sep 06, 2025
PepeXKermit:
When this one spend enough time for prison, hom go def regret him actions. Lol
some bastards no just send ooooooo I don't know if it's sumtin about their mental state. Now he had cut short the life of a beautiful lady that's why we must try to observe who we dey do relationship with make e no be werey
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Kalulu44: 4:46am On Sep 06, 2025
I'm still wondering how people have the mind to take the life of someone, especially when the victims will be pleading for mercy and begging for his life.
I'm in my early 40s, I have never killed a chicken that I most times eat. The first time I hit someone while fighting and the person bled, I rmbr how I was vividly shaken when I saw blood coming out from his eyelid.
Then I imagine killers and murderers of their fellow human beings how they feel?
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by 9japride(m): 4:50am On Sep 06, 2025
God1000:
We call on every son and daughter of Igede to rise and lend their voice to this painful tragedy.


https://www.facebook.com/100093140412130/posts/pfbid0stbLBrkMJ6CPcMdJYN1P26qVWKbYBYfnBFnLyWbFpkhPChUVupc7SYCgcFYmzyiVl/?app=fbl
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Why do most ladies date guys with questionable characters? I feel in some cases they are trying to escape the hardship in the country.
Ladies should ensure to spot a guy's behaviour from the beginning of getting to know each other.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by kingsavage: 5:25am On Sep 06, 2025
Kalulu44:
I'm still wondering how people have the mind to take the life of someone, especially when the victims will be pleading for mercy and begging for his life.
I'm in my early 40s, I have never killed a chicken that I most times eat. The first time I hit someone while fighting and the person bled, I rmbr how I was vividly shaken when I saw blood coming out from his eyelid.
Then I imagine killers and murderers of their fellow human beings how they feel?
are you Igbo?
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by just4fun(m): 6:22am On Sep 06, 2025
People get mind ooooo.

Can't people move on when the game is over ?
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Walai(m): 6:25am On Sep 06, 2025
No be everybody get the mental strength to move on.
Check my previous thread I created around 2021 that was on front page. A girl I invested heavily on hoping to marry her, already met her widowed mom and even empowered her mom's business. Brought them out of their face me I slap you house and rented a two bedroom then for them. This same girl started dating and sleeping with an abroad returnee who promised her marriage which turned out a scam. Her mom is even aware and I didn't know what was going on because I was out of town then.
I nearly ran mad that year. Funny enough, it was nairaland that saved me through Ubunja thread.
Relationship is not for the weak seriously


jaxxy:
All these weak ass men who can't move on in peace
and live and let live.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by grandstar(m): 6:54am On Sep 06, 2025
Talkisneeded:
Hmmm,let’s it gain more traction so we can have proper information…

You said no one will have her,and you think killing her is the right thing…
I no believe
You have psychos outside o!

Nevertheless, nothing justifies what he did whether she abort hin pikin, slap hin mama, chop his yahoo wey he tell am make she collect from maga etc.

Well, the last one dey one kind sha. Nevertheless, it went too far!
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by grandstar(m): 6:57am On Sep 06, 2025
Psalmistproject:
80% the people in eko are spiritually manipulated 24/7 the state is not for the weak.
I think this happened in Benue State
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Kalulu44: 7:00am On Sep 06, 2025
kingsavage:
are you Igbo?
Yes, why do you ask?
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by loadman: 7:09am On Sep 06, 2025
Wicked boy,your eye go open for prison.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:26am On Sep 06, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

Stop investing in a relationship so it can be very easy for you to move on after break up. Let the woman be the one to invest in that relationship instead. Women find it extremely easily to move on in relationships because they invested absolutely nothing. This is exactly why you see these simps over reacting when a woman ends relationships with them.
This is the root cause of these nonsense reactions, don't know why dudes do these investments. Relationship is not an investment it's a time to know someone not time to spend your last dime in her. I once dated a broke girl and I watched how these will lead, after 3 months she broke up because she taught I was in same league as her because I brought myself down to know details about her outside my money influence. Imagine if I had seen her as a broker and invested 10m to set up a business for her grin, moving on would have been so bad because of the money. Men keep your money in your pockets it will save you some day
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:32am On Sep 06, 2025
Scarrr:
Where Una dey see psychos date? Maybe he get money Sha,🥱
They are not usually psychos in the first place, some of these dudes just spend carelessly on women thinking that's how the relationship should continue forever.

Some people go into debt just to satisfy a woman and then she leaves, if you haven't been in this scenario and then walk away then you won't know what these f********l*******sh men go through. Don't spend on a woman, she is an adult tell her to go get a job. Gifting is occasional and it's both ways anything short of this run away.

Most men don't get mentored properly by their fathers as regards female manipulations and how to guard their finances as men that's why all these nonsense pop I the society
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:35am On Sep 06, 2025
greatiyk4u:
Nawa ooooo

Meanwhile, how far Chidimma case of that year?....any update?
That girl is in prison, her offense is not a bailable one. She will be there till the judge pronounce his judgement, she is done for life, the evidence is against her.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by jaxxy(m):
Walai:
No be everybody get the mental strength to move on.
Check my previous thread I created around 2021 that was on front page. A girl I invested heavily on hoping to marry her, already met her widowed mom and even empowered her mom's business. Brought them out of their face me I slap you house and rented a two bedroom then for them. This same girl started dating and sleeping with an abroad returnee who promised her marriage which turned out a scam. Her mom is even aware and I didn't know what was going on because I was out of town then.
I nearly ran mad that year. Funny enough, it was nairaland that saved me through Ubunja thread.
Relationship is not for the weak seriously
yes I totally understand that aspect when u invest so much in someone and don't expect any issues but then something ridiculous pops up. it's devastating but u have to know or learn how to navigate the waters rather than self destruct or harm the person or urself.

it's hard but it's necessary. But also it's equally important to know how people can act and be more cautious or careful who u invest in. U will be surprised how different from u people think. We all learn from experiences and grow.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by ExudeLoveToAll: 8:43am On Sep 06, 2025
jaxxy:
Some relationships the women invest more than the men both financially and emotionally and they still can't move on and do crazy things like this.

i personally think it has little to do what anything they invest financially but their lack of emotional balance and character disorder.
Cases abound on women doing more, my classmate in the University got disfigured because his brothers ex girlfriend poured acid on him thinking his brother was the one coming for the door, I watched the story on the news and we later became coursemates.

Most of these things are not coming from emotional balance or character disorder is out of frustration of seeing themselves as been used by the partner. Anyone who spends or invest the most usually don't break up relationships it is the liability in the relationship that do that the most making the other person go gaga.

I don't like to be tested even if I am one of the most peaceful people in the world, I will protect my resources at all times and can only gift a partner what I can afford to ignore and it must be reciprocated else I'm out. Don't cut out for these romance scam people do in form of relationships.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by ekhai(m): 9:04am On Sep 06, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

Stop investing in a relationship so it can be very easy for you to move on after break up. Let the woman be the one to invest in that relationship instead. Women find it extremely easily to move on in relationships because they invested absolutely nothing. This is exactly why you see these simps over reacting when a woman ends relationships with them.
YOU'RE NOT FAR FROM THE TRUTH.
YOUR ADVICE IS GOOD FOR GEH GEH UNIVERSITY. MEN MUST GO TO THAT SCHOOL TO LEARN OOOOOO.
IT'S DISHEARTENING TO SPEND MUCH ON A LADY AND SHE WILL FRUSTRATE YOU OUT OF HER LIFE.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Spinflow: 9:16am On Sep 06, 2025
Maybe he paid for her school fees through Uni and she decided to move on without him. Let us get the full story fess.
God1000:
We call on every son and daughter of Igede to rise and lend their voice to this painful tragedy.


https://www.facebook.com/100093140412130/posts/pfbid0stbLBrkMJ6CPcMdJYN1P26qVWKbYBYfnBFnLyWbFpkhPChUVupc7SYCgcFYmzyiVl/?app=fbl
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by mdsne(m): 9:16am On Sep 06, 2025
God1000:
We call on every son and daughter of Igede to rise and lend their voice to this painful tragedy.


https://www.facebook.com/100093140412130/posts/pfbid0stbLBrkMJ6CPcMdJYN1P26qVWKbYBYfnBFnLyWbFpkhPChUVupc7SYCgcFYmzyiVl/?app=fbl
The guy invest in the relationship and now he cant do without her so he kpai her right away..........................................


RIP to the dead


this suppose to be eye opener for all this ladies that use to dump guys after seeing uncompatible future but they are blind when the guy is spending all his hard earned labour, money and emotion.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Dada4me: 9:28am On Sep 06, 2025
Justice would have been meaningful to me if she was still alive.

It's unfortunate.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by jaxxy(m): 9:43am On Sep 06, 2025
ExudeLoveToAll:
Cases abound on women doing more, my classmate in the University got disfigured because his brothers ex girlfriend poured acid on him thinking his brother was the one coming for the door, I watched the story on the news and we later became coursemates.

Most of these things are not coming from emotional balance or character disorder is out of frustration of seeing themselves as been used by the partner. Anyone who spends or invest the most usually don't break up relationships it is the liability in the relationship that do that the most making the other person go gaga.

I don't like to be tested even if I am one of the most peaceful people in the world, I will protect my resources at all times and can only gift a partner what I can afford to ignore and it must be reciprocated else I'm out. Don't cut out for these romance scam people do in form of relationships.
Frustration to the point of hurting urself and others is already a form of disorder.

Millions of people invest at different levels in a relationship and lose out and move on. To act crazy like this guy or ur friends brothers ex is not normal. They are sick.

Many people are frustrated but not doing anything crazy.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Scarrr: 9:48am On Sep 06, 2025
ExudeLoveToAll:
They are not usually psychos in the first place, some of these dudes just spend carelessly on women thinking that's how the relationship should continue forever.

Some people go into debt just to satisfy a woman and then she leaves, if you haven't been in this scenario and then walk away then you won't know what these f********l*******sh men go through. Don't spend on a woman, she is an adult tell her to go get a job. Gifting is occasional and it's both ways anything short of this run away.

Most men don't get mentored properly by their fathers as regards female manipulations and how to guard their finances as men that's why all these nonsense pop I the society
Well you're absolutely right 👍
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by darichlife(m): 9:54am On Sep 06, 2025
The girl already knew he was a psycho but she kept letting him sort her bills and all that, now she is doing well for herself and wants to pull out man got angry and took her life.

If you can't let it go don't invest in a lady.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Judgesledge(m): 10:15am On Sep 06, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
Dear men,

Stop investing in a relationship so it can be very easy for you to move on after break up. Let the woman be the one to invest in that relationship instead. Women find it extremely easily to move on in relationships because they invested absolutely nothing. This is exactly why you see these simps over reacting when a woman ends relationships with them.
Sure Bro, quite a lot of sense in what you are saying, but every relationship needs a form of investment one way or the other for it to work, but the reality is that there's always the possibility one could loose what we value most at anytime, with this realisation when shit eventually happens,we move on, won't be easy though, but the mental readiness is already in place to deal with it
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by WINDSOW(m): 10:42am On Sep 06, 2025
Jeffy1206:
na she tell you say he sponsored her for school?
Common sense suppose tell you na
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Bimpe29(m): 11:20am On Sep 06, 2025
Inna lillahi wa ina ilehi rajiun!

That was pathetically tragic.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Ezmans: 11:27am On Sep 06, 2025
zicoy6k:
This is so painful to read.A young woman with dreams, cut down in such a cruel and senseless way. Love is not by force. No one has the right to take another person’s life simply because they said no. Enough is enough. We must all raise our voices until Deborah gets the justice she deserves. The authorities must not sweep this one under the carpet. May God comfort her family and may her soul rest in peace.
Are you sure litex didn't invest in Deborah?
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by OOLUSEG(m): 11:38am On Sep 06, 2025
essentialone1:
Ladies,

Stop collecting or accepting money and gifts if you will not sleep with him.
Stop collecting or accepting money and gifts if you will not marry him
Stop collecting or accepting money and gifts if you will not date him.
Stop collecting or accepting money and gifts if you will not go out with him.

To be forewarned...
Madness is real...☠️💀😏
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by OOLUSEG(m): 11:41am On Sep 06, 2025
mdsne:
The guy invest in the relationship and now he cant do without her so he kpai her right away..........................................


RIP to the dead


this suppose to be eye opener for all this ladies that use to dump guys after seeing uncompatible future but they are blind when the guy is spending all his hard earned labour, money and emotion.
Common sense= zero 🤐😞
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by fm7070: 12:16pm On Sep 06, 2025
There is more to this than it meets the eyes. Ladies are terrible in terms of extortion, manipulation, parasite, and dumping.
Most times failed to realise that people have different in handling sudden break up, etc.
Lord have mercy on everyone.
Re: Deborah Moses: Benue Lady Murdered By Ex-boyfriend In Lagos by Yong4ever(m): 1:08pm On Sep 06, 2025
God1000:
We call on every son and daughter of Igede to rise and lend their voice to this painful tragedy.


https://www.facebook.com/100093140412130/posts/pfbid0stbLBrkMJ6CPcMdJYN1P26qVWKbYBYfnBFnLyWbFpkhPChUVupc7SYCgcFYmzyiVl/?app=fbl
so pathetic, I was on duty when they brought her to Lasuth unalive,we wish we could resuscitate her but she had no life in her,may her soul rest well but the culprit must not live.
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