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Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by ReacherSaidNoth: 5:15pm On Sep 06, 2025
I block these made up engagement farming nonsense on Twitter, now I've to see them here too?
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by MrIcredible: 5:15pm On Sep 06, 2025
Good.

He saw the red flag and escaped.

Imagine the nonsense and audacity.

These are the kind of intolerant wives that won't let their mother in-laws come around their husbands house.
Yet, they want to eat the fruit of their labour when they have their own son...

IMPOSSIBLE!
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by obayendo1010(m): 5:16pm On Sep 06, 2025
Two petty people, best they didn't marry than filing for divorce.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Fekumzi123: 5:16pm On Sep 06, 2025
Nice one bro.
She can't love you and not respect your sister.
She didn't love and respect you in the first place. The earlier the better.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Nehyooh(m):
Ahmed0336:
This life no hard
Make the fiancee marry her bridesmaids while the guy marry him sister.
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Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by chigo32: 5:17pm On Sep 06, 2025
To be sincere with u, d man did d best thing. Family is d best thing, d bride rejected his sister to be one of her bridemaids, which means Wen he get married to her, she will reject his family in the future . D guy did d but thing
Namaster:
A STUPID man for many reasons!

First, for getting married at all.
Second, for sponsoring the WHOLE wedding by himself.
Third, for ENDING a relationship on the verge of matrimonial conjoinment because the bride doesn't want to be best friends with his sister.

Finally, the LAST line of the screenshot is MANIPULATIVE.

If it were such a "trivial" matter, why did the man CANCEL the marriage.
The triviality is not exclusive to the woman.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by wellmax(m): 5:22pm On Sep 06, 2025
Samantha125:
When it comes to traditional white weddings, aren't bridesmaids supposed to be from the bride's side?

Some people just like doing white weddings without understanding their rules and regulations, and why end your wedding plans over a Western wedding ceremony when he could've opted for an African traditional wedding instead? Imagine a British man who doesn't understand anything about African weddings cancelling his African wedding because he's having disputes with his British wife over the ceremony... grin grin grin
You can come back with this comparison after any African country colonised Britain.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Onyiiobi7735(m): 5:24pm On Sep 06, 2025
The guy actually dodged a long range intercontinental ballistic missile.
He's very lucky and should be thanking God for it.
This is the type of wife who would vehemently opposed her husband's family visiting for a period of time.
And she would do this, bearing the disgusting notion that they came to finish her husband's money.
She would do all sorts of things to make them uncomfortable in the house and induce their departure.
If she doesn't succeed,she would go to the extreme_Diabolical,to bring the husband under her command and use him to drive his family away.
He really dodged a missile.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:24pm On Sep 06, 2025
Probably the sister did something terrible to her making her not to forgive her
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by ProsperoPips: 5:24pm On Sep 06, 2025
Chilipepper:
Man cancels wedding after his fiancée refused to let his sister join her bridal train.



https://x.com/Kasieobi_1/status/1963639626704249243?s=19[/quote]If na true Tori, the dude should be applauded

It may look trivial but e carry weight.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Bimpe29(m): 5:29pm On Sep 06, 2025
In a serious matter like marriage, such trivial issues shouldn’t have been allowed to disrupt the wedding
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by ddippset(m): 5:29pm On Sep 06, 2025
The guy deserves an award.

The woman was a red red red flag.

If you love and respect your man enough, you would indulge him in this very very simple request...
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by advanceDNA: 5:30pm On Sep 06, 2025
fyneboi79:
No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?
You shalayé too much......
Trying to make a woman think rationally??. Good luck with that.. cool
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Jughead29: 5:30pm On Sep 06, 2025
You have not yet married, but already telling the man that he has no say?

Respect start from before the wedding.... And thank God for the low brain of a woman.... They'll always mistakenly shows their red flag or flags
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Kobojunkie: 5:32pm On Sep 06, 2025
Bimpe29:
In a serious matter like marriage, such trivial issues shouldn’t have been allowed to disrupt the wedding
It isn't trivial. This was an attempt by the man to exert control over the woman's choices. That is a red flag for any woman out there. undecided
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Kobojunkie: 5:33pm On Sep 06, 2025
fyneboi79:
No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?
He didn't want accommodation but control. That much is confirmed by the fact that he went on to cancel. undecided
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Kobojunkie: 5:34pm On Sep 06, 2025
Jughead29:
➜You have not yet married, but already telling the man that he has no say? Respect start from before the wedding.... And thank God for the low brain of a woman.... They'll always mistakenly shows their red flag or flags
Have a say or control her choices? 🥱🥱🥱🥱
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by ogidialagbo1(m): 5:36pm On Sep 06, 2025
They're both not serious....


No matter what you do ,don't neglect your Health
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by SeeWahala: 5:37pm On Sep 06, 2025
odeku457:
Guess you want to see Wahala 😁
My broda, I dey like give the woman better chance ajē grin
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by tollyboy5(m): 5:37pm On Sep 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky. grin
Don't be partial. He dodged a bullet. She missed a good man, because I wonder why a man will fund a wedding at 💯 and still pay bride price?
Is she disabled or what?
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by pongwa(m): 5:40pm On Sep 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky. Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that. grin
wetin this one dey talk? Are you married?
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by tollyboy5(m): 5:41pm On Sep 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
It is probably what you imagine your relatives and those around you also do that, so you quietly project it on others. undecided

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that. sad
Why not put it this way. Women stop collecting bride price. Pay for Dowry instead and fund your wedding 💯.
Don't allow any man to decide how you plan your wedding.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by grandstar(m): 5:41pm On Sep 06, 2025
I fully support him.

It is a red flag. She should see his sister as hers.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by lonelydora: 5:41pm On Sep 06, 2025
Very petty people.

But God just saved that man oo.

The would-be wife would have showed him shege. Why marry a man you won't be in good terms with his siblings.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Lifestone(m): 5:42pm On Sep 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky. Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that. grin
So why cant i have input into the Bridal train? the Lady is stubborn and arrogant. This is not about a controlling husband, this is about an arrogant Lady that cant yield just one spot of the Train to her husband. She can go marry herself because almost 💯 men will act the same way this guy acted. I will surely do.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Kobojunkie: 5:42pm On Sep 06, 2025
tollyboy5:
➜Don't be partial. He dodged a bullet. She missed a good man,
➜ because I wonder why a man will fund a wedding at 💯 and still pay bride price? Is she disabled or what?
A controlling man is never a good man for a woman. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on why that is always true. A controlling man ends up reducing the woman he is in a relationship with to a husk of a human. undecided

2. He paid for it; therefore, all of her efforts she put into making sure the ceremony he paid for turns out the best, is to be considered a useless effort? Many Nigerian women struggle with seriously low self-esteem, and that is why a whole load of them end up with men who reason like you do. Very sad situation indeed. undecided
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by demoBaba: 5:43pm On Sep 06, 2025
Namaster:
A STUPID man for many reasons!

First, for getting married at all.
Second, for sponsoring the WHOLE wedding by himself.
Third, for ENDING a relationship on the verge of matrimonial conjoinment because the bride doesn't want to be best friends with his sister.

Finally, the LAST line of the screenshot is MANIPULATIVE.

If it were such a "trivial" matter, why did the man CANCEL the marriage.
The triviality is not exclusive to the woman.
You wouldn't understand it, it's not present issues but future issues, I don't see reason why the wife to be can't allow his request. Even to pretend that everything is fine.
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by LOVEGINO(m): 5:44pm On Sep 06, 2025
Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky. Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that. grin
lol! Baba na confirm red flag be dis. She no get any business with the groom family 🤣 run oooo
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Lifestone(m): 5:44pm On Sep 06, 2025
TOPCRUISE:
Probably the sister did something terrible to her making her not to forgive her
If she couldn't concede in things as trivial as this, what happens with big decisions
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Sep 06, 2025
tollyboy5:
➜Why not put it this way. Women stop collecting bride price. Pay for Dowry instead and fund your wedding 💯.
➜Don't allow any man to decide how you plan your wedding.
1. The bride price system was set up by men as payment from other men, supposedly for their efforts in raising women for men. undecided

The woman practically gets nothing from the bride price system, as she is instead the product exchanged in the process. Sad, huh? undecided

2. Exactly! That is why it is good that this one cancelled the wedding so she can go find herself a man who would not encroach on even the little freedoms she has in the process. undecided
Re: Man Cancels Wedding After His Fiancée Refused To Let His Sister Join Her Bridal by MaziObinnaokija: 5:47pm On Sep 06, 2025
cool Nah real man be that.Dnt tolerate NONSENSE/RUBBISH. Nah wife like this go deny hubby family to visit/spend time with their brother.She'll frustrate u/make life unbearable for u..Her type will 🔐 🔒 her kitchen 🚪/won't allow your bro to assist u.GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH
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