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"Leave my house. I can't take care of you guys anymore. Am tired" - 21yr old girl taking care of her siblings chase them out

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2aS7A_O2KM

A 21yrs old sheltering and feeding 4 grown-ups is not easy in these current administration. They should not disrespect her cos she has the right to her apartment and mental health. Though I pray they resolve the issue amicably so as not to break the family bond.
Her source of money is a mystery for now.

What does she do for a living ?

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JoeRizzla:
What does she do for a living ? ...

Does it matter what she does for a living when she is not the parent to those kids and is herself a child in need of parents to care for her?

In Germany where I live... 21yr olds take 100% charge and responsibility for their lives....

Hmmm life get many phases, good, bad, fun, sad et al depend on which phase you face, for this it will be difficult for me to blame the grown old men living under the authority of their 21 years old younger sister.

The lady should try to calm down, that “Phase” isn’t stable and may face another person today (not even tomorrow).

The matter get as e be abeg .. not easy to judge....


Whether she feeds them or not, they should accord her some respects, accomodating one person sef is not easy, not to talk of 3... Judging from that video, that tall guy is the eldest, and he's trying to exhibit that senior bro ego, dude needs to calm down for whoever is paying the bills, if he enter street go face the cold reality for like 3 months alone, then he would know the weight of what that little girl is doing....



Secondly, make she sef calm down oo, tables do turn oo... I'm not even talking about her getting poor while her siblings becomes rich, no, dat wan na Nigerian movie.. but I can sense from her utterances, that feeling that one gets when getting it young, I mean that puff up feelings that make you feel on top of the world.... She shouldn't break the bond between them just because of minor issues that can be addressed with patience....


Like someone said, her mental health is important, yes that's true, she can reset their brain by pretending to go broke, and then share the bills accordingly to everyone of them except the last born who's under age, I believe by then, everybody go calm down when she keeps reminding them daily of how the landlord will throw them out in few months if they are unable to pay rent...

Btw, e no really concern me tho, but I go like know how she dey make her money that she's able to shelter 3 grown ups....

Na siblings fight dey hot pass. But before 2days they will become friends again

I support her.

Make everybody go Answer his father name 🤒

I was at a place yesterday and noticed a 3-year-old little girl and her few-years-older sister being served food. I was there to see their grandma. The younger one got drinking water for herself but the elder one didn’t. When the elder sister requested some water, the younger one refused, throwing tantrums. The elder sister cried and went inside to report to someone. Next thing, the little sister intentionally emptied the entire water on the floor and continued eating.

I have a little son, maybe a few months younger, and if he did that I would really pay attention to his temperament early, that not an healthy behavior.
Respect begets respect. I’m even surprised they all moved in and weren’t just visiting. That’s too much responsibility for a young person of such age. People don’t realize how stressful it is to be a provider. For them interrupting the dad in itself, it not respectful. Hopefully they learnt there lessons and amicably learn to dilute tension but that night abey make them move. Hotel dey outside, people they have supported too dey outside make they call them.

Buziness101:
In Germany where I live... 21yr olds take 100% charge and responsibility for their lives....

Listen to Yourself . Is Germany the same with Nigeria?

I just watched the video and what I can deduce from it is:
1. For three of her siblings to be against her, means the fault is from the girl recording the video.
2. The younger brother comment "money that is not your own" means that it's not the girl that really owns the money she is using to oppress her siblings.
I don't know what is the essence of recording this video, for inside family issue that can just be resolved.
All this girls sef small money Don enter hand,now they are feeling like God, something men Dey do on a steady we nor Dey see am for social media😕😟

Can't judge as I don't know the genesis of the crisis.

allen113:
Can't judge as I don't know the genesis of the crisis.

Camera and Skits

Their yanga must have been too much for her.

I see it as tough love and in years to come, all will appreciate it.

It's a case of cousins, HK. Probably hosted them for a joint content production before responsibilities choke.
I also think it's a case of step siblings 🤷🏿

The siblings are so ungrateful and lazy. She should just throw them out already.

She done tire. At that age with all the pressure. Make we dey feel for ourselves.

Na dem....when money is involved den no dey look face , siblings sef far, den go do worse to their parents 😂

This thing wey I dey look so, no be skit? They might be trying to trend

Stupid content for us to watch. this is the new norm now. faking stories

What does she do for a living?

Why is there a camera to record this?

maybe a content or skit

Grown ass men expecting a very young lady to take care of them

Once you live under a person's roof and eat his/her food you must accord the person some respect

Lol....she is right na. E easy to dey feed 4 adults?? 1 person feeding alone in this tinubulation na joke

Buziness101:
In Germany where I live... 21yr olds take 100% charge and responsibility for their lives....

Nigeria go humble you my brother...35 years old is struggling to leave his father's house here.

What is a 21 year old doing to be able to house 4 siblings if no be olosho work she dey do.

Nnkan nbe. Aye ti baje. Omo 21 years lo n feed awon to ku.