I know that feminism is the greatest cause of divorces in Nigeria at the moment. One of the most recent being the marriage of Commediene Princess which just hit the rocks. Well a little digging has confirmed that none of the world renowned feminists have a great marriage. Most end up as Lesbians or Never married women or multiple divorces. What is wrong with feminism? THERE IS NO SUCCESSFULLY MARRIED FEMINIST OUT THERE. IT IS A CHOICE LADIES. IT IS EITHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR YOU ARE A FEMINIST. THE BALL IS IN YOUR COURT.

Is Princess a feminist? The fact that her marriage broke up doesn't mean she's a feminist. Stop associating divorce to feminism and vice versa.

No one has a great marriage. We all have to make it work, so ur question is null and void

lertee: Is Princess a feminist? The fact that her marriage broke up doesn't mean she's a feminist. Stop associating divorce to feminism and vice versa.

I take this to mean there is none, right?

4teelaw: No one has a great marriage. We all have to make it work, so ur question is null and void

This post is just to show the injurious nature of feminism to marriage. And your post just prove me right. A lot of people have great marriages until feminist ideologies show up!

U can't eat ur cake and have it.

sunkoye: U can't eat ur cake and have it.

Don't mind feminists. They want to eat their cake and still have it. Their ideologies have ensured that none of them can stay in a marital relationship. Most end up as Lesbians and never married women or have multiple divorces to their name.

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Beyonce Knowle.

Me!!!!!
Infact corrrrrrrrrrrrrrect men can't get enough of me. . . . ! ASK THEM!
I don't mean cyber RIFF-RAFFS O. . .GO AND ASK NA!

Did you see me in DIE-VORCE COURT?

Being loved is a gift. . .YOU HAVE TO BE BLESSED WITH IT. . . BECAUSE YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR HEART IS ACCESSIBLE WITH WARMTH! NO MAN WANTS A COLD FISH IN BED OR OUT OF BED!!!!!

I wish I could disclose the words I received this morning from ONE of my 2 men wanting to MARRY ME THE MOMENT I SAY YES.
I will celebrate a new marriage before I leave my old one. . . trust moi! MU HA HA HA HA HA. . . ALWAYS HAVE!
MY MADNESS IS THE LEAST OF THEIR WORRIES. . . they ALL LOVE ME. . . JUST THAT WAY!
THE OLDER I GET. . .THE MORE IN DEMAND I GET.
I AM THE KIND OF WOMAN MEN WANT TO GROW OLD WITH! THEY TELL ME SO. . . A REAL WIFE!!!!

I am not boasting. . . I only pity my husband. . .because he will lose a daaaamn good wife who had his BACK AND FRONT ALWAYS.
But the competition is stiff and stiffling. . . I LOOOOOVE TOO MANY GOOOOOOOOOOD AND WEALTHY MEN TOO!

PDP FOR EVER JARE. . . UP DELTA STATE NIGERIA!!!!! THE HOME OF ALL THE LOVES OF MY LIFE!!!!

*Please. . . I have NOT killed ANY of my MEN. . . .THEY ARE ALL ALIVE AND WELL. . . I always leave them in good hands too*

Pleaaaaaaaase. . . If you are in demand as a feminist. . .SHARE YOUR TESTIMONIES.
No fake stories please.
I think we are tired of those on NL!

THIS IS NOT A COMPETITION FOR CYBER RIFF-RAFFS. . . NL MGBEKES AND ALATIKAS included. . . . !!!!
Thank you!

Fallotti: Me!!!!!
Infact corrrrrrrrrrrrrrect men can't get enough of me. . . . ! ASK THEM!
I don't mean cyber RIFF-RAFFS O. . .GO AND ASK NA!

Did you see me in DIE-VORCE COURT?

Being loved is a gift. . .YOU HAVE TO BE BLESSED WITH IT. . . BECAUSE YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR HEART IS ACCESSIBLE WITH WARMTH! NO MAN WANTS A COLD FISH IN BED OR OUT OF BED!!!!!

I wish I could disclose the words I received this morning from ONE of my 2 men wanting to MARRY ME THE MOMENT I SAY YES.
I will celebrate a new marriage before I leave my old one. . . trust moi! MU HA HA HA HA HA. . . ALWAYS HAVE!
MY MADNESS IS THE LEAST OF THEIR WORRIES. . . they ALL LOVE ME. . . JUST THAT WAY!
THE OLDER I GET. . .THE MORE IN DEMAND I GET.
I AM THE KIND OF WOMAN MEN WANT TO GROW OLD WITH! THEY TELL ME SO. . . A REAL WIFE!!!!

I am not boasting. . . I only pity my husband. . .because he will lose a daaaamn good wife who had his BACK AND FRONT ALWAYS.
But the competition is stiff and stiffling. . . I LOOOOOVE TOO MANY GOOOOOOOOOOD AND WEALTHY MEN TOO!

PDP FOR EVER JARE. . . UP DELTA STATE NIGERIA!!!!! THE HOME OF ALL THE LOVES OF MY LIFE!!!!

Wow love your style and up delta state lol

flawless..S:
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Beyonce Knowle.

Great try! However these are not mainstream feminists. I will shortly quote excerpts from Chinamanda adichie's speech. You be the judge.

"We must raise our daughters differently. We must also raise our sons differently. We are doing grave disservice to boys in how we raise them. We stifle the humanity of boys. We define masculinity in a very narrow way. Masculinity becomes this hard, small cage and we put boys inside the cage.

WE TEACH BOYS TO BE AFRAID OF FEAR. We teach boys to be afraid of weakness, of vulnerability. We teach them to mask their true selves, because they have to be, in Nigeria's speak, a hard man.

What if both boys and girls were raised not to link masculinity with money. What if the attitude was not that the boy has to pay, but rather, whoever has more should pay. Of course because of the historical advantage, it is mostly men who will have more today; but if we start raising our children differently, then in 50 years, in 100 years, boys will no longer have the pressure to prove their masculinity".

She advocates a balance which core feminists disagree with. In fact she makes a case for boys or men too and of course she made a lot of sense. Beyonce is not really a feminist except you now want to say because she included Chinamanda's speech on feminism in one of her songs makes her one. Even at that, last time, there were news about beyonce's marriage being in turmoil. Chinamnda still maintains her maiden name even though she is married.

Any way let me include the prenup agreements between Beyonce and Jayz for you reading pleasure . You be the judge.

The prenup calls for Jay Z to pay Beyonce $10 million if the marriage ends after 2 years, and $1 million a year for each further year she remains in the marriage, up to 15 years ...

He promised to pay her an additional $5 million for each child she bears for him - for her loss of income during the pregnancy and child rearing years ...

And Beyonce would be granted access to their private jet and fleet of cars, which includes a $1 million 1959 Rolls-Royce convertible.

IS THIS A MARRIAGE OR A BUSINESS PROPOSAL?

flawless..S:
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Beyonce Knowle.

Gbam!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hg3umXU_qWc


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fu-GHmdfKE4

LOL!
Callo de Callo,real and true. Happy holidays honey.

@Topic , feminism on nld family section
Shoe shiners

^^^thanks for that. I have some question to ask first who is a feminist 2. what do u mean by mainstream feminist? beyonce is a feminist listen to her songs and also the interview is granted on why she featured chimamanda I should love to share a link but am on phone now.

dinachi: I know that feminism is the greatest cause of divorces in Nigeria at the moment. One of the most recent being the marriage of Commediene Princess which just hit the rocks. Well a little digging has confirmed that none of the world renowned feminists have a great marriage. Most end up as Lesbians or Never married women or multiple divorces. What is wrong with feminism?

@Dinachi, how do you know?

dommfa:

Why you so pained though..did you just get divorced by your feminist wife..?

Anyway, prove to us that princess is a feminist or her marriage was ruined because of feminism or forever remain silent..

I have no business with any confused woman who calls herself a feminist in Nigeria. If you spend equally with me without complaints, then I am okay with it and can listen to your gibberish. If not you can take your feminist ideology and shove it up your ass. Most feminists are rude to men and humility is not one of their virtues. The fact that Commedienne Princess went to twitter to call out the pastor of a church because she was not allowed to sit in the front because of her skimpy irresponsible dress portrays her as a woman without humility which is a hallmark of most feminists!

dinachi: I know that feminism is the greatest cause of divorces in Nigeria at the moment. One of the most recent being the marriage of Commediene Princess which just hit the rocks. Well a little digging has confirmed that none of the world renowned feminists have a great marriage. Most end up as Lesbians or Never married women or multiple divorces. What is wrong with feminism?

PLEASE, Nigerian women IN NIGERIA ESPECIALLY GET MARRIED OUT OF DESPERATION!
When a successful woman gets hitched to a LAZY man. . . what do you expect?

ALL THE NOLLYWOOD FEMALES ARE THE BREAD-WINNERS IN THE HOMES. . . Where are the men to be supportive?
Who wants to leave with a LAZY BEAST, given to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

Which of those Nigerian woman are not BATTERED WOMEN?

Feminisim means COUNT YOUR LOSES AND GET THE HELL OUT OF OF A USELESS MARRIAGE!!!!

Phock 'em men!

I am an a FEMINIST-HOOKER. . . IN MARRIAGE!!!! I LOVE PDP BIG BOYS!!!! Bite me!

ifyalways: LOL!
Callo de Callo,real and true. Happy holidays honey.

@Topic , feminism on nld family section
Shoe shiners

Happy holidays dearie. . . nice topic huhn?

flawless..S:
^^^thanks for that. I have some question to ask first who is a feminist 2. what do u mean by mainstream feminist? beyonce is a feminist listen to her songs and also the interview is granted on why she featured chimamanda I should love to share a link but am on phone now.

Beyonce's marriage to Jay z is a business proposal. Did you see excerpts of the pre-nup agreement I posted earlier?

Fallotti:

PLEASE, Nigerian women IN NIGERIA ESPECIALLY GET MARRIED OUT OF DESPERATION!
When a successful woman gets hitched to a LAZY man. . . what do you expect?

ALL THE NOLLYWOOD FEMALES ARE THE BREAD-WINNERS IN THE HOMES. . . Where are the men to be supportive?
Who wants to leave with a LAZY BEAST, given to DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

Which of those Nigerian woman are not BATTERED WOMEN?

Feminisim means COUNT YOUR LOSES AND GET THE HELL OUT OF OF A USELESS MARRIAGE!!!!

Phock 'em men!

I am an a FEMINIST-HOOKER. . . IN MARRIAGE!!!! I LOVE PDP BIG BOYS!!!! Bite me!

@ bolded, simply stated you love sugar daddies!

The thing wey dey vess me sointines na when NIGERIANS DISCUSS MARRIAGE. . .
Are there marriages in NIGERIA?
Desperate old cargos fasting and praying for spouses BECAUSE the society EXPECTS them to use their azzzzzzzzzzzes to survive UNDER A MAN aka MRS AT ALL COST. . . .?
In 90% of cases THE NIGERIAN MEN ARE NOT MARRIAGEABLE. . . BUT ABUSIVE PSYCHOS!!!!

What kind of marriages do we have in NIGERIA. . . ? 90% of them are SHAMS!

Is it not because of the EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE SOME DAFT GOD STARTED. . . BY VISCIOUSLY PLUCKING OFF THE RIB OF ONE MAD MAN TO MAKE A DENSE FEMALE. . . females have never rested on this planet.

BY THAT SAME DANE GOD. . .WE OWE YOU OUR LIVES AND DEATHS!

Na lie! I SAY YOU JAM THE ROCK OF ALL AGES!!! Na una go die first and last!!!! IN THE HANDS OF THE MOST VICIOUS FEMINISTS LIKE MOI IF YOU PULL ANY CHUVANISTIC STUNT WITHIN 2 CONTINENT RADIUS AROUND US!


Feminism is here to stay. . . as a LEGITIMATE PROTEST AGAINST THE BRUTISH MENTALITIES OF ANIMALS CALLED ABUSIVE MEN!

OH YES O. . .WE ARE STILL MARRIED. . . AND WE DO NOT TRUST AND OBEY SHYTE EITHER! NOT YOU THE MAN OR YOUR PHOCKING GOD!

IF YOU WANT SOME RESPECT. . .AND THIS POOHSIE . . . YOU WILL HAVE TO EARN IT . . . THE HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARD WAY. . .COME AND PHOCK OR TURN GAYYYYLORD!!!!!

NOT IN THIS MY HOUSE!!!!! IF YOU TRY ANY NONSENSE. . . YOU WILL BE DEALT WITH IN THE LANGUAGE YOU UNDERSTAND. . .AKA FEMINISM!!!!

*I endorse this message*!

dinachi:

Beyonce's marriage to Jay z is a business proposal. Did you see excerpts of the pre-nup agreement I posted earlier?

answer my questions please

flawless..S:
answer my questions please

Google is your friend.

Dinachi, feminism has come to stay. Stick to your kind if you don't love women. Don't worry, they will soon legalize the gay bill.
If not, go get yourself some village wacko to knee and suc k your

No need having high blood pressure over what ppl do in their bedroom and marriages.

dinachi its the male folks that made us feminist. if we are treated well no one will one to be a feminist

dinachi:

@ bolded, simply stated you love sugar daddies!

Yes! MARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRIED SUGAR DADDIES ONLY BECAUSE I AM MARRIED TOO! Any problem?
I don't mess with 'widowed. . .divorced. . . or single' UNMARRIAGEABLES.

For me to look in your direction. . . YOU MUST BE MARRIED LIKE MYSELF. . . .WITH MONEY TOO!!!!

NO YORUBAS OR IGBOS PLEASE!
Northerners or SOUTH-SOUTHERNERS ONLY. . .NO EDO STATE MEN PLEASE. . . TUFIAKWA!

Abi JIM IYKE AND CHIDI MOKEME nor get sugar MOMMAS?
Why must my own be different?
It is not fight o. . . I ALWAYS MAKE MY MEN KNOW. . .IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT. . .GERRRRRRRRROUT OF MY LIFE!
Na dem dey chase moi. . .because I AM SWEEEEEEEEEET TO BE WITH. . . AND I KEEP THEM HAPPY ALWAYS!

And my husband too! A FEMINIST CAN LOVE MORE THAN ONE MAN! As long as she does not KILL any of them WITH OR WITHOUT REMOTE CONTROLS to answer 'OFEGE WIDOW'!
After all MEN have been getting away with NUMEROUS PARTNERS in the names of the BIBLE and TRADITION.
Guess what. . . FEMINISM MEANS. . . .EQUAL OPPORTUNITY PHOCKING. . . no cheating!
If you catch a disease from GOD OR SATAN. . . BY ALL MEANS DIE AND LET THE WORLD REST!

The show must go on! SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST. . .FIRST TO QUENCH. . . NO NEED TO FAST AND PRAY. . . WHAT IS YOURS IS YOURS TILL NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT!!!!

WHO DEY FEAR TO DIE. . . NA IM DEY FEAR TO LIVE . . .I ain't no DENSE CHRISTIAN HYPOCRITE!!!!

flawless..S:
dinachi its the male folks that made us feminist. if we are treated well no one will one to be a feminist

That is neither here no there. Chinamanda Adichie's speech on feminism makes a lot of sense. The world is changing but the truth remains that certain things should be left the way they are for balance. Men and women need to imbibe the change to move forward that is where core feminists miss it. You can't demand equality but give nothing in return. A man will gladly accept feminists ideology if the wife shares equal responsibility in all things. You can't demand equality only when ,you want his help in washing dishes, taking care of children, cooking and cleaning the house but decline when it comes to paying bills! That is double standards. And then you should be able to rise to the challenge when the man is financially down without any complaints. That is the only brand of feminism that makes sense to me. Men for centuries have been taking care of their families without complaints but a situation where a woman does that for a short period and complains proves she is not a true feminist.

And those who think, I don't love women are wrong. I cherish the female folk but I hate nonsense!