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Some ladies are that good..
Dated an Asian for over 5 years and she was my anti hbp medication 💊.., chill, respectful and never argumentative..

Not all these karashikaas over here who think shouting "you must kee me today" makes them look tough and right..

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

It's impossible. He shouldn't deceive himself. There is no way one would be married with the opposite sex without having any misunderstanding. It's tolerance
, respect and understanding that keep marriages going.

There's nothing to be proud of about a performative lifestyle.

Why argue when you can throw hands?🌝

I'm not surprised sha.. They're the ones enjoying the country so it's normal for them to paint their marriage perfect

They have their targeted audience sha

WeirdAlien:
Even Peter argued with Jesus - when he refused for Jesus to wash his feet at first. Noah argued with God and went the opposite direction. Jacob fought an angel one-on-one.
That's being human.

Which one is you never argued with your wife. Or did you mean "hot arguments" or "quarrels" or "shouting matches"
Even if you married an angel or you're one yourself, you must have differences.

Obidient reasoning capacity at work here.

How does Peter's expression of humility to Jesus becomes an argument in the context the pastor is talking of?

Is he Noah or Peter that he must argue with his wife simply because they did?

Does not arguing with his wife equates not arguing in life at all?

This is why you must watch your political trolling habits, the side effects tells on the IQ.

Define Argument?

werisetogether:
Depends on how he defines "argument"

Some people define arguments as "shouting matches"

But not all arguments need to result in raised voices.

Now, if he's saying himself and his wife have NEVER had differences of opinion on issues, that's another story altogether...

Exactly

On top money flowing in and out...
Were you go get time for argument and busy schedules....
Stay indoors for just 3 months and no money you go understand other people

Keep gossiping at the back of those who are ahead of you. They are newsmakers. They make the news. You read about them.

Who pass you don pass you o

Why not channel your energies into developing yourself so that you can make the news and let people read about you? Do you want to remain a nondescript all your life?

Says the oracle. Correct and final.

Finito

InvertedHammer:
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That's his truth. They have their target audience.
The message is not intended for everyone especially those with functional brain and common sense.

/

Uchesis:
I've never fell sick since i was born


If you believe that then you will believe the fake pastor's son

I live under the ocean too...

Marriages have their own uniqueness. Whatever works for you is fine as long as you are together and don't beat up each other.
A healthy marriage needs some spark. Such a spark could be the petty arguments. But it keeps your marriage strong. It is when you tell each other the truth, as expected of a healthy and honest marriage, that you have such arguments. A marriage built on telling each other the truth will certainly have some arguments here and there. A marriage between a master and a slave will not have such a healthy argument because one has been trained not to have an opinion.

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

Oga mi, once there is plenty money in the family, a woman will be submissive absolutely, no argument.
Pray you do not go broke, else you will see the other side of that your loving no-argument wife

It's easy when one is a mugu.


Capisce?

Tareq1105:
✓ The main reason for constant arguments is Finance and he doesn't have problems with that so every other issue are minor.

Nonsense! Claim!😩😩

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

The only reason why your wife would never argue with you is if
1) she has a quiet spirit
2) she has a low self esteem
3) she is afraid of loosing you cos of the numerous female protocol around you
4) you attend to all her needs
5)you guys surrendered your home to Jesus Christ.
But my own human guess is that you avoid confrontation... when she wan change am for you..you go dey run.

Lies from the pit of hell.


Yoruba!



Hmmm.

Natbrowny:
Define Argument?

Notice how you religious/traditional folks are ever seeking ways to redefine words to suit your particular narrative. Na so Christianity come get over 46000 different denominations, each boasting of a different narrative about the same entity --- all of them in direct conflict with the original story contained in the book called the Bible. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Blitzking:
✓ The only reason why your wife would never argue with you is if
1) she has a quiet spirit
2) she has a low self esteem
3) she is afraid of loosing you cos of the numerous female protocol around you
4) you attend to all her needs
5)you guys surrendered your home to Jesus Christ.
But my own human guess is that you avoid confrontation... when she wan change am for you..you go dey run.

The only reason a human being would not argue with another human is if said person is a slave in the contract that binds the two. It is simple as that. Even your very own children would argue with you, talk less of a complete blood stranger

Lamba

Why will his wife argue with him,when d money keep rolling.

Anywhere you hear talks like this, know that, the wife is at the driving seat while the husband is the woman wrapper, because marital argument is a critical ingredients that shape and balance marriage.

If a couple says this then they have been pretending all those years or they are lying!!!

werisetogether:
Depends on how he defines "argument"

Some people define arguments as "shouting matches"

But not all arguments need to result in raised voices.

Now, if he's saying himself and his wife have NEVER had differences of opinion on issues, that's another story altogether...

Well, by the definition of the word "Argument, I don't think the man is truthful.

Kobojunkie:
The only reason a human being would not argue with another human is if said person is a slave in the contract that binds the two. It is simple as that. Even your very own children would argue with you, talk less of a complete blood stranger

Pls, tell the dude more.

Even, arguments comes in from many issues: from the smallest issue of what channel to watch.

Kobojunkie:
Never had an argument in 17 years? These talebearers are at it again.🙄🙄🙄

If two human beings are in a informal relationship, disagreements and arguments are to be expected. 🤔

If I have never argued with someone for even a month, that means there is no improvement at all. Arguments or disagreements helps to voice our concerns and hear the other person point of view. And at times you yield. My staff comes late and I ask why, she says she wasn't able to buy water in the morning because the people selling water resumes at a particular time. I have been there before and I understand this, so I let go and I won't ever get upset for such an excuse. That's the purpose of disagreement. We disagree to agree at times.

Back to the pastor issue, he's lying to the world and one can't pretend for even one year. We all are imperfect and make mistakes and may annoy our spouse in one way or the other. The major thing is to resolve the challenges amicably.

Calm down, you still young. And remember the money and spiritual hoodwinking.

Pastor Dey lie

Daejumong:
‘No argument with my wife in 17 yrs of marriage’- Pastor David Oyedepo Jnr.

Having arguments in marriage can actually be healthy!

Why Arguments Matter in Marriage
1. They Build Trust
-When couples argue respectfully, they show that it’s safe to express disagreement.Over time, this builds emotional security and openness

2. They show Hidden Issues
• Arguments often reveal concerns that have been hiding beneath the surface.Addressing these early prevents issues from growing• It is better to release tension than let it explode later.

3. They Promote Honesty
• In conflict, people often speak their raw truth. This can lead to better understanding and connection.

4. They Improve Communication Skills
• Learning to argue well—without yelling or shutting down—teaches conflict resolution.

5. They Strengthen the Bond
• Working through disagreements shows commitment• Couples who resolve conflict together often feel more united afterward.

6. They Establish Boundaries
• Arguments clarify what’s okay and what’s not.
• They help couples define personal limits and mutual expectations

“A little conflict can build trust, so approach disagreements with respect to grow closer”

• Proverbs 15:1 — “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
• Ephesians 4:26 — “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.”
• James 1:19 — “Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.”

Dae Jumong 12/09/25

Whats there to argue, baba na boss, son na boss. Money dey. Connect dey, as long as they not overbearing, whats there to complain about. Even bible says an wise and excellent woman builds her home...

There are some things you don't argue, just enjoy, else, you short changing yourself.