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What the lawyer said is true

One told me she can't live with my mum even before I marry here. I despose the weyrey.

This dude made sense!!!
Your wife can divorce you, but your siblings can't.
It get why!!! But I know you will still argue.

Wife don show this one pepper

Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

See his wig like mopping stick. My wife is my new family . The moment I left my home , my wife is my family. I will always respect my family be it my wife or my siblings. But guess what ? I will prioritize my wife over my family if need be and as long as it is reasonable. No sane person will say I should prioritize my wife's want for a new bag over helping siblings on health, school etc. Any wife that that sees that as an issue is a witch . Na una dey marry werey women. But if it is important for my wife and kids , family will understand .

This dude made sense!!!
Your wife can divorce you, but your siblings can't.
It get why!!! But I know you will still argue.

You took another person's daughter from her kindred, have her bear your kids , drop her father's name and take yours. Yet you can't prioritise her. Òrọ wèrè.

The law and burnt look like...

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, the wife is an outsider. The traditional system of marriage makes this abundantly clear. I wish Nigerian women would realize and accept this fact already.

In the western world she is even more of a stranger. Just let something come between you and see how she will strip you to your pants. Nobody said you should neglect your wife, but never disregard your siblings because you are married.

Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

This from satan.
Your wife is your own flesh.

Mark 10
.6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.

You no go 4get ur siblings but ur wife na ur wife.

Unless you belong to them that have 72 oloshos, then bros what can I say

tosyne2much:
That lawyer is a narcissist

A good wife could even be better than a man's mother

ha... Una dey talk oo. How will your wife be better then your own mother.

Nten:
Confirm true story! A wife that me ay wake up one day and say it's over. She wants a divorce versus your family that will stay with you forever through thick and thin.

So your own brothers and sisters will prioritize you over their own spouses?

You are now their extended family member!

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
➜In the western world she is even more of a stranger. Just let something come between you and see how she will strip you to your pants. Nobody said you should neglect your wife, but never disregard your siblings because you are married.

A person who shares your property in marriage is not a stranger.

The Western world values women more than the African traditional marriage system does. That bond in the Western world, between a man and his wife, is certified by Law. However, in Nigeria, the man and his family can freely change their minds anytime they want, and the woman can say nothing of it. She is no different from a contract employee without benefits or meaningful compensation (literally a slave in most cases) who can be laid off at anytime. let's start by not lying to ourselves at least!

SINisSIN:
En en....some men dey o. I can imagine what the wife will be passing through.

Na you know the nonsense wey you carry put for house o but for me, my wife is my number one family. My siblings have their own family too, sibling is sibling, wife is wife. No confusion!

On my own side, my wife, my children, my siblings, myself, my parents are one indivisible family entity.

See his burnt lips.

Ancient smoker.

If you like, see your wife as an outsider, that's your problem.

MichaelUweh:
This dude made sense!!!
Your wife can divorce you, but your siblings can't.
It get why!!! But I know you will still argue.

leave them... Imagine someone above even saying some wife are better then mother. How will a senseable person say his wife is better then his mother. Kai some men cuz of woman sha

SINisSIN:
En en....some men dey o. I can imagine what the wife will be passing through.

Na you know the nonsense wey you carry put for house o but for me, my wife is my number one family. My siblings have their own family too, sibling is sibling, wife is wife. No confusion!

Stop making noise here.

In your land and bank accounts you used your wife as next-of-kin but I'm very sure that she is not using you as her next-of-kin in her property documents

Amugbo lawyer, gbogbo ete lo dudu hoho.

Akanniade:
You took another person's daughter from her kindred, have her bear your kids , drop her father's name and take yours. Yet you can't prioritise her. Òrọ wèrè.

She’s not an outsider but my love for my siblings is unshakable

Wife don show Oga lawyer pepper.. or he is probably speaking based on what he has seen in cases he handled.

He is right to some extent.. because most times when a man is down Financially or healthwise,most wives don't stay long before they move on. She might even still be pretending to be there,but she will be having affairs outside. But family will always be there for you,most especially your mom. Except na cabucabu family,you follow come o..

Her reason for being in my life,is the kids.. And if she misbehaves ,the door is always wide open. I know what I passed through to be where I am today. In my hustling days na my family dey with me,so she can't come and be forming owner of me or my hux o.. NEVER!

Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

Everyone won't have miserable marriage like wale.
He is talking from his failed marriage

Good by this stupid logic then his mother is an outsider, so what does that make his so called siblings who were birthed by an outsider? This is the most stupid thing I have ever heard. Just choose a good wife and you won't need to think like this.

SINisSIN:
En en....some men dey o. I can imagine what the wife will be passing through.

Na you know the nonsense wey you carry put for house o but for me, my wife is my number one family. My siblings have their own family too, sibling is sibling, wife is wife. No confusion!

You don go

To each, his own.

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, the wife is an outsider. The traditional system of marriage makes this abundantly clear. I wish Nigerian women would realize and accept this fact already.

hope your siblings can take care of your children when you kpai

budaatum:
Your wife that will have baby children for you, is an outsider?

Okay o.

I hope you let the baby children she has for you in.

Let me ask you a question - Did you use your husband as next-of-kin in your banks accounts and life assurance policy?

Mindlog:
So your own brothers and sisters will prioritize you over their own spouses?

You are now their extended family member!

Actually not that perspective

iamjavadem:
Good by this stupid logic then his mother is an outsider, so what does that make his so called siblings who were birthed by an outsider? This is the most stupid thing I have ever heard. Just choose a good wife and you won't need to think like this.

A good wife of today when you have everything,might be something else tomorrow,when a man is down. You won't blame the lawyer,he is only advising men to be wise . Don't trust that gender too much. She giving you kids doesn't mean she can't change tomorrow. Another thing is have you even done DNA to know the kids are yours?

Don't trust too much,cux of food ,yansh and tor Tor my guy

Nten:
Actually not that perspective

Kindly share your perspective.

It depends, some wives are better than some siblings and vice versa.
Some siblings are useless and can’t be vouch for, same as some wives.
We have seen wives that want their husbands dead and we have seen siblings that want their brothers dead because of properties

NosyParrot:
Let me ask you a question - Did you use your husband as next-of-kin in your banks accounts and life assurance policy?

Husband. If I die he will use it to raise our children.

Your wife or husband is the only family you can choose, your siblings and parents are families you have no choice in choosing, you were born into it.
There are some families that are good while some are terrible, most times the families you come from can destroy you.

My point is your parents or siblings will live their lives while your wife or husband become the family you choose with your own hands and they are the ones that will stay with your through sickness and in health, to your old age.

So make sure you choose the right person so you won't come online to be saying your wife or husband is an outsider, someone you bear children for and sleep with in the same bed everyday.