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Is that the lawyer, if yes, kindly ignore his advice and focus on your life.
Everyone has their place for me, and none will encroach on the others space, including friends.
Na so Una dey start wife, mother, mother in-law, sister, sister in-law, etc wahala.

This advice can't work for me!
My siblings all have their immediate families to hold and manage, my wife is a very crucial part of my own immediate family.
Infact she's the closest to me!

Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men

Look at his mouth
Say No to weed!

I am a Christian and I believe that a man shall leave his father, and mother, and cling to his wife and both of them shall become one!

This advice is either coming from a man who married a bad wife, or from a man who smoked excess weed!

Your siblings are gift from God but your wife is a deity from God because she will give you something from you that you don't know exit.

budaatum:
Your wife that will have baby children for you, is an outsider?

Okay o.

I hope you let the baby children she has for you in.

Don't mine the charge and bail lawyer

Port8080:
I am a Christian and I believe that a man shall leave his father, and mother, and cling to his wife and both of them shall become one!

This advice is either coming from a man who married a bad wife, or from a man who smoked excess weed!

maybe because of too many failed marriage's and child support issue up and down.

Normal level na.

My wife will always continue to be a stranger to me.

My mum, brother, and children are my top priorities.

How on earth will you call somebody who gave birth to your children an outsider?
Tolling this path is tantamount to preparing the suffering your children will experience after your demise.
In some tribe the wife you didn’t even treat as an outsider they chase out, talk less of the one treated as an outsider.

Kobojunkie:
A person who shares your property in marriage is not a stranger.

The Western world values women more than the African traditional marriage system does. That bond in the Western world, between a man and his wife, is certified by Law. However, in Nigeria, the man and his family can freely change their minds anytime they want, and the woman can say nothing of it. let's start by not lying to ourselves at least!

Certified by law indeed for the woman to leave and take the money, kids and everything for absolutely no reason. Mstchew!

Nten:
Confirm true story! A wife that may wake up one day and say it's over. She wants a divorce versus your family that will stay with you forever through thick and thin. In some way he is partially right though.

Hmmmmm 🤔

That's if she's yet to have kids for ya...but as long as she got kids for you then she's completely in and sure...

Fake lawyer

Taking an advice from someone who looks dead is not always a good idea.

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, the wife is an outsider. The traditional system of marriage makes this abundantly clear. I wish Nigerian women would realize and accept this fact already.

Which Nigeria traditional system makes it abundantly clear

Kobojunkie:
Which god joined who and who together?

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While we are on the subject, the Nigerian idea of marriage has the woman abandoning her father and mother and taking on the last name of her husband in an attempt to loosely anchor herself — she remains an outsider that can be discarded on a whim—to her husband and his family. But the Book of Genesis, which Nigeria pretends documents their God, instead insists that it is the man who ought to leave his father and mother. Clearly, you need to be specific when it comes to this god thing.

Wait until all your siblings marry and face their families, that's when all you wrote here will add up to your regrets....

The question is , your siblings that you are prioritizing first , are they also thinking same for you

The major topic to discuss is actually the behavior of your wife over your siblings and you too...

Whereas some wives marry and still work things out for their siblings, same shall be to the man too...

It is only when the husband and the Wife realises that they are one bond, that's when marriage will start...

ArcSEMPECJ:
➜Wait until all your siblings marry and face their families, that's when all you wrote here will add up to your regrets....
The question is , your siblings that you are prioritizing first , are they also thinking same for you The major topic to discuss is actually the behavior of your wife over your siblings and you too...Whereas some wives marry and still work things out for their siblings, same shall be to the man too... It is only when the husband and the Wife realises that they are one bond, that's when marriage will start...

Why comprehension dey almost always fail una?

Some people just wake up and start writing rub.bish!! Look at disheveled this fellow is; tells so much about his mindset.

Some men will want to counter what this lawyer is saying,ask yourself this question will your wife prioritize you over her family?

Truth be told even a wife will prioritize her children over her husband this is just the reality on ground

But men won't just listen

Is this guy truly a lawyer? I want to know the uni he graduated from. The mother of my children and same children that will continue my lineage is an outsider.
This one just want to trend and ladies this is a red flag with sprinkle of gold dust. Run from this kind men.

Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh...

Kobojunkieee:
Why comprehension dey almost always fail una?

Except you lack the message you were trying to pass ..

Sonnobax15:

Not everyone who's related to you by blood can be your family.....I learned that as a lesson for the past few years...........But sometimes,that your wife may even turn out to be your source of upliftment...

story of my life

All this drunkard lawyer coat

SINisSIN:
Where did you hear this fact? I’m curious. Also, does your father treat your mum like an outsider, or is he currently doing so?

Get. The fact right. He said "priorities" over siblings. because ur wife values her sobbings than ur siblings

ArcSEMPECJ:
➜Except you lack the message you were trying to pass ..

You are told that the traditional Nigerian marriage system has the woman positioned as an outsider in the marriage, and that is the response you were able to come back with? Next time, check your comprehension meter after reading to be certain your understanding is sound, to begin with.

Kobojunkieee:
You are told that the traditional Nigerian marriage system has the woman positioned as an outsider in the marriage, and that is the response you were able to come back with? Next time, check your comprehension meter after reading to be certain your understanding is sound, to begin with.

Like I said , the traditional Nigerian marriage system never positioned the women as any outsider.....except you meant your own tribe tradition not my own tribe....

I was able to give you instances where your own narrative can work but you lacked the merit to subjugate your mental assessment into my deliberate help....

Well, we have nothing to gain or lose, is all like a parallel line ...follow your school or thought pls....

Sonnobax15:

Not everyone who's related to you by blood can be your family.....I learned that as a lesson for the past few years...........But sometimes,that your wife may even turn out to be your source of upliftment...

Exactly what I was trying to teach one of them here but he was trying to Prof me over it like he is a marriage counselor with many Certificates.... 😂