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Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says - Family (4) - Nairaland

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Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by PUNANI01: 9:02pm On Sep 16, 2025
Nawaooo! Everyday new madness
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 9:02pm On Sep 16, 2025
Justiceleague1:
That's if she's yet to have kids for ya...but as long as she got kids for you then she's completely in and sure...
The ones wey dem dey abandon along with the kids the had are yet to have kids, ba? huh
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 9:02pm On Sep 16, 2025
Kukutente23:
➜Which Nigeria traditional system makes it abundantly clear
The very same one you know of. undecided
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 9:05pm On Sep 16, 2025
ArcSEMPECJ:
➜Like I said , the traditional Nigerian marriage system never positioned the women as any outsider.....except you meant your own tribe tradition not my own tribe....
➜I was able to give you instances where your own narrative can work but you lacked the merit to subjugate your mental assessment into my deliberate help.... Well, we have nothing to gain or lose, is all like a parallel line ...follow your school or thought pls....
So, your own tribe ensures that all marriage property belongs to both the man and woman in the marriage, then? Interesting! What is the name of your tribe so we can investigate this claim of yours. huh

2. Instances? You must be operating under a very serious delusion there to assume you did what you claim, cause I don't see any such. undecided
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by AgentNairaland(f): 9:07pm On Sep 16, 2025
Which kind lawyer be dis with this kind of lips..

Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Kukutente23: 9:07pm On Sep 16, 2025
Kobojunkie:
The very same one you know of. undecided
That's a lie
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by zubinike(m): 9:20pm On Sep 16, 2025
Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men
This nah craze nah, how in the world will you prioritize siblings who have played their part in your early beginning with someone who is to play her part to your future and the end ?

Lawyer stay your lane
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by inyass2580(m): 9:20pm On Sep 16, 2025
Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men
So ur siblings can av kids for u? Can dy?

Nonsense post
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by jaxxy(m): 9:22pm On Sep 16, 2025
All these promiscuous men chasing anything in skits are the one who look for these types of excuses to cover and comfort themselves. undecided

Anybody that is in ur corner and having ur best interest is an outsider. it can be Anybody even ur family if they go rogue.

However ideally ur family, siblings or wife should not be outsiders but this depends largely on their character and values.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Jumbojax(m): 9:33pm On Sep 16, 2025
What's the difference between them, sister or wife, are both not still slavery to the same feminist machine. Redpill or die tongue
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Odebayo4010(m): 9:43pm On Sep 16, 2025
budaatum:
Your wife that will have baby children for you, is an outsider?

Okay o.

I hope you let the baby children she has for you in.
You fail to realize that only your blood love you,you will not understand me until you have health challenges,you better value your family because they're the only people that can stand for you when you're down
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by AgentnairaIand: 9:52pm On Sep 16, 2025
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Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by tosyne2much(m): 9:58pm On Sep 16, 2025
ajalawole:
ha... Una dey talk oo. How will your wife be better then your own mother.
Very possible!
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by tosyne2much(m): 10:00pm On Sep 16, 2025
Nten:
Confirm true story! A wife that may wake up one day and say it's over. She wants a divorce versus your family that will stay with you forever through thick and thin. In some way he is partially right though.
And you haven't seen mothers that abandon their children?

This thing a a two way thing
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by lailo: 10:05pm On Sep 16, 2025
awon adviser isonu. Dont follow everything u read online. Most are for cruise grin
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by budaatum: 10:12pm On Sep 16, 2025
Odebayo4010:
You fail to realize that only your blood love you,you will not understand me until you have health challenges,you better value your family because they're the only people that can stand for you when you're down
My husband, our children, our family, I agree.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by lincs25(m): 10:13pm On Sep 16, 2025
This lawyer is highly on hard substance
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by tosyne2much(m):
iOYEN:
How on earth will you call somebody who gave birth to your children an outsider?
Tolling this path is tantamount to preparing the suffering your children will experience after your demise.
In some tribe the wife you didn’t even treat as an outsider they chase out, talk less of the one treated as an outsider.
When you hear some people's philosophy about marriage, you can easily tell if they married a bad spouse or not
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Konquest: 10:25pm On Sep 16, 2025
Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men
Once you're married to her and she has biological kids for you, she ceases to be a TRUE "outsider."

However, you do NOT ditch your biological siblings for your wife except they have been rude to you in the past, then you can keep them at arms length in a WORSE case scenario.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Smartwave: 10:32pm On Sep 16, 2025
Since Dino Malaye become a lawyer, then I have conclude........ Lawyers are not learned.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by pongwa(m): 10:35pm On Sep 16, 2025
Chilipepper:
Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings. They Are Your Blood While She Is An Outsider— Nigerian Lawyer Advises Men
' the blood of the covenant is stronger than the water of the womb'.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by aribisala0(m): 10:37pm On Sep 16, 2025
In this life every thing has its season
There is morning, afternoon and evening then there is night

The only person that is number one in every season is yourself

We are born alone and we die alone
There is a season when a child is number one for its mother
In another season she pushes the child away from her breast

No season lasts for ever

The first spiritual lesson is to grasp impermanence

Are you not deceiving yourself when you claim to love something that will spoil, die and disappear

Paul said he would never betray Jesus
Jesus said you will betray me 3 times before morning

That should tell us
our promises mean nothing
they are empty
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by chidiokay: 10:47pm On Sep 16, 2025
Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, the wife is an outsider. The traditional system of marriage makes this abundantly clear. I wish Nigerian women would realize and accept this fact already. They gain absolutely nothing from marrying under the traditional marriage banner. sad
in which passage or verse did tradition emphasized a Wife is an outsider and should be treated as such ... you just like misyarning

how many outsider bears same surname as you, how many outsider shares DNA with your children, which outsider plus so called sibling can take care of your kids like there mom

If anyone understands the bible verse, two shall become one, you will understand that prioritizing your wife literally is prioritizing YOU .... or would you have prioritize your siblings over you

Normally naa woman dey leave im papa house ... but there is a reason the bible commanded " and a man shall

Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Abbeytoy(m): 10:51pm On Sep 16, 2025
budaatum:
Your wife that will have baby children for you, is an outsider?

Okay o.

I hope you let the baby children she has for you in.
Anybody can have a baby for someone.

Lessons learnt in hard way
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Advancedman(m): 10:52pm On Sep 16, 2025
Naturally Every male child is born a Prince while the female is born a princess and they grow independently and trained specifically that one day the man will be a king and the woman a queen in their own kingdom as father and mother of the Realm.

A wife and husband union is more than sibling relationship infact it an ultra high dimension.

For a lawyer to say that it means he doesn't know what is marriage.. but the charade being peddled as one.
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by chidiokay: 10:53pm On Sep 16, 2025
MichaelUweh:
This dude made sense!!!
Your wife can divorce you, but your siblings can't.
It get why!!! But I know you will still argue.
Your sibling can't divorce you cos the option never exist But your Siblings can " Abandon" you ...

i can tell you for free there are siblings who have not spoken to one another in decades
paul and peter of psquare are twins did dey not abandon one another, even Mama fit abandon pikin

go find another thing talk
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by chidiokay: 10:55pm On Sep 16, 2025
ajalawole:
One told me she can't live with my mum even before I marry here. I despose the weyrey.
And why will she live with your mom .... did your mom live with your Dad mom

if you are a xtain, did the bible say you will bring your wife to live with your mom

Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 10:57pm On Sep 16, 2025
chidiokay:
➜in which passage or verse did tradition emphasized a Wife is an outsider and should be treated as such ... you just like misyarning. how many outsider bears same surname as you, how many outsider shares DNA with your children, which outsider plus so called sibling can take care of your kids like there mom.
➜If anyone understands the bible verse, two shall become one, you will understand that prioritizing your wife literally is prioritizing YOU .... or would you have prioritize your siblings over you. Normally naa woman dey leave im papa house ... but there is a reason the bible commanded " and a man shall
So, because a woman takes her husband's name and the children she bears share her DNA and the man's DNA in marriage, that automatically means that everything that belongs to her husband belongs to her too....she is not an outsider? Are you sure you are OK? huh

2. According to the book which you pretend to quote from, the man is expected to leave his father and mother — the woman is never commanded to leave her father and her mother —to become one with the woman. That is not the case with either your traditional marriage system or your court system. So, why are you desperate to link what you have in Nigeria with that which is foreign to it? undecided
Re: Do Not Prioritize Your Wife Above Your Siblings, She Is An Outsider: Lawyer Says by tunapawizzy: 11:01pm On Sep 16, 2025
ajalawole:
ha... Una dey talk oo. How will your wife be better then your own mother.
i read what he wrote and i just de shake my head..like wtf
-some of them need to be in serious distress before they know the true colour of the partner they married.
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